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anonymous
writes: Hi I'm 16, I had a relationship with a girl who I think is amazing. She's funny, smart, gorgeous and has a personality to die for, but we broke up because she found it wierd as we were close friends before we started going out. I didn't find the same thing so should I try and get back with her? and if so how should I go about doing that?
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reader, Jack_McVeigh +, writes (8 October 2008):
ok man. personally what i would do is seriously think about what is best for her. I mean at the end of the day she obviously loves you more as a friend rather than a boyfriend. yeah i can totally understand why you would want her back, but i mean at the end of the day if you love her then you will want her to be happy. tell her how you feel and if she is your mate then she will understand. the way you described her she does sound amazing! but you have got to be completely selfless in situations like this. i mean by that you have to do what is right judging on her feelings. yes it is easier said than done, but you cant force someone to love you. sit her down and explain exactly how you feel. it will be so much easier to talk to her because she is a mate of yours. talk to her. i hope you the best.. x Jack P McVeigh
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