Can this kind of man turn on any kind of woman?
Q. Hello women out there. Would it be true that any man within the average range of attractiveness, taking into account looks, clothing, job, education, etc, who is also totally comfortable in his own skin, has his own goals that he's heading toward ...
A. 20 January 2012: Ok so basically you're an average joe and you want to know if you can score with the hot chicks.
If you look around the world, tons of beautiful women cling on to the arms of average to below average looking guys. These guys make up for their phys... (read in full...)
I'm conflicted. What's the best advice when faced with a Love Triangle?
Q. I plan to move to another country for two years in August. The guy who i'm interested is from there. The other girl is as well. The guy started to like me first, but I felt like it was lust for him, and liked me because he was lonely. I wanted ...
A. 4 January 2012: Well, if there wasn't a problem that I didn't feel like I could deal with on my own then I wouldn't have posted on this website. Obviously it hasn't hit a chord with you. To each their own. However, I found your answer has provided me absolutely no ... (read in full...)
I am sensitive, how do I approach this crush of mine without the risk of being in so much emotional pain I lose my job and friendship?
Q. Basically, I have a crush on this new friend in my life. He has really great energy and etc. Whenever we're together we have a good time and we have a few things in common. From the things I know about him now from our long conversations and ...
A. 15 November 2011: That's really not the point of my question and I do not particularly appreciate your answer. ... (read in full...)
I feel excluded from things. Is there any way I can change to encourage others to include me?
Q. I know that I am a friendly, caring, conifedent person. That's something that I've started to see for myself recently and a lot of other people have told me that, it's been a continuing trend. But what I don't understand is that people always seem ...
A. 20 August 2011: You're still in high school and high school can be filled with a lot of groups and clicks. Usually, people at school can be very protective of who they let in to their circle. To ease your anxiety, I can tell you that once you all grow a little ... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend tired of me?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for nine months now and lately I feel like he doesn't want me around. I'm home for the summer since I was away at college and now that I'm home I would think things would be perfect because we couldn't see each ...
A. 25 June 2011: Your question should not be "is my boyfriend tired of me?" it should be "I am going to dump this jerk, what are some good ways to do it?". All those things you just listed were horrible, awful things he did/said. He should NOT be putting you down... (read in full...)
Situation leaves me at wits end. My 8 year gay marriage failing, partner cheating, and care for adopted son
Q. I am in a bad situation-help I am a gay male who is in a gay marriage,for over 8 years. Just recently he started cheating on me. I followed him to a bar. His new friend was there they were kissing, very passionately. I walked up to them, and left. ...
A. 25 December 2010: At some point in time you guys probably shared a love you thought was perfect, and it made you so happy and comforted. The hard part is facing the fact that he isn't the same person you fell in love with, that you wanted to make a happy life with ... (read in full...)
What is the deal with my ex? Why does he keep tossing me around like this?
Q. I had my first boyfriend this summer. We were together for two months and then he dumped me. A lot of people say it isn't such a big deal or what not, but I still had all these feelings for him. It took me a long time to get over him. And it seemed ...
A. 12 November 2010: Thanks to everyone. Your advice helped and I think I'll take it. He ended up not contacting me to go out for dinner so I think he chickened out or was too full of pride and was waiting for me to text him to set a time and place. I didn't and so it ... (read in full...)
I think I'm ugly
Q. Well,I think Im ugly,,,,,,I have a flat but,bushy eyebrows but that all wrong.But guys where I live hate flat butts.:( Then the girls I hang with are all really pretty,and have all been in a relationship,had a kiss or whatever,but me?Nope.The guy I ...
A. 30 October 2010: One of the hardest parts about living is living with yourself.
We can't change who we are. Rather, we need to be "first rate versions of ourselves and not second rate versions of somebody else" (random quote I looked at).
If you've got a flat but... (read in full...)
He broke up with me after only two months
Q. So I just recently got dumped. It was a relationship that was rushed and very full in just a short 2 months. He told me a lot of things and I let him in. After it was over it was hard to handle and very painful. It hit me in my chest. He was my ...
A. 17 August 2010: Thank you to all that replied. I am very appreciative for the support. I feel like you are all right. And I actually went and bought the ebook why men marry bitches that very hour lol. It was a fun read, but a little too restrictive for my taste. ... (read in full...)
How did he let go so easily?
Q. *OP's Original Title* How did this happen? My boyfriend and I had been together 9 months. We'd known each other and been really in love for almost 2 years. I gave him absolutely all of me. We really were great together and always had fun and ...
