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... Send *elleeashton a private message | | | *elleeashton's profile:IM 18 YEARS OLD AND IN NURSING SCHOOL. I DON'T HAVE A BOYFRIEND, I CAN'T SEEM TO FIND A DECENT ONE LOL, MY PRINCE CHARMING WILL COME ONE DAY BUT I GUESS ITS ALL SCHOOL FOR RIGHT NOW :). I HAVE AN AMAZING OLDER BROTHER, HE IS MY INSPIRATION AS WELL AS MY HERO. I LOVE HIM WITH ALL MY HEART. IM HARDWORKING, DEDICATED, AND RESPONSIBLE. IM REALLY SHY BUT I TALK ALOT ONCE YOU GET TO KNOW ME. ANYTHING ELSE? JUST ASK :) |
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Should I resign myself to my current unhappy life or pursue the new relationship...it's just so hard. Is there an answer?
Q. I don't know where to begin, so I will start with some background information. I have been married for 20 years, have a child in college, 1 in high school and 1 in 4th grade. I got married at age 26. When I dated my wife we had a lot in com...
A. 9 December 2009: i disagree with the first answer. obviously you love her and have tried to work it out. i think you will miss your old life and it will be a hard change but a happier one. dont do it for the new girl at allm do it for you because you want to leave.... (read in full...)
Everyone started picking on me about this girl - even my teacher!
Q. I propose a girl 2 months ago . She said that she wont believe in commitment . Even though i keep falling for her. We become good friends. Everytime we met i told her that i like her. I regularly told about this to my friend . She also started ...
A. 9 December 2009: i know you really liked and it doesnt seem fair. she probably does like you too but not enough to overcome social pressures which means its not meant to be. focus on yourself and ignor them.talk to your teacher about it he probably doesnt know hes ... (read in full...)
18th birthday plans have been cancelled and I feel very let down. What can I do now?
Q. my 18th birthday is coming up soon. previously i had been looking forward to spending time with my entire family as some of my other family members live overseas. unfortunately, my trip got cancelled and i was devastated as i was really looking ...
A. 25 June 2009: im pretty sure he doesn't realize how bad your hurting and you are being a little clingy. your plans got ruined thats not his fault. he needs to put his driving lesson first and you need to support him in that and see if maybe you can re do your ... (read in full...)
I told my wife to leave the marriage & finish her studies but now I regret!
Q. After 9 months of marriage, i made decision to let my wife go back to her parents and continue her studies. but after when she was leave me for studies and took back my decision and asked her not to leave me and instead save our marriage. They told ...
A. 9 March 2009: how long are her studies going to last and be sure from the get go if you are going to stick it out. talk to her and be prepared for the honest truth of what she says about the situation. if you love her and still want to be with her when your 80 ... (read in full...)
I feel obligated to say "I love you"
Q. I dont know whats wrong with me Ive been with my bf for 10 months now. Ive always had a crush on one of my old guy friends from college, and he me. The result of this in kinda disastorous, as it now means that everytime i see him or talk to him o...
A. 9 March 2009: this is def. a problem. i think that you should talk to your current bf. tell him you can't handle anything terribly serious but you do care deeply for him its just that love is a strong word and i don't think you are using him because using him ... (read in full...)
He's not up to my standards
Q. I been talking to my friend on the phone like everyday up to 2-4 hours. He express to me how he's really likes me, but I don't want to be then a relationship with him because he is not up to my standards and his not ready to make them changes in his ...
A. 7 January 2009: if you like talking to him keep talking to him. just make sure the message of just friends is very clear =) best of luck! ... (read in full...)
I really don't understand her actions
Q. Does she really like me? it all started in september. i needed a ride home from school regularly because my brother had gone off to college and my mom was never home and i asked this girl who i work with to give me a ride home. The first time s...
A. 7 January 2009: wow thats a tough one. i think that she does really care for you but she had to lose you before she could see it. if you care for her give her another chance =) if she ignors you again then its over. best of luck!... (read in full...)
My g/f isn't over her ex
Q. I am confused help with girlfriend? So basically my girlfriend has told me, im almost perfect and its weird almost unreal that i have came into her life so shortly after her ex,she says she likes me alot, and she doesnt want this to be a rebound,...
A. 6 January 2009: hold onto her. she really cares about you but sometimes an ex just will not let you go. she WILL get over him. it just takes time. don't let her go. just make sure she knows you love her and are there for her and you wont give up on her and you ... (read in full...)
How can I stop the paranoia, how can I convince her to stop being polite to her ex?
Q. Hey everyone, I've got a question, although a bit hesitant to begin with I decided to post it anyway to see what people think. (I'll explain a bit of the background as well). If you do read it all and reply, thank you so much. I've been seeing ...
A. 31 December 2008: you have every right to be paranoid. it is affecting your daily life and she should care enough to cut off contact and she should respect your wishes. its not controlling. im 18 and i leave guys pretty easy and i would not leave you for that. im not ... (read in full...)
