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The Last Laugh... Is it really on me? ;)

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Article - (18 April 2008) 4 Comments - (Newest, 2 July 2008)
A male United Kingdom age 36-40, Andy00 writes:

Hi, it's Andy00. I just thought I would share something with all of you.

As you all know, I went through a horrible case of heartbreak 10 months ago, after my distance relationship was cut off by the girl I love (it still hurts to this day). But here's something that has come out of a relationship I had a couple of months ago.

I started seeing a girl. We had fun while we were together, but the relationship was very badly short lived (3 measly weeks). We broke up after I drunkenly told my friends that she had told me that she wanted to come back to my house one night the following week. I joked that "maybe that means she wants to... well, you know ;)" (my exact words! Nothing crude). I only told them because I was happy and didn't think it was a big deal. When she found out, she was angry and broke up with me. I was pretty shocked.

On the bus home I started writing a song about it. That's what I do. I like to write music. I presented it to my band and they liked it, so we started finalizing the song ready for recording. I would like you to have a listen to the recording if you have a few minutes spare. Other people I have asked to comment on it have really liked it, so hopefully you will to:

http://uk.youtube.com/watch?v=SruQ9wpUPck

Now, please don't think I'm trying to advertise my band. I'm just trying to make a point that sometimes, good things can come out of painful experiences. I'm sure some of you will already know that being told "I just don't want to be with you", is quite a painful thing to hear, no matter who says it. But I've taken that, and turned it into something quite effective.

I think that this is proof that sometimes breaking up is for the best.

Thanks for reading, and any comments are appreciated.

-Andy00 (Vocalist/Rhythm Guitarist of Citizens Of Earth)

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A male reader, Jonty United Kingdom +, writes (2 July 2008):

Jonty agony auntAndy its been a while mate, been off this site for ages! Your you tube link is well top, really enjoyed that, in fact its very true of my relationship at present! Take it easy fella and keep it up with the music!!

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A male reader, Andy00 United Kingdom +, writes (23 April 2008):

Andy00 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

Andy00 agony auntJust wanted to thank you all for your kind comments. It makes me proud that people are enjoying my work :)

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A female reader, birdynumnums Canada +, writes (23 April 2008):

birdynumnums agony auntNice Andy! Kudos on the music! And taking a positive tack! Looks like you are busy and on the road! Good for you! Good Luck with everything!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 April 2008):

Listening to it now. Pretty good stuff, nice one :]

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