Did he love me when he was with me? What should I do to forget this cheating? Should I take revenge? Exactly what I must do to forget my first love?
Q. Hi, I don’t even know in what situation I am going through now. My name is Beloved (fake name) The year of 2011 was a great year for me for both in good and bad terms. Firstly when I say in good terms, it means I found a guy (25) of my dreams ...
A. 16 May 2012: I am very sorry to hear what you have gone threw. It is very hard to try to keep living when the ones that effected your happiness keep reappearing. W/the other women- She is just trying to make you feel bad, by "befriending" you. Which... (read in full...)
Is it up to me to keep his morals in check?
Q. Hey! I am predominantly lesbian, and slept with my first man last year at the age of 27. I didn't have any sort of romantic interest in him, it was just a lust thing. Anyway, he's okay, and we became sort of friends-with-benefits - hard, because ...
A. 16 May 2012: I must agree with what Tish said, The real question is "is it up to you to keep your principles aligned?"
Honestly, you can keep having fun w/him but as you said "I leave marks" his girlfriend will find out. I don't know what type of women sh... (read in full...)
How do people manage to move on from relationships?
Q. How do people manage to move on from relationships? I was with my boyfriend for 4 years, from 16-20. Since january we have been on and off. We still love each other and get on brilliantly but i think he is a compulsive liar. He has lied about big ...
A. 13 May 2012: You said it yourself,"you cant have a relationship with someone you dont trust" That's what you need to keep telling yourself. Take it one step at a time. Push farther and farther away from him. What you should think about is this, If he is ... (read in full...)
He was cheating! I thought he was going to marry me!
Q. i found out that my boyfriend is cheating i was so dissapointed i toungt that he was going to marry me i didnt confront him i just dont knw what to do please help...
A. 10 May 2012: As much as it hurts be happy that you discovered this before you got married. You should honestly leave him. If he will do this once to you he will do it again. He kept it secret from you for how long? If you do NOT leave, I'm sure he will ... (read in full...)
I need help with my problems without hearing about other people's problems!
Q. Hi I'm 25 years old and have been with my bf the last 2 years - when we met I was in a violent relationship. I wanted my life to end and had been doin class A drugs but then my new bf came along and made me feel special again and I didnt think i'd ...
A. 9 May 2012: People reply with their own problems to give you a sense of help. Most of the people on here give advice through their own past hoping it will help whoever asks. We all answer with something of our past. We have all seen and done stuff that we can ... (read in full...)
Things were going great with my MM until he separated?
Q. Have been having a relationship with my married boss for the past 4 years. It's a long story how it came about, but short version is it wasn't planned. We just got along well and he persued me first then we slept together and it went on from ...
A. 8 May 2012: Hun, It's wrong enough you were seeing a guy who is willing to cheat on his wife for HALF of his marriage with no issues. Why would you EVER want to be with someone who can do this?? Have you ever thought you weren't the only one he was screwing... (read in full...)
I want anal again but she refuses! What should I do? I want to go with a call girl just for revenge!
Q. We did it two times but she doesn't want it anymore, the first time was painful to her but the second one she enjoyed because i did it a soft way! Now i desire to have anal intercourse again with her but she doesn't want it, we've talked about th...
A. 5 May 2012: Wow, I must agree with many people on here.
You are very wrong in what you are wanting and care nothing for that girl to even want to do this to her. Dump her. Get rid of her so she will have a chance to be with a MAN that will treat her how she ... (read in full...)
Found out g/f sleeps with men to support herself. She says she'll stop if I can support her. I can't. What to do???
Q. OK folks, I have a real dilemma. I am hoping you can help. There is this girl I know who is from a middle eastern country. She is here on a visa. Very pretty, sweet. We started seeing each other, and then got involved. I thought things were perf...
A. 5 May 2012: I must agree with what the others have stated. Altho I would like to put my two cents in as well.
In the past I dated a man from the Middle East. I was with him for 3 years and knew him for 10. I grew up with his family and learned many things f... (read in full...)
Should I not make a big deal out of what is on his facebook?
Q. dear cupid, soo, there's this guy that i've been on-again-off-again with for a little over a year now. i love him more than i've ever loved anybody, and he never hesitates to tell me that he loves me, too. there have been a lot of times when thing...
A. 28 April 2012: This is why I really loathe Facebook. I have one, but to talk to my family. It always seems to have some type of drama with it. Honestly, You should not take it seriously. He seems like he is content with you. Unless you saw something that w... (read in full...)
Threesome gone wrong
Q. Hello everyone, I would really love some advice with my problem. You all have done greatly and I can not help but keep coming back here for more... So in advance thank you. Last week my husband and I came about to having a threesome. We both h...
A. 25 April 2012: Hello everyone, Thank you so far with everything you have said. I would like to clear up some things as well. Yes I take the blame. I know that we both went in together. I understand that and have no issue. The 3rd was not married, but she is ... (read in full...)
I can get past her cheating, but the cause for it is killing me...
Q. I understand this is a lot to read, but please do not answer if you do not read it. It took me quite a while to write down exactly how I feel and I would really like thoughtful answers. I do not believe that "once a cheater, always a cheater" ...
A. 25 April 2012: I'm very sorry, this is one of the hardest things to deal with and I am in a same situation as you. I feel your pain. 3 years with someone is a long time. You get used to having that person with you. So first you need to make sure you do not want... (read in full...)
Not being able to breathe during sex scared me!
Q. I've been talking to/dating someone for a few months and last week we finally had sex. I am attracted to him physically and mentally. He used to weigh 400lbs and lost weight (not sure how much). Well, I'm no skinny chick, but he's heavier than I am ...
A. 5 October 2011: You could always try by saying you enjoy other positions more than him on top cause it's a great accesses to your spots.
- but honestly this will only last so long.
Sooner, or later you will have to tell him. You can not breathe while he... (read in full...)
I'm tired when I come home from work and husband seems to be slacking off all the time!
Q. Hello, Aunt's and Uncles. I have a question that might come off like I am angry, which I'm more upset than angry. My husband and I have been having a problem... Funny enough it envoles work. I love my job! I don't know many people who can sa...
A. 16 August 2011: Thank you NotDoneYet.
I understand what you have said and I will try my best at what you have told me. Thank you very much for your honest response.
To be honest, it's hard to try to move forward when he acts so immaturely. (I.E) I ... (read in full...)
I have no self-confidence and always let people use me....can you help?
Q. I need help, im so depressed i cant see any hope of getting out of this depression. I've always let guys use me. I've helped with money, everything but because of a lack of confidence and self esteem i have always come out badly. The last guy left...
A. 24 July 2011: I'm very sorry for all this. It's unfortunate, but sadly it's something we all have to deal with some point in time.
Either be used or be strong.
My best advice that I can give you is this;
Everyday look into the mirror for 20 secs. Look... (read in full...)
My husband doesn't want me, but he won't let me move on without him either, please help!
Q. I've been with my husband for almost 14 years. We have been separated for the past 2 years. We have been on again and off again . Our marriage hasn't been perfect at all. There has been infidelity on both sides. I filed for divorce but he decided he ...
A. 24 July 2011: I'm sorry but it seems that you are honestly being "played"
From what it seems like he only wants to be with you when HE wants to be. Even if you do not want the divorce it seems like the only way to move on and start over.
If not it seems that y... (read in full...)
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