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... Send *ack_McVeigh a private message | | | *ack_McVeigh's profile:Hi there. I am Jack McVeigh and I am half Irish (dad) and half South African (mum and birth place). I was born in the coastal town of Jeffrey's Bay, which is on the south coast of South Africa. I speak generally with a South African accent but when I get angry or tired my Irishness starts to come out lol!!
I think its safe to say that life has thrown some rather tough challenges so far.. as I am gay and had troubles winning my parents back after I told them. Well I am 17 and live with my boyfriend in Nottinghamshire, England. He is 19 and amazing in everyway. Alot of people would think that I am too young to be living with my partner, but well I have this inherited genetic disorder which long story short won't let me be around as long as usual. So I don't really have time to waste.
This website is AMAZING!! I mean i found it through a friend and I was shocked by the depth in which poeple add into thier questions and answers. I love helping people with things like this. Especially if I have been through the same!! I always feel good in myself when ever I answer other people's problems! Don't really know why to be honest.
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How can I feel better?
Q. Im feeling kinda lonely and depressed lately. The thing is i'm having trouble home, they are some problems going on with my parents to my older brother. So i go to school and every single one of my friends have a boyfriend, i'm the only one who ...
A. 29 November 2008: Ok darling don't worry. Just because you dont have a love in your life at the moment a) doesn't mean that you never will and b) doesn't mean that you have to be feeling down and depressed. Judging by the tone of your messege you sound like a ... (read in full...)
Why did the other boy work better and not this one?
Q. hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...
A. 28 November 2008: rite ok darlin.. u say u wanna b treated like an adult, well u shouldnt kick off the way u did in ur feedback! i mean yer u are still very young. maybe the 7 answers u've recieved arent all wrong? i mean yer i mean it's only our opinion which we ... (read in full...)
Why did the other boy work better and not this one?
Q. hey. so me and my boyfriend have had sex quite a few times. we went out in the summer time and started having sex. it never felt good for me. one time it almost felt good but not really. we did it like 10 times while we went out btw. then we broke ...
A. 27 November 2008: Well I mean I think the old cliche "it's not how big, it's what you do with it". I mean you dont have better sex because his cock is bigger or whatever. the size of it, in most cases, is the last thing which makes it good. i mean yer im gay so I see ... (read in full...)
Is this how you become gay?
Q. Hi, I have a major problem. I am 14 turning 15 and my whole life I have been sexually attracted to women, I can tell you that. And it's not like because of the society I live in I liked girls to be like others, but I really liked girls. But star...
A. 24 November 2008: ok dude dont worry about it! i'm gay and i started to turn gay at around your age (14-15 ish). i dont believe that you choose your sexuality. i mean if there is one thing that i could change about me then it would be to make me straight. i mean i ... (read in full...)
Would 7 inches be too painful for the girl if we had sex?
Q. I'm 16. When erect, my penis is just over 7 inches (1 inch over average). I was watching a program tonight about the worlds biggest penis and it said that women can be hurt from deep penetration if the penis is too big. Would 7 inches be too pain...
A. 15 November 2008: ok dude not at all!! i mean im gay but no i wudnt think it'd too painful. i mean i personally wud prefer a bigger 1 lol! but i mean if it was 10" then yeah it may hurt her lol. but 7" i wudnt of thought so. i mean yeah tht is still pretty big and ... (read in full...)
Kissing.
Q. Hey Everyone!! I need some help. Tomorrow I am going to a friends house, i have reciently started going out with a girl. She will be there and it will be the first time we have seen eachother since i asked her out. Tomorrow we will maybe kiss. I'm ...
A. 15 November 2008: ok dude relax. dont be nervous! the thing is when it come to kissing, love etc there isn't a strict rule book to follow, nor is there a manuel on how to go about it lol. No, you just learn it through personal experience.
Ok first off, a first ki... (read in full...)
Should I fight it and try to win him over?
Q. Hi agony aunts/uncles! I am in love with a wonderful boy! He has captured my heart, but it turns out that he is with someone else! Should I fight it and try to win him over? Or just accept the fact that I am lonely, unlovable and having no chance...
A. 13 November 2008: Ok, from the tone of your messege yoy clearly sound like an intelligent, sweet and sensitive girl.. My advice is to do nothing. If he loves you then he will be with you. If he doesn't then he's not worthy of yours love and therefore and he's not ... (read in full...)
Should I tell her about my past?
Q. hey all ive found the one for me and im damn sure, i have a problem with my past. Im an ex-insomniac and the reason i never slept was due to my past, i never went to a doctor or proffesional about it but this is the basic jist of it, i use to do ...