A. 4 July 2010: There are times in life when you need to snap yourself out of it. This is one of them. You are a human being, above all else. You are flawed, you fall sometimes, you are weak. Admit it and accept. However, you have a choice every time you fall to ... (read in full...)
Help! Sex with my bf is a chore!
Q. I'm not sexually attracted to my boyfriend any more and it's really getting me down. When I'm alone and I think about sex it turns me on, I even have erotic dreams but when I put him in the situations its like all feelings of passion and want fade. ...
A. 4 July 2010: Maybe it would help to think of sex as rather a way to express your feelings for your boyfriend rather than just to fulfill lust. Your kisses should mean that you care for him and sex with him is a way to express how you feel about each other.
O... (read in full...)
He disses me in front of my girlfriend!
Q. I am a 22 year old guy and I have a problem with one of my guy friends. When he and I hang out, he is is regular self, and we get along fine. But whenever my girlfriend is around, he acts like a show-off and is really rude and mean to me. He a...
A. 4 July 2010: Instead of telling your girlfriend, who would not be able to do a single thing to help you anyhow, talk to your guy friend.
Set him aside one of these days and go "look, you act pretty differently when my girlfriend is around..." If he does... (read in full...)
I'm 18 and have never had a girlfriend!
Q. Hi everyone, so I have a serious question about my personal life. Idk, but I find it really hard to find a girlfriend. I am a really good looking guy, and I realized that I am 18, and never had a girlfriend. Problem is, I dont even have any girls ...
A. 21 June 2010: Me and my boyfriend are both 22 and this will be my first relationship and his first relationship since he was in middle school. He's also foreign and learnt English fairly quickly. I was the one he picked him up at first. We exchanged numbers ... (read in full...)
Why cant I get a boyfriend?
Q. hey :) i really want a boyfrind to have that first kiss i mean why dont any boys like me ? whats the problem with me ? peaple say well i dont know wether they are actually telling the truth but they say i am : kind friendly easy to...
A. 1 August 2009: People may say this to you all the time and you might hate it so much that after you read this sentence you'll stop paying attention. But I'm going to say it anyways: You're still young.
There is so much time ahead for dating and experiencing all ... (read in full...)
Menstrual cramps, relief techniques that work? Help please!
Q. Okay I definately need some girl advice right about now. What do you do to relieve your menstrual cramps? It's so bad for me that it makes me throw up and all I can do is curl up in a ball with a hot water bottle until it goes away 3 hours later. I ...
A. 1 August 2009: Try to take Aleve. I had a coworker who had incredibly bad period pains and she said Aleve helped. It worked for me once too when I nearly fainted two times because of the pain. After you pop the pill and fall asleep, the pain is gone.
However, if t... (read in full...)
I've tried to be rational on my one, but I can't eat, I can't sleep I've got it so bad!
Q. I recently met this guy. He is a huge deal, because I used to run away from guys who approached me. I never saw myself getting married, never saw myself be with anyone before. But when I met him, there was like this instant rush of images. I could ...
A. 1 August 2009: continued:
I've actually gone on a few dates with other guys. Some were attractive, some weren't. The guy i'm crazy about is actually pretty similar to this other guy I went on a few dates with. I see very little difference. I just don't know what... (read in full...)
1 1/2 year later and my periods are back. Not sure how to feel about it?
Q. Hi everyone. I feel I actually need some advice myself for a change! Well, maybe just support and encouragement... The thing is, I have discovered today that I am having a period. Those of you who know a bit about me, or have read my articles, wil...
A. 1 August 2009: I'm someone who skips periods a lot. I hate it. Periods to me are a sign of womanhood, of health, of youth, of all the mothers in the world, of my mother, my grandmother. It is the ultimate symbol of femininity. Girls connect with each other when ... (read in full...)
I've met a great man, but I suffer from uncontrollable flatulence. How do I tell him? Or should I just pass up the chance?
Q. I'm 21 and have been a sufferer of uncontrollable flatulence for five years now. It has crushed me many times over for the past few years. For a while, I was ok being single. I could imagine myself spending the rest of my life alone. But recently...
A. 29 July 2009: I have decided to just straight forwardly explain to him that I do not know enough of him yet to begin a relationship with him. We have decided to become friends.
Despite this "illness" that I have, I realized that I can not let it defeat me. I have... (read in full...)
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