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writes:My girlfriend always goes parties and I stress about what if she does something behind my back? I trust her but I still don't know why I think that. When I first started going out with her I found out when she used to go out partying, she was grinding on the next boy. Help me please... this feelings killing me Reply to this Question
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reader, Jack_McVeigh  +, writes (9 October 2008):
 ok man the first thing in any relationship is to trust one another. if the trust isnt there then nothing is. yeah i mean she may appear to be really flirtasious but the simple truth in the matter is that some people come across as being really flirty, even though they dont mean to be. just relax and for God's sake.. dont confront her with it. the last thing that she's want to hear is that you dont trust her. and what you were saying about this 'feeling' which is killing you, dont let it. when you get this feeling, just say to yourself that you trust her, you love her and you KNOW that she IS NOT doing anything behind your back. i mean at the end of the day.. trust is a main foundation on which love is built upon. if love isnt there, then well, you need to ask yourself what really is there. x Jack P McVeigh
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reader, Joey 2008 +, writes (9 October 2008):
I had the same problem dude, Speak to her about it and how you feel thats what i should of done, i didnt and she ended our relationship because she thought i didnt trust her by thinking those things even though i did trust her i just didnt trust other people, good luck let me know how it goes
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