A. 3 November 2008: ok dude dont worry. you should never be held back by your past. because at the end of the day, past is past and there is nothing that we cam do about it. if you have problems sleeping and your gf is asking whats wrong, then i would tell her. because ... (read in full...)
I'm gay and I want to know what I can do to find love?
Q. Hi I am 18 years old. I am a gay guy and I have been trying to find love for the longest time. I live in a small town and I don't get out much even though I have a car. I really want to find love what should I do?...
A. 29 October 2008: ok dude relax. i'm gay and live with my bf. we met each other through a friend so i guess we were somewhat lucky to meet!! but there is never a need to rush to find love. at any age. straight or gay. if you are feeling that you need to fill an empty ... (read in full...)
I'm only 12 and I think I'm pregnant !
Q. About 2 months ago, i had sexual intercorse with my boyfriend even though i am only 12 YEARS OLD!!! i really regret it because i started my period a year ago and i havent had my period for ages! and i think i might be pregnant. i am really scared. ...
A. 29 October 2008: ok honey chill out and relax. dont panic. book an appointme with your local GP/doctor/school nurse etc and tell them. they will be able to tell whether or not you are pregnent. you're 12.. VERY young!! dont tell your bf until you are sure either ... (read in full...)
I'm seeing a guy that is 5 years older than I am and I'm scared to tell my parents about him.
Q. i dont know what to do......im seeing a guy who is five years older than me and i am scared to let my parents know....
A. 29 October 2008: ok sweetheart dont worry! my bf is 3 yrs older than me. (yeah i am gay). but i mean at the end of the day it shouldnt matter if he is 5 years older than you or 50 years older than you!! if you love him and you think he's the one, then you're parents ... (read in full...)
Help! Sex questions need answered!
Q. ok, heres the deal, my bf wants me to give him a handjob/blojob, but 1; i dont know how, im afraid i might not do it right nd 2; i dont know what cum tastes like. can someone help me out please?...
A. 29 October 2008: okay darling dont worry lol!! i had the same kind of problems with my first time (yeah i am gay but dont think less i still human lol!!) well yours first question.. dont worry. you'll know how when the time come.. promise. i mean a blojob.. well ... (read in full...)
I like her, but how do I know if she likes me!
Q. im a 16 year old guy and ive just started college, theres this girl in my form that ive rly liked ever since i started there. ive recently started to hang out with her but i can tell if she likes me the way i like her, any ideas about wat signs to ...
A. 9 October 2008: ok man, well there are really no straight answers with telling whether or not a girl likes you. i mean a guy will tell you straight out. "I LIKE YOU!!" but girls are more suttle. i mean the signs to look out for are a lot more physical contact than ... (read in full...)
Did he come and what to do if he does???
Q. Hi, My boyfriend and I were making out (we havent had sex) in his car and it left me a little confused. First of all i was on top of him with my legs wrapped around. We were kissing, stroking and I was rubbing my groin against his. I have a...
A. 9 October 2008: ok darling that is well quite tough to ask and i admire your honesty (ps i am gay so dont worry i not trying to flirt lol) ok... 1) well if his penis was hard, then yeah that is erected. thats quite usual for a guy especially if he's making out ... (read in full...)
I am scared I will lose my LD boyfriend again, how can I know if he really likes me?
Q. I have a boyfriend that lives in palmdale and I live in south central and I have a feeling that he might cheat on me or scared that he will leave me we got together febuary 2008 and broke up april 2008 and now we got back together on october 2008 ...
A. 9 October 2008: ok darling dont worry! ok i am gay and i live in johannesburg, south africa, and my boyfriend lives in nottingham, england. we are movingin together in feburary 2009 and yeah i probably wont see him until then. i love him and therefore i trust him ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend always goes and parties and I stress about it.
Q. My girlfriend always goes parties and I stress about what if she does something behind my back? I trust her but I still don't know why I think that. When I first started going out with her I found out when she used to go out partying, she was ...
A. 9 October 2008: ok man the first thing in any relationship is to trust one another. if the trust isnt there then nothing is. yeah i mean she may appear to be really flirtasious but the simple truth in the matter is that some people come across as being really ... (read in full...)
I'm nervous about 'coming out' to my parents, can anyone help, please?
Q. Hi there. I am a 15 year old gay boy. Recently I have been thinking of ways to "come out" to my parents. I know they will take it well, but I don't know the time and the place to do it. As I am closer to my mum I was thinking about coming out to h...
A. 9 October 2008: ok dont worry about it. i am gay and my parents took it well. i was in your situation by not knowing how to tell them. well what i did was sat down with my mum and just told her straight out. she was suprised but ok with it. she then told my dad in ... (read in full...)
Why am I cumming so quickly???
