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| | *tsjustflirting's profile:I am just a regular 33 yr old guy but I have been studying sex, women, and relationships since I was 13 years old. I have read hundreds of books, websites, blogs, listened to shows, talked with women, experiemented with women, and learned far more than anyone I have ever met. I planned to be a sex therapist but ended up going a different route, but I didn't give up on my passion! I am VERY liberal, ougoing, and will never feed anyone BS advice. |
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I'm worried my girlfriend fancies someone else
Q. Hi People, I'm not sure if this question is stupid or not but it has been playing on my mind ever since. I have been with my gf for almost 6 years now and I don’t want to wreck it from paranoia. The other night we got abit drunk and were pla...
A. 6 January 2011: Well, first, you asked the question. Dumb move. Honestly though, can you say you've never thought about one of her friends, or one of your mates girlfriends/wives? Did anything ever come of it? In most cases no. You asked. She answered. She may have ... (read in full...)
Sex: I tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene
Q. I'm basically just curious I’ve only slept with a few people and tend to do things I don’t want to, to avoid making a scene... I guess. It's just a few general questions about sex and what other people think. You don’t have to answer them all, ...
A. 6 January 2011: I agree with the one persons suggestion of increasing communication. Experiencing these things should be fun, not worrisome. You need to say no if something makes you uncomfotrable.
As for your questions
1)Just spit it back on his "unit" and c... (read in full...)
Is loosing your virginity to another girl any different than loosing it to a guy?
Q. Ok, so I have been dating this girl for like 2 years now. We were totally best friends before we came out and were each other's first real kiss. So far in our relationship we have kept it to the minor stuff, like snogging after school, cuddling ...
A. 6 January 2011: Technically to lose your virginity, you need to have a penis inserted into your vagina. Although truthfully it is no more than a lable. In my opinion, you can also lose your virginity with a girl the first time you have sex, even though it isn't the ... (read in full...)
What is the 'norm' for hair down below?
Q. I don't suppose this is relationship per se but it's just something I've been pondering and can't answer it myself! Well I have been seeing this guy for a while now and we've been making out and stuff but things are starting to get a bit more h...
A. 5 January 2011: Shave it. All of it. He will thank you. Any more than a tiny strip of hair down there is NOT sexy, a huge turn off, and has been gone since the 80's. If I was with a girl and she had a "bush", I wouldn't even begin to perform oral. Maybe even less ... (read in full...)
She's getting too much attention after losing over 100 pounds!
Q. My girlfriend is and always has been gorgeous. I love her dearly and since we've started dating she's lost over 100 pounds! She looks even more incredible than I ever could have imagined although she was always stunning to me. My problem is ...
A. 5 January 2011: Jealousy sucks in more than one way. It sucks for you AND it sucks for her. It will just drive you crazy and getting married wont help the cause.
I have a very attractive wife and had to deal with my own jealousy issues before. Everywhe... (read in full...)
I want to express my sexuality!
Q. Hello! I'm 22 and I'm a quite attractive girl. I have a boyfriend for about 3 years now and we love each other and our sex life is pretty good. Despite all that I sometimes feel the need to masturbate watching porn, thing which I don't find very ...
A. 5 January 2011: When you are masterbating to porn, are you doing this with him? Or by yourself?
Why not let him watch you? Maybe have him record you and make your own mini porn. Even if you just delete it afterwards. Maybe see about binging someone else in with ... (read in full...)
Am I over my ex?
Q. hi! well basically, iv been in a long term relationship with someone previously for almost 3 years... and within the three years i have been through a lot with them for example his cheated on me and i stil took him in.. and that has messed me up al...
A. 4 January 2011: You are probably over him more than you think but anyone you had good feelings with and memories with will usually hang with you forever. That's normal. You are probably more, missing the feelings than anything.
But you are young. You still ha... (read in full...)
My husband is paranoid I am cheating on him!
Q. Ok ill make this as quick as possible. My husband is always thinking im cheating on him. I can't even go to the grosherie store without him going online to Verizon.com to see if I called anyone while I was gone. Also he's been blocking "how to...
A. 4 January 2011: I'm confused. You said the last year has been amazing, but at the same time, he is obsessed with you cheating? There is some things to consider. First, did he do this from the beginning or just start? What made him change? Did he find an email he... (read in full...)
I feel like all he wants to do is make out with me!
Q. So I've like this guy for almost 2 years in high school and we never dated or anything. But i just saw him again after a few years and now we've talked about our feelings back in high school. he said he was naive and he didn't know what he wanted ...
