How can I ask my girlfriend to remove the unattractive hair on her forearm?
Q. How can I tell my girlfriend that I don't like the hair on her forearm. Is it too much to ask or inappropriate to request removing it?...
A. 8 June 2011: I must ask - why do you find it so unattractive now? was it there when you started dating her?
That being said, if it really bothers you that bad ask her --- don't be surprised if she gets upset though.
I know some people who wouldn't fin... (read in full...)
Torn between guys!
Q. Im torn between 2 guys the first guy i have known since secondgrade and we have been a off and on again couple since 5th grade. I still have strong fellings for him and we have been broke up since september. The second guy i met this year and we ...
A. 8 June 2011: I think if you are torn between two guys that neither one is the "right" one for you. I think at your age a serious relationship is more than you need. This is a time to be young, free, and learn who you are and enjoy yourself. as far as the guy ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to break up with a friend because you find their way of life offensive?
Q. It seems like to be a good friend means to be supportive. And we are all told we should not be judgemental. But what happens if a friend has habits you find offensive and which go against your value system? Are you a terrible person if you want to ...
A. 8 June 2011: First, I think you should really think about why you are friends with her. I understand wanting to have good relations with your co-workers, but you no longer work together. Are you just maintaining this friendship to be nice or is it really a ... (read in full...)
My daughter only needs one summer school class to get her diploma, but she wants to get her GED instead! Should I encourage her to take the class?
Q. I am the mother of four children. Three are well over 21 and are attending community college, and two have recently transferred into a four year college. The youngest of my kids is my daughter, a 17 year old who will be 18 in a few days. This mor...
A. 2 June 2011: Here is the thing, you have the experience that she does not have. In the grand scheme of things, a summer class is not a big deal. BUT a GED v. a high school diploma can affect her down the road. This is too big a mistake to let her make and ... (read in full...)
Is there such a thing as taking a break from your husband?
Q. I am confused about my feelings towards my husband. During my pregnancy last year he made me go through so much. I just can't seem to let go of these feelings and feel resentment towards him. I don't think I love him anymore and I am just so ...
A. 2 June 2011: I think if you are unhappy and feeling emotionally drained, then a break is okay. I think you should be very frank with your husband about wanting a break and what it means. Sounds like you need this time to make some decisions, and that doesnt ... (read in full...)
She has a double standard when it comes to professional touching
Q. My girlfriend of 2.5+ years is an aesthetician. Included in her duties are the occasional bacial (men’s back massage/skin treatment) and men’s facial, which includes an oiled up shoulder massage. When we first began dating she was very controlling ...
A. 2 June 2011: You are not wrong. Definitely a double standard. Would she prefer you be unemployed? Would she rather you damage your credit and not get your bills paid? Would she rather you have all day to do what....? You aren't wanting to go out and hang out ... (read in full...)
Is this 36 year old man worried because he has feelings towards a 16 year old girl?
Q. So, this is kind of an akward question and i don't really know where to start..i know i'm going to get alot of comments on something that this question isnt about! Okay, so basically i'm 16 and i've had a 'crush' on my ex neighbour for ar...
A. 1 June 2011: Honestly I find it quite strange that a 36 year old is looking for comfort in tough times from a 16 year old. There is a big difference in not only age but life experience, etc. I think I would back away. This situation could become very ... (read in full...)
I've caught him cheating 4 times but just don't have the courage to dump him for good!
Q. My boyfriend and i been together, on and off, for 2 years and 3 months now. so recently, i had this feeling that something wasn't right. so i went on his facebook and seen that he blocked our relationship from 21 females. not 1 or 2 but 21. i was so ...
A. 1 June 2011: Please run. Please expect better for yourself. If you can't do that then prepare yourself for a life of what you have had and probably more. He does not respect you and he walks all over you because he can. He has had the opportunity to change ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend is emotionally blackmailing me unless I agree with her!
Q. I’ve been with my gf for almost 11 months, and we just had a conversation that severely divides and strains us. She’s 25. I’m 26. We’re both Asians. My mom had wanted me to clean her dryer front trapped lint for some time at her home. While cleaning ...
A. 31 May 2011: Wow -- I had to check to see your age, because this girls behavior sounds exactly like that ---- a girl, acting like a teenager who is still learning how to understand her emotions I agree with your assessment of the situation. You were being s... (read in full...)
I don't have the money for a counselor. How can I get my self esteem back?
Q. I got cheated on in the past and it has left me massively insecure. I don't have the money to pay for counselling. Any ideas how I can go about getting my esteem back? I have lots of friends and do lots of exercise - I don't hate my looks or figure ...
A. 31 May 2011: I dont know what things are like there, but I have found that all pastors/priests are willing to help --- some of them have heard more and experienced more than a formally trained counselor. You need to work on that esteem before getting into any ... (read in full...)
What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone?
Q. Question to the women out there on dear cupid... What are the defining qualities that you look for in a man, from initial attraction to wanting to develop a relationship with someone? I only ask this for a little advice as I struggle quit...
A. 31 May 2011: I dont mean to be blunt but you need to hear it. :) I'm going to go along with your statement and say you are a nice guy. But that is not why you would be finishing last.
When I started reading your post I already had two things in my mind that... (read in full...)
I feel like he's had an emotional affair
Q. Hi guys, 2 weeks ago I discovered my bf had a rather intimate relationship with a female friend/work colleague. They did not have sex, but he asked her to send him provocative messages, which is how I found out - through an accidental email...
A. 22 March 2011: Dont look at the time you have invested and fear that it will be wasted if you leave. Think about the time lost staying with someone you dont trust. And I'm not saying this is your situation but 1. he (the cheater) rarely will ever admit that it ... (read in full...)
I have destroyed my own marriage, my life is a mess...all for my lover who refuses to leave her husband. How do I get her to come to me?
Q. All, I have been reading this post for about 6 months now and can see that what I have been involved with is Wrong! However, I found my soulmate in a younger woman and If circumstances were right she would be my wife. Nearly 2 years ago, I met...
A. 22 March 2011: It amazes me how the person who is involved in the adultrey fails to see that his/her situation is really not that different from all the others that we have seen. I am not coming from a condemning place, I am coming from one of a person who has ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sometimes leaves the room with his phone, does this mean he is cheating?
Q. Hi all. Something is bugging me. Sometimes (not always, by any means) my bf takes his phone with him when he leaves the room and also leaves it face down, when we are sitting together, watching tv or whatever. I don’t want to mention it to him cos ...
A. 22 March 2011: In my personal experience FIRST FOLLOW YOUR GUT those cues come from somewhere. Second, I have witnessed this behavior myself and it was cheating. I find it quite odd to be so "protective" of one's phone. Was he always like this from the time you ... (read in full...)
Can he be in love with me, too, without willing to admit it or am I being played?
Q. Can he be in love with me, too, without willing to admit it or am I being played? We first met almost 10 years ago when I already in a relationship. I'll call him "A". We spent a lot of time together and really enjoyed each other company. On top of ...
A. 13 February 2011: Im curious how things played out for you...I am currently in a situation much like yours. I will be seeing him fairly soon and I am very anxious for many reasons. Is it all nostalgia or an escape or could it be real? I'd really like to hear what ... (read in full...)
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