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writes:Hi agony aunts/uncles!I am in love with a wonderful boy! He has captured my heart, but it turns out that he is with someone else! Should I fight it and try to win him over? Or just accept the fact that I am lonely, unlovable and having no chance of ever being with a guy?What should I do? Thanks all...L Reply to this Question
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reader, Teacake  +, writes (13 November 2008):
 You are too young to make such absolute statements. You wouldn't want a girl to take your boyfriend from you just because she loves him? He is with someone and that is hard to accept.
You are just starting out in life. You just can't be with him but you don't have to be alone and you will not be lonely unless you avoid people.
Can you have a puppy? Taking them for a walk is a great way to meet people because people love to come by and play with the dog, which in turn they chat with you too.
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reader, Anonny  +, writes (13 November 2008):
You are far too young to be talking about being lonely!
- Infact I used to think like you when I was your age - thinking I would never get a boyfriend & so it was 5 years before I got one!! - So firstly be more positive!!
- Secondly, - if you really want him - hang on in there - you never know what could happen! - Like you, I also am in love with a man who has someone else so I thought - no chance!! - But I gave him my number anyway & he does call me from time to time - so who knows what can happen in the long run!!
Good luck!
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reader, Jack_McVeigh +, writes (13 November 2008):
 Ok, from the tone of your messege yoy clearly sound like an intelligent, sweet and sensitive girl.. My advice is to do nothing. If he loves you then he will be with you. If he doesn't then he's not worthy of yours love and therefore and he's not right for you. Because it's better to be alone than to be with the wrong boy.Jack P McVeigh xx
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