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| | *onkifuluvnicole's profile:I live in America.
Im 17.
I hope to be a writer
or something along those lines.
I have been in love before, and yes, I do still miss him from time to time.
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SITE NEWS: Happy Xmas to everyone, from DearCupid!
Q. It has been a busy year here at DearCupid! We celebrated our 2nd birthday in November and had our 20,000th question and 70,000th answer published... Thanks to everyone who contributes to the site: Those who ask questions, those who answer, and ...
A. 22 December 2006: Thank you!!!
I just wanted to wish everyone a happy and SAFE Christmas and New Year!!!
2007 BABYYYYYYY!... (read in full...)
My childhood crush has returned. How can I snap myself out of it?
Q. Hi Everyone. Let me get you caught up with this first..:) When I was 12 I had this major crush on a TV star..like most 12 year olds,with Posters, dolls, Tee shirts...this show was an escape from my abusive parents. I would lose myself in it ...
A. 22 December 2006: Dont even worry about it sweetie. As you can see, we have ALL been through it!! Mine was Uncle Jesse(John Stamos) from Full House!! And i still find him very very attractive!!
So dont worry, its just an infatuation. And you will find someone ... (read in full...)
Can a Teenage guy get an erection just from hugging a girl ?
Q. hi. could teenage boys get an erection even from a girl hugging them? ...
A. 22 December 2006: Guys, especially teenage guys, get erections so easily. They can look at a girl from 25 feet away and get hard. And so it is very normal for a guy to get hard while hugging you.
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I've got my arm round her... what do I do next?
Q. jus a quick question which only needs a simple answer, when im with this girl i really like and she really like me we get to the point where we're sitting down, i've got my arm around her and shes laying on me. i think she is waiting for me to make ...
A. 17 December 2006: Stroke her arms, her face, her hair. She should smile at you, then go in for the kiss. She will love it and appreciate the fact that you made the first move. Just play it off cool, and everything will be perfect. ... (read in full...)
I've done porn, lapdancing, and led a promiscuous lifestyle. Should I stop all this?
Q. dear cupid, i think that i'm too dirty. you see, i have done 3 porn movies, i have been a lapdancer, pole dancer, and i have slept with 2 people at the same time for money. i also go on a lot of porn websites and i sometimes film myself when hav...
A. 16 December 2006: Wow,
that life you were leading/are leading isnt a very positive or healthy life.
Although, if you seem to like it, then keep it up.
But I think you should stop, because to me, that is dirty. I dont want to sound mean or anything like th... (read in full...)
What are the signs that a girl fancies you?
Q. What are the signs that a girl fancies you?...
A. 13 December 2006: Hey,
I am a girl who is rather open if I like a guy, and some girls may not be like this at all.
But when I see a guy I like, I usually run up to him and give him a big hug and then just smile and talk to him. Whenever I see him in the halls, I... (read in full...)
Update on my relationship with former Art teacher.
Q. I sent in a question in November about me and my realtionship with my former Art teacher. I just want to thank every one who gave me advice and to let you how things have worked out. I spoke to Oscar* (not his real name) one night about it and he ...
A. 9 December 2006: Wow that is so cool!! I wish you all the best in London, and dont listen to the people saying it wont last long, because if there is a connection and love there, then you can make it last.
Im still trying to figure out me and my teacher....but not ... (read in full...)
While visiting him, he ignored me and spoke in Dutch to his friends!
Q. while i was with my boyfriend in his country. everytime we were with someone he ignored me and spoke to his friends in dutch. sometimes even forgetting about me completely do you think he should of tried to speak to me a bit more? and sha...
A. 7 December 2006: Hmm...that isnt very nice of him. You know, I had to learn Dutch....because I moved to holland for a while, and it was SOOOO hard, and I mean, its worth it in some respects...not in others. I also had some previous knowledge of it, so it was easier. ... (read in full...)
I'm her 46 year old teacher, but I think I'm falling for my 16 year old student!
Q. The thing is: there is this girl - a student of mine. I notice things about her that I shouldnt: well I have always noticed things I shouldnt about various girls I am just.. well very aware of the female species lets put it that way. However with ...
A. 5 December 2006: Wow...I wish you were the teacher that I am in love with...this is the situation me and many others are in, only the other way around. We are all madly in love with one of our teachers, and we dont know if they feel the same. Anyways, onto your ... (read in full...)
Am I in love with one of these people?
Q. dear cupid i would like help with what im feeling, i have seem to be interested in two people. one is a movie/soap star and the other one of which i am related to, by that i mean i keep on thinking about them non-stop and sometimes even c...
A. 5 December 2006: Hey sweetie,
I dont want to sound mean or anything like that, because this is a very good question. But it sounds like you are just lonely, and for some reason you are trying for the people you cant have. I, myself, have thought I was in love with... (read in full...)
Bras hurt me and I just can't wait to take them off! What can be done?
Q. i cant wear bras, i tried 4 just a year, it hurts so much, i've even figured out a way to get my bra off with my t-shirt on since it is soooooo painful. it pulls in my chest so i cant breath i doesnt help becuase i have asthma. i have been fitted ...