A. 4 January 2011: Play hard to get. Make him prove how bad he wants you. Eventually if he is just looking for some, he will get bored and move on. If he is truly wanting you, he will do whatever it takes to get you to want him back. But kissing him and playing with ... (read in full...)
When guys ask women about their sexual pasts, do they really want an honest answer?
Q. This question seems like a no-brainer at first... who's going to say they DON'T want honesty? But then I read all the posts on here from people (mainly guys, it seems) who are insecure about what their partners have done before them, and with whom, ...
A. 4 January 2011: You need to be honest. Completely honest, UNLESS...you really never see having a future with this person and you never plan on telling them in the future.
If he can't handle the truth, then find someone who can because he will NEVER be able to ... (read in full...)
Why do men not tell an ex gf, they are dating someone else
Q. Hello everyone, my question is mainly for men. What does it mean when a man ignores his ex's question? (broke up with 2 months back) When she asks him if he's seeing someone, knowing that she's travelling to see him where he lives Does it mean he ...
A. 4 January 2011: It means obviously you are broken up, so why should it even matter to you? If I break up with a girl, I move on. If she breaks up with me, I REALLY move on. I wouldn't tell her anything about what I do. She either loses that privelege by breaking up ... (read in full...)
She admitted to faking it! Should I forget about this?
Q. hello dear readers so i'm with my gf 1 year and 6 months...so everything is well. But...we were at a party this new year eve, so we drank a little bit as you all know...and we played a game truth all falls, so the questions were asked to my gf, and ...
A. 2 January 2011: Dont sweat it. Women fake all the time. Very few women can Actually reach orgasm vaginally. What you need to do, is be open with her and ask her how she likes things and what she wants you to do. Every woman is different. Learn what she likes and ... (read in full...)
Was it just a drunken mistake?
Q. My friend stayed at my house on new years eve! we had the house to ourselves! we are both girls by the way! and we had quite a lot to drink and then we went up to bed and we were lay there together in bed and all of a sudden my friend started to ...
A. 2 January 2011: First...you aren't a lesbian. If you DO end up liking girls and doing sexual things with girls, but still like guys as well, you still aren't a lesbian. You would be considered bisexual. There is nothing wrong with either one.
Second, it is compl... (read in full...)
Am I big enough for her?
Q. I have been friends with this girl for a few months, and we have started seeing each other, but haven't had sex yet, although we have fooled around a bit. She is getting over a relationship with a guy who she has known for about 4 years, and was ...
A. 30 December 2010: Size doesn't matter unless you are super small or she is super loose. Averge size is plenty good enough for most women AS LONG AS YOU KNOW HOW TO USE IT. My partner has told me that she was with a bigger guy. My answer was yes, but could he make you ... (read in full...)
Married for 6 years and sex isn't what it used to be
Q. ive been married 6yrs and i love my husband to death but our sex life isnt what it use to be how do i get that back?...
A. 30 December 2010: This is normal. It happens to lots of married couples. It's not your fault or his. Fortunatly there are some options.
Some people will tell you you can get counseling or read books to help "spice up your sex life" but honestly I think it's all... (read in full...)
If a girl regularly wears tight clothes or shows skin, does that mean she may not be faithful in a relationship?
Q. OK, I may get flack for this, but the Agony Aunts have given me wise advice thus far so I will give my question a chance: In brief: If a girl you know dresses very immodestly, is that a red flag for a possible future relationship? ...
A. 30 December 2010: I'm going to try and answer this as best and nicely as I can. When I first read it, I thought this was a younger boy asking. What a girl wears or how a girls dresses has nothing to do with how faithful she would be. If a girl is a cheater, she will ... (read in full...)
Threesome gone really bad
Q. Threesome gone really bad. My girlfriend and I have been dating for 3 years now. She had a threesome with her boyfriend and her best friend that was a girl, about 5 years ago and they were dating for 2 Years. She told me early on in our relation...
A. 30 December 2010: Ask her if she enjoyed the threesome before. If she says yes, then you have some cards to play with. Explain to her, it's not that you want to be with someone else. It's a fantasy of yours, that you want to do before you die and you would very much ... (read in full...)
How do I approach my friends about a threesome?
Q. i want to bring up the topic of a threesome with some friends of mine (they're the couple), but don't know how to go about it. i wanted to know, hopefully from couples who've done this sort of thing before, what would be the best way to open the ...
A. 30 December 2010: Sorry this is a little late. It's not as hard as you think. Your best bet would be to get a few drinks in the (not hammered, just enough to loosten inhibitions) then, when you are alone with them, bring up a conversation. Make it up. Like"I was ... (read in full...)
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