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writes: hii would like to try to masturbate but every time i try it really hurts and im not sure why, i would really like to try it, all my mates have and they said it felt great and that i should try. i tried to slip my finger into my vagina and it really hurt, i was quite disappointed and sore after wards. can you give me any tips on what to do when i masturbate? PLZ HELP ME!!
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 I think a vibrator would be better for you. If you are a virgin you most likely will want a small one that is mainly for stimulating the clitoris. Also make sure your nails are trimmed if you still plan on using your finger. Sex shops and places like spencers carry them, also you can find them online... if you are embarrassed and worried someone will find it i recommend getting a lock box or some sort of case that you can lock up... also heres some tips and how-to's for vibrators: http://www.articles.lostcoders.net/world/80/how-to-use-a-vibrator/
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reader, honkifuluvnicole +, writes (14 November 2006):
 you probably are at the wrong angle....think of it like a tampon...be sure you slide in the right way...you will know what i mean when you try again. Good luck!!!!! (ps...its great!)
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Ouch!
I'm thinking that maybe you ought to go out and by yourself a little manmade wonder called the VIBRATOR. You can get 'em big, you can get 'em on a keychain. They're lovely. You can use them just on the outside of your hoo-hah and I promise you, it'll be very enjoyable.
When you tried to put your finger in, was it the first thing you did? You have to start slow. just play for awhile (the clit is the place to be) and make sure you're nice and wet before sticking anything anywhere. Otherwise - yes, it can totally hurt.
Vibrator, darlin'. It's what they're made for.
Love, India
xx
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reader, Astrid  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 go to http://www.sexinfo101.com/pw_erogenouszones.shtml or www.teenwire.com and just read info about it I do not think getting ur finger in will help you
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reader, marie78 +, writes (14 November 2006):
If you're a virgin, then slipping your finger inside your vagina might be a little painful. You don't have to go that far. You can always stimulate your clitoris with your fingers, for insatnce, and concentrate on some fantasy. Also, you might want to ask your obgyn for tips on masterbating. Good Luck!
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