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I really don't understand her actions

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Question - (7 January 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 9 January 2009)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Does she really like me?

it all started in september. i needed a ride home from school regularly because my brother had gone off to college and my mom was never home and i asked this girl who i work with to give me a ride home. The first time she dropped me off and nothing happened but later that day she texted me basically asking if she could come inside and i thought nothing of it and said ya when she got it my room she got into my bed and asked me to come lay next to her but i wasnt sure what to do so i sat in the chair in my room and after awhile she was going to leave but she tried to take my phone and i chased her down to my door. i didnt let her out and we sorta wrestled over my phone and when she realized she wasnt getting past me she put it in her bra at this point i was behind her holding her arms and i kept asking for my phone and she told me to take it... so i reached down her shirt and grabbed it and she got up very quickly and left. later she texted me asking me why i didnt get in the bed with her assuming i thought she ugly and fat and i told her im sorry and i didnt mean it in that way. she then told me she was a virgin and really wanted to try sex but... she said she wanted to try it with me and i really had no idea what to think... for the next month she came over regularly and we had sex but for the past few months she hasnt tried to come over or even text me except every once in awhile texts saying she loved me and i called her out on it saying she wasnt serious and that i had to get away before i got too attached to her because im sort of in love with her but i dont think she feels the same way. so for the past few days she has claimed im destroying her life by leaving her amd that she is crying over me but i dont understand how she could have these feelings after ignoring me for over 3 months??

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A reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009):

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i decided to give her another chance and i have hung out with her the past few days but she still doesnt seem too interested and when im not with her she is always texting me about sex but i want more than just that....

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A female reader, kelleeashton United States +, writes (7 January 2009):

kelleeashton agony auntwow thats a tough one. i think that she does really care for you but she had to lose you before she could see it. if you care for her give her another chance =) if she ignors you again then its over. best of luck!

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