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writes:I just wondered if you could help me. My boyfriend is mean to me, for a joke, but it's hurtfull. I haven't talked to him about this because i dont want to upset him.Please help.Many thanks x Reply to this Question
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reader, kelleeashton  +, writes (10 August 2008):
 He probably doesn't realize it bothers you. Don't worry about upsetting him, tell him in private that you know he means to be funny but you don't like it. If he doesn't stop and be more respectful he wasn't worth the time in the first place. Best of luck to you!
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reader, kenny +, writes (10 August 2008):
 I don't think that there is anything jokeful about being mean to someone. If it gets to much for you, or he keep's this up then i would be inclined to ditch him and find someone who gives you the love a respect that you so rightly deserve.
All the best x
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Really you should talk to him about this because if hes upseting you and your worried about upsetting him by talking about it youll get no were so make him aware that its hurting you
And if he dont change he dosnt respect you the way he should do and he dont deserve you
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reader, CupidsSidekick +, writes (10 August 2008):
 Even though you dont want to hurt him by telling him straight its the only way you can deal with it properley. Tell him that you know he may mean it as a joke but it still hurts you. if he understands you hes the right guy.
Good luck x
Cupids Sidekick ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): Upset him. Give hima taste of his own medicine. Tell him you think his joke isn't the least bit funny.
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