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How long should a couple be together before "I love you" is said?

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Question - (8 October 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 October 2008)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

I've Been Talking To This Guy For About A Couple Of Weeks Now And I Really Like Him And He Really Likes Me We Started Off Chatting On The Internet And Then Texting And Now We Talk On The Phone Alot I'm Afraid That We May Be Falling In Love With One Another And I Think He's Going To Say The Three Words First I Don't Want Him To But I Was Wondering How Long Should A Couple Be Together Before Saying I Love You I Don't Want To Ruin What We Have Now Because Of Rushing Any Advice Please And No Bs I'm Serious.

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A male reader, Jack_McVeigh South Africa +, writes (8 October 2008):

Jack_McVeigh agony auntHi there! Ok you cant put a time limit on love. For example me and my boyfriend (yeh i'm gay) fell in love after about 2 weeks. Some others, it might take several months before somebody can be sure that the love is there. Dont rush or plan out a love life. I mean at the end of the day love is something in which we have little or no control over, it just happens. If this guy tells you that he loves you, then great! All i am trying to say is that you cannot predict when or if someone loves you or not. Just let him tell you in his own time. If you love him, then drop hints to sort of 'test the water'. Good Luck x Jack P McVeigh

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