I love her as more than my best friend.
Q. Hello, everyone.... So, I'd appreciate some advice for the situation that I'm in. I am a 15-year-old lesbian girl. I have felt attracted to girls since I was about 9, discovered more about my orientation over time, and finally came out when I was 1...
A. 17 March 2012: Hi,
I've been there on your situation and it's really "really" hard!!We are also close and we do everything together. I actually had sleep overs at his house and I just sometimes hang there when I got nothing to do. Anyway, just like you, I don'... (read in full...)
I tortured him because he loved me. I'm a idiot.
Q. There was this guy that love me so much that it made me kinda hate him so used to do a lot of hateful things to him so he would suffer because I knew he would keep coming back for more no matter what. He finally left me and I can't forgive myself ...
A. 29 May 2011: Well, for me, if he really loves you he will want you back.. And it is also a good thing that you realized your mistakes. I think you should apologize for what you did to him and explain everything why you did that. Tell him how you love him and... (read in full...)
Why doesn't my girlfriend show her feelings to me so much?
Q. my gf and i have been together for a while now and she means my life to me shes the girl of my dreams i never even thought i would have chances with her. well i did and im perfectly happy with her, but some times i wish she would show her feelings...
A. 10 May 2011: Some girls often do not know how to show their affection towards their bf cause they are shy about that kind of stuff, i know it cause i'm like that to my bf and my bf clearly understands me and i really love him too.
If she's like that, you shou... (read in full...)
Are my feelings for him interfering with our friendship? How can I get over him?
Q. So I submited this before but I got no replies so if you could give me some advice that would really be helpful. thanks :D My ex bf and I broke up about a month ago. We just recently started talking again, and now i feel so sad. We havent actuall...
A. 10 May 2011: Yes, your feelings can be a hindrance to your friendship. As you said, he already had a girlfriend so, communicating with him might be misunderstood by his gf and could create a big problem.
You can't forget about him or move on if you still ta... (read in full...)
My girlfriend says she loves me but she has feelings for someone else, what do I do?
Q. Hi there, well me and my girlfriend have being going out for over 8 months now and there is a 2 year age gap, but it doesnt make a difference to be honest. I thought everything was going alright, then i found out that she still has feelings for this ...
A. 10 May 2011: First of all, maybe you should not see what's wrong with your girlfriend, but see and know what's wrong with you that makes her want another guy's affection. But if there's really nothing wrong in how you show your affection towards your girl then ... (read in full...)
A confused feeling left after being cheated on
Q. the question is for one of my friends. her husband cheated on her with her best friends, the didn't have sex, just flirting and sex talk, he told her to take more care about her appearance and she started to dress and put make up and he used to c...
A. 8 May 2011: That's love. It's just that she loves him so much..... (read in full...)
What does it mean if I move on quickly from guys?
Q. What does it mean if I move on from guys quickly? Like a guy i really really like, could hurt my feelings and make me feel worthless. But i wont get upset over it, i just think i'm not going to let them get to me. Or if it doesn't work out...
A. 8 May 2011: Its just natural! I mean you should be glad to have this gift. Some girls had a hard time getting over someone for a long time and you think that is good? No! It's better that you move on easily. Just like you. Another is, it just show how positive... (read in full...)
Guy who I like so much got a gf. Should I wait for him or move on??
Q. Ok well,I met a guy around the end of November,well..we started talking on facebook and i really started to like him. we met up in January after he had come back from his holiday and i thought it went really well but we didnt see each other since ...
A. 8 May 2011: Yes! I think you should move on. Liking a guy like that is not worth it. If he already forgot you then you should too. And besides, he changes his taste really fast.... (read in full...)
She smiles at me, and turns away when I look at her. Are these signs that she likes me?
Q. I like this girl in my class and I think she likes me too because I notice her glancing at me a few times and when she notices that I'm looking at her, she quickly looks somewhere else. And when I'm presenting my work in my class, I notice her ...
A. 8 May 2011: It's obvious that she likes you!! I'm also a girl and I also do that kind of thing to my crush..hehehe Good luck... (read in full...)
Guy who I know is gay is dating my best friend who is a girl. Should I tell her??
Q. So a couple of days ago I found out my friend is gay, (I suspected it though he came out and told me) But he has been dating my best friend for over a year... and he like see’s these guys behind her back and things. I have some proof on my comp...
A. 8 May 2011: I suggest you wait for your friend to tell your best friend the truth. It's their problem and they should handle it on their own. If you get involve, misunderstanding may occur between you and your friend and his boyfriend. It may worsen the ... (read in full...)
What does it mean to say someone is "damaged"?
Q. So Aunts, I have a question. I have been hearing this statement a lot in the past few years. "You don't want to date her; she's damaged," or "Because of all his experiences, he's unfortunately damaged." What does it mean to be "damaged"? A...
A. 8 May 2011: I think, damaged means that a person is somewhat hurt from a previous relationship that he/she still cannot get over it. It can also mean that something bad happened to him/her that cause humiliation to her'him that he still can not get over it. ... (read in full...)
What can I do to grab her attention?
Q. i like this girl. She is my friend and we talk quite a bit and she hangs out with me and my friends sometimes....the thing is that not a guy has had a crush on her even though she is kind of attractive, we kind of make fun of her and joke around ...
A. 6 May 2011: As a girl, a man can caught my attention if he do something romantic or kind to me or to others. Every girl loves a man who is romantic. I suggest be romantic in every way, say hi to her every time you see her.
