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I'm too shy to start up a conversation. Help!

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Question - (19 October 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 19 October 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *iss.bexii writes:

dear cupid,

i need some help, i reli like my next door neighbour, but i hardly ever talk to him and when i do its a simple hello, what can i do to get him talk to me properly, im too shy to go up to him and just start having a random conversation

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A male reader, kenny United Kingdom +, writes (19 October 2007):

kenny agony auntHmm thats a tough one, try this. When the postman comes and he delivers your mail nip over when you think no ones there and pop one of your letters through his letter box. He will just think the post man has made an error and pop your letter back to you, your ideal opportunity to invite him in for a drink.

good luck x

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A female reader, Its_X_ United States +, writes (19 October 2007):

Its_X_ agony auntGirl! You have got to break out of the shy mold! You'll never get the boy if you wait for him to come to you. If you want this boy you need to:

A) Make him notice you. Whether its a dramatic haircut that makes you look amazingly cute or even wear clothes that flaunt what you have. Don't take that as starting to dress like a slut. Its not very attractive.

B) Get brave. You need to talk to him. He won't be single forever. You have to take risks to get him.

C) You need to know if you really like him. If you only say hello to him then you might not know what he's really like. It's really important. You don't want to win over some guy who you think is overly obnoxious.

Practice talking in the mirror. Ask him about sports. Find out some stuff from friends to get yourself started. The go for it. I know you can do it! Good Luck!

Love

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