Q. Ok I need an honest answer from the ladies and guys if you have been in my situation.. Basically I'm cumming pretty fast lately, like 2-3 minutes, and it's becoming a habit. Which is weird because I used to be able to last longer. But now I cant. ...
A. 8 October 2008: ok man hi, i am gay and yeh i admit my boyfriend did have the same problem. i mean he would cum after about 2 minutes or so. i think alot of it was down to him being so excited. i mean i know that sounds weird, but i mean i think you have got to ... (read in full...)
I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...
A. 8 October 2008: Ok darling. First of all do you trust this guy? I mean if you trust him then you really have no reason to doubt what he said. Secondly, if you got so heavily drunk, would you have used protection. If you cant remember this, then ask this guy asap. ... (read in full...)
I'm becoming really depressed since my mother passed away, I feel lonely and I want to stop what I am doing wrong but there is no one to help!
Q. OK this isnt a relationship question or anything but... well my mum died 6 months ago.. and im becoming really depressed. Ive been to the doctors about it but they cant do anything because of my age (16) and ive started smoking drinking and ...
A. 8 October 2008: ok honey i totally understand how u feel. i lost my dad when i was 13 and well for a long time i had no one to properly talk to. i think it is best to speak via an msn account if this is ok with you. Contact me at my email address here and we can ... (read in full...)
She found it weird having a relationship with me as we were good friends before that, so she finished with me.
Q. Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the ...
A. 8 October 2008: ok man. personally what i would do is seriously think about what is best for her. I mean at the end of the day she obviously loves you more as a friend rather than a boyfriend. yeah i can totally understand why you would want her back, but i mean at ... (read in full...)
How long should a couple be together before "I love you" is said?
Q. I've Been Talking To This Guy For About A Couple Of Weeks Now And I Really Like Him And He Really Likes Me We Started Off Chatting On The Internet And Then Texting And Now We Talk On The Phone Alot I'm Afraid That We May Be Falling In Love With One ...
A. 8 October 2008: Hi there! Ok you cant put a time limit on love. For example me and my boyfriend (yeh i'm gay) fell in love after about 2 weeks. Some others, it might take several months before somebody can be sure that the love is there. Dont rush or plan out a ... (read in full...)
I am a week late, should I take a test or keep waiting?
Q. I am currently a week late from my period I was to have it Oct 1 and still haven't had it. I have take two hbt and they both came out negative. But move lower stomach is tight, hurts, my boobs hurt and i'm always tired. I had a Miss carriage like ...
A. 7 October 2008: well to be honest honey.. go 2 ur doctor straight away. i mean wot if u are pregnent and u leave it too late?? wot then?? x Jack P McVeigh... (read in full...)
Should I tell my mum before she finds out herself?
Q. Hi, well my question/problem is this- I am 15 and recently had sex with my boyfriend of 11 month. We both love each other and don't regret anything but recently one of my friends slept with a boy from school and her mum and dad found out via her ...
A. 7 October 2008: Ok personally sweetheart i would save them the stress. I am gay so i hid more than you are doing from my family and most of my friends for about three years until i was 18. My only advice is when you have sex, just be sure to cover all your tracks. ... (read in full...)
I feel insecure, I hate my looks and wish I had bigger boobs!
Q. Help me, I'm such an insecure idiot... I hate my looks. I just feel very insecure. Especially with my boyfriend. Yes, he thinks I'm pretty and have a nice body. But there's this factor: a) I asked. He likes toned bodies and bigger breasts....
A. 7 October 2008: ok honey! the first thing about being in a relationship is that you MUST NOT feel insecure! Ok? i mean yeah i am gay and when i first started dating my boyfriend i was so worried and fussy about what i looked like, how i acted and everything he ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is only able to cum through oral sex and not intercourse.
Q. I am 49 and my boyfriend of 7 years is 38. We have sex 4-5 times a week. Lately, he is only able to orgasm through oral sex. Although I don't mind pleasuring him that way, I wonder why he is having trouble having orgasms through "regular" sex ...
A. 7 October 2008: ok darling.. first of all he is NOT bored of you, otherwise he would not be with you and also he would not cum at all! me and my boyfriend (yes i am gay) had this problem. He couldnt cum in intercourse either, only in oral sex. What we did was he ... (read in full...)
Do I play the waiting game for my mum's married friend who is the love of my life?
Q. I'm seeing my mum's friend and my mum and dad are totally cool with it, this woman is 35, seperating from her husband, has 2 kids 12 and 5 and has told me she loves me and wants to spend the rest of her life with me, I am 18 and I can see myself ...
A. 7 October 2008: ok man. i am a firm believer in love and i think that nothing should come between you and this woman, even though she is older. i mean if i were you i would totally be concerned as to what my parents would think but as yours are already cool with it ... (read in full...)
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