I am having major anxiety over this situation with a senior!
Q. Dear readers: I am in alot of stress and anxiety over this senior thats has a huge crush on me, he would get red infront of me he would waite till i would look at him, sometimes i would look at him and smile, other times i would just not look at ...
A. 23 November 2008: oh girl. im eighteen and just got out of high school. im in college now. all of my best friends are guys. i am one of the guys lol and trust me. stay away. dis him in front of his buddies at the least. he is such a douche. i know you really like him ... (read in full...)
Why don't girls want to talk to me?
Q. well, Im seventeen, and Ive never had a girlfriend. in fact, ive only had like two or three girls that were just friends. I dont know what it is about me that makes me feel so hopeless around them. all the other guys at my school can talk to any ...
A. 23 November 2008: girls love guys as friends. and they aren't as mean as you probably think. act like you are the coolest thing in the world and you will be. just have confidence. =) good luck dear. and find girls and talk to them. make jokes. smile at them. if you ... (read in full...)
His jealousy has reached levels that scare me! What should I do?
Q. I really am at such a loss of what to do, or even what to think at this point... I have been dating a man from Italy (I am American) for a little over 6 months. We met in a way where our trust in one another needs to be strong enough to get be...
A. 21 October 2008: girl. you are so attatched to him because of all the abuse he has put you through. how much he has hurt you. i know you love and would do anything for him and anything to make it work. but he says that crap to you and calls you that stuff. you sleep ... (read in full...)
Any ways I can clarify to him that I want him?
Q. So there's this guy. That I like. A LOT. And is possibly taken by a sort of friend of mine. What the heck do I do? And don't tell me to try to forget about him. I don't get crushes. It's a very rare occurance when I do. The last time I had a big...
A. 16 October 2008: just tell him straight up. he will probably not go tell your friend. and if he does hes a douche. you can't help who you like. don't throw it all on him. but just tell him one day i think there is something you should know. i really wanna be more ... (read in full...)
I've fallen for a girl, but she continues to stay with her controlling boyfriend. What to do?
Q. I need some advice I've fallen for a girl who I work with. For the past couple weeks we've been going out and having a good time but she already has a boyfriend. They keep arguing especially when he's had a drink and when he's had a drink he treats ...
A. 12 August 2008: odds are she probably doesn't think she deserves better whether she realizes it or not. subconsciencly she knows it will never last but its better than being alone. show her how it can be but in a friendly i just care about you way. leave a ... (read in full...)
Is it ok to cheat and 'have fun' while you are young?
Q. im a 15 yr old young man, and lots of my friends say its fine to cheat on girls at my age and just be with girls to "have fun", personally i disagree with this because i disagree with cheating and i dont think its right to cheat at any age ...
A. 12 August 2008: you are really an amazing person to not want cheat and have a conscience at such a young age, a healthy relationship is a great thing but not everyone is ready for one, and thats not a bad thing if you want to be single and have fun by all means do ... (read in full...)
I realized too late what I really had. I want her back so badly.
Q. She was crazy about me and wanted to be with me about a year ago and i just wasent ready to be in a relashionship and wasent fully attracted to her apearance. and when i say she wanted to be with me i mean like shed practically stalk me and have our ...
A. 12 August 2008: to the second follow up - she just needs time to think about what she wants ... wow i was in that exact same situation before ... and i know it SUCKS i didn't think anyone else in the world would be as crazy as to hurt that bad ... i really do ... (read in full...)
I realized too late what I really had. I want her back so badly.
Q. She was crazy about me and wanted to be with me about a year ago and i just wasent ready to be in a relashionship and wasent fully attracted to her apearance. and when i say she wanted to be with me i mean like shed practically stalk me and have our ...
A. 11 August 2008: Don't give up on her ... she has been through alot of heartbreak, probably cried herself to sleep over you numerous times and you have drained her emotionally. she probably just needs a break from the whole "love" deal all together. girls take ... (read in full...)
He's mean to me for a joke, but it's hurtful. Please help.
Q. I just wondered if you could help me. My boyfriend is mean to me, for a joke, but it's hurtfull. I haven't talked to him about this because i dont want to upset him. Please help. Many thanks x...
A. 10 August 2008: He probably doesn't realize it bothers you. Don't worry about upsetting him, tell him in private that you know he means to be funny but you don't like it. If he doesn't stop and be more respectful he wasn't worth the time in the first place. Best ... (read in full...)
How do I know if he does decide to settle with me that he'll stay faithful?
Q. Ok for a long while my cousin has tried to get me with her bf of two years' ((who I went to school with)) brother....and about a month and a half ago they introduced us. Turns out I went to school with the brother too. He had just dissappeared after ...
A. 10 August 2008: You are in a tough situation, there is really no way of knowing for sure he will stay faithful. He does tell you he isn't ready to settle because he is not sure he can stay faithful and doesn't want to hurt you, so if he tells you he is ready to ... (read in full...)
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