A guy can also caught my attentio... (read in full...)
I don't really care about him so why can't I let go?
Q. I used to be really good friends with this guy in my class. Long story short, we were really close, I fell in love with him, went through a rough period with my family and lashed out at him, and our relationship basically ended. A short while ...
A. 6 May 2011: I can only think of these answers;
Maybe because your just lying to yourself and denying that you still love him.
Maybe because you always see him and the feelings are starting to return without you noticing it.
Maybe, because you wa... (read in full...)
I want to know what is happening and if he likes me!
Q. Okay, so I'm only 14. I'm in middle school and I have a big problem. Okay, I know I'm pretty, I don't have a wonderful fasion sence, but no one can have everything. I'm not like a lot of girls, I rarely ever get crushes. A lot of boys like me, but I ...
A. 6 May 2011: You will not know the answer, unless you ask him. Tell him about how you feel and ask him if he does also. Then, you will really know what's going on and there will be no confusion between you two.
ps: don't agree to dating anyone you do not like... (read in full...)
Did I cheat on my bf by "cybersexing" with a random guy I don't know? If so, what should I do now?
Q. Hi, Im a gay guy who got into a relationship about 2 weeks ago with someone who I think is "the one". I feel like it was love at first sight. However I am too scared to tell him I love him because of how quickly it has been since we got together. ...
A. 6 May 2011: It's good that you acknowledge what you have done is wrong and you also acknowledge that that is cheating. I suggest you talk to your bf and tell him what you did and say sorry. The guilt will go away. It is also a way of showing trust.
But I... (read in full...)
Staring at you, listening intently, and getting nervous while talking to you: are these signs of romantic interest or just politeness?
Q. If you’re in a relationship, would you… stare at a woman, wait for her/make your way to talk to her (but you don’t flirt), catch her eyes, your body is turned towards her and you’re focused on the conversation, ask sincere questions and you listen ...
A. 6 May 2011: Yes!, I think he is interested in you and just afraid of being rejected. He is not calling or texting you maybe because he do not know what to say. Maybe he's a timid or shy type. ... (read in full...)
My neighbour kissed me. We're both married. What do I do now??
Q. My neighbour kissed me tonight. We are both married and I am scared to death. It was just a flirty teasing relationship, but now I'm just freaked out. We both find each other very attractive and it's difficult to "act normal". I can see this ...
A. 6 May 2011: You can't bring back normal after what happened that night. The real problem is the two of you and how you feel about each other. It is difficult to not like each other anymore when you already built an understanding.
Just choose on what you thin... (read in full...)
My bf still chats with his exes, even though it makes me upset. Am I right in letting this bother me so much?
Q. Hi, I'm in a troubled spot. I'm dating a great guy and we're perfect except... He still talks to his exes. Once or twice things got slightly inappropriate... with one ex, he made a few comments that were sexual--not directed at them having sex, ...
A. 6 May 2011: No, your not making a big deal out of it, in fact it is just natural for a girlfriend to act that way if her boyfriend still communicates with their exes.
Actually, your boyfriend is making a big deal out of it, you fight just because of it? It's... (read in full...)
Does my crush like me???
Q. Does my crush like me? He looks at me in class, sometimes does silly things when I'm looking, tries to attack me in a friendly way at break, and sometimes says hi to me. He knows I like him, and I have asked him, and I think he is just shy....
A. 6 May 2011: Well, for me, maybe yes, but you wont know if you wont ask him again..
For me, guys like that are unpredictable..hahaha
Got the same experience also, but I found out that he just enjoy being with me and treats me like his sister.;(
S... (read in full...)
What makes me so incapable of attracting a girl?
Q. I'm 25 and have never in my life had a girlfriend or even anything close. I'm not a virgin but might as well be. I've had sex a total of one time several years ago leaving me with almost no sexual experience and zero relationship experience in my ...
A. 5 May 2011: Maybe pay attention to yourself first more than the girls you need to attract. You need to love yourself more and everything will follow. Build up some confidence and don't think that you can not attract girls, just wait a little longer and I know, ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with him, but he seems to be using me as a business arrangement
Q. It's been hard for me. I have been in a relationship for nearly 2 years with a man who's much older than me and never married. I was so attached to him and loved him. He cared a lot about me too. He's been good to me when we are together. We talk,...
A. 5 May 2011: First of all it's is also your fault for not getting over him and moving him. You keep seeing him whenever he needs help or something.
If you really want help, you can change your number, insist that you don't want to see him and tell him the reas... (read in full...)
Depressed after cancer... am I being overly sensitive?
Q. I was diagnosed with cancer last year (September 2010). My initial prognosis was not good as they thought the cancer had spread to my liver/adrenal so they basically gave me a year to live. It seems the tumours in the liver/adrenal are now benign ...
A. 4 May 2011: Being sensitive is okay coz of your condition but not that long. You should not dwell on the negative things that had happened to you. You should be happy right now coz your supposed to live for only one year but you arent.. Thank God coz of that. ... (read in full...)
After 3 years fiance says we aren't compatible and doesn't want to marry!
Q. I have been with my fiance for over three years. This was my choice as I wanted to be sure I loved the real her and she loved the real me. Asked her to marry me in June of this year and she happily accepted. We were scheduled to be wed in ...
A. 4 May 2011: Well, maybe she is just having a hard time with her work. I suggest you talk to her and find out whats wrong. You can find out about what really bugs her and deal with it together.
But if it doesn't work out, maybe she isn't really the girl for... (read in full...)
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