A. 5 December 2006: Maybe you should start out with a sports bra, they dont hurt, they are comfortable. After that becomes more comfortable, you can try with regular bra's again. Some people have really sensitive skin or ribs, which isnt good for wearing bras. So try ... (read in full...)
I'm 13 and this man from Turkey tells me he loves me...on MSN. What should I do?
Q. Ok, im 13 right? This man from Turkey added me on MSN and we have been speaking for around a month or two, and he tells me he loves me, he is 18, and i know he is because he showed me his ID and he also speaks turkish and lives in Istanbul, Digorlu....
A. 5 December 2006: Can I just tell you something? Never EVER trust internet relationships, frienships or actual relationships. I met a girl on the internet and we became really close friends, and I went out to visit her in Holland, and we hated eachother. On the ... (read in full...)
Does it hurt the first time you get fingered?
Q. Hi, I'm 17 and I have never been fingered. I was woundering does it hurt the first time you get fingerd?...
A. 5 December 2006: It can, but it can also be really really nice. Be sure that you are wet enough, he can do that by stimulating your clitoris. If it hurts, tell him to go slow, and by the time he is in, it will start feeling good. Dont worry about it and be sure to ... (read in full...)
I'm 12 years old and I have sexual feelings for my bf! What should I do?
Q. I think I want to have sex with my boy friend, but I'm only 12-13. I'm having these sexually feelings for him and dreams too for over three months.What should i do? I've been dating him for years, like since I was nine or ten. But it's the fis...
A. 19 November 2006: Hey sweetie,
Like mcbirdie said, those feelings are right on time. It happens, and the older you get, the more intense it gets, but there are ways to control it. Focusing on school, sports, masturbation or even just talking about it sometimes can ... (read in full...)
Why is the memory of this affair still playing on my mind a year after it happened?
Q. hi guys its me, the one who submitted i broke off my affair, my b/f knew about it and now i'm thinking about it all again (16/11/06). first of all thanks for your advice, dont know wether i made it clear before, the affair lasted 5 months in total, ...
A. 19 November 2006: It sounds to me like you are just holding onto this, maybe because it was such a long and significant time in your life...and its up to you to change the thoughts from the on switch to the off switch. Things like writing really help with that. If ... (read in full...)
We came close to making love. Do you think I'll have another chance and feel like I did that night again?
Q. Hi. Ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now. We're in our early twenties and we are very much in love. I'm a virgin, he's not, and he's been wonderful the entire time about not pressuring me into anything im not 100% comfortable with. ...
A. 19 November 2006: I think what you did is so impressive. And your guy sounds wonderful too. And Im really glad that you stood your ground on this one. And of course there will be another time like that. Maybe not exactly the same, maybe even better. So good job ... (read in full...)
coming of age
Q. im 10 years old and want to know when ill get my periods and need infomason about it who can give me some?? ...
A. 17 November 2006: hey girl.
Im 16 now and didnt get my first period until I was almost 14!!!! Let me just tell you, that was magical! Periods are the worst thing ever!! So enjoy the time you dont have it!!! And you really have nothing to worry about babe, it WILL... (read in full...)
My BF hit me across the face when all I was doing was joking around - will he do it again?
Q. I love my boyfriend so much but the other day he hit me across the face when i was pretending to pull his pants down. It was suposed to be a joke. I ran of crying after that shocked and hurt. He has apologised so much but should i be worried he ...
A. 16 November 2006: That is NOT exceptible behavior at all. You need to leave him now no matter how much he says "i love you" and "im sorry". This is going to be an abusive relationship, so you should get out now!!!... (read in full...)
im 14 and i like my 32 year old teacher
Q. Hello. I'm a girl that has just turned fourteen and im in love with my thirty-two year old teacher. hes really nice and funny and i know theres an eighteen year age gap. I wanted to know: Would it be legal to date him when i leave school? ...
A. 16 November 2006: Wow...Im in the exact same situation. Im 16 and in love with my 47 year old teacher. Everyone tells me its a crush...but I believe its love...if not love, then extreme lust. I fantisize about him. He is on my mind all the time.
Well...back to your... (read in full...)
I want opinions on whether he holds feelings for me too!!!
Q. This is about a certain teacher who I feel that I am in love with. My question is however not concerning my feelings towards him or even perhaps whether or not a relationship between us is possible or even morally wrong. I would like to describe ...
A. 14 November 2006: If it makes you feel any better...Im madly in love with one of my teachers. And he will do the same thing...he is so sweet. He is so kind and touches me and grabs my hand. One problem...HIS FAMILY! He is married with kids. I want him so bad ... (read in full...)
It hurts to masturbate - any tips?
Q. hi i would like to try to masturbate but every time i try it really hurts and im not sure why, i would really like to try it, all my mates have and they said it felt great and that i should try. i tried to slip my finger into my vagina and it re...
A. 14 November 2006: you probably are at the wrong angle....think of it like a tampon...be sure you slide in the right way...you will know what i mean when you try again. Good luck!!!!! (ps...its great!)... (read in full...)
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