He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?
Q. I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...
A. 17 October 2011: I reread your post, mulled it over, and now think that the problem may be in your head. I say this because the vagina is very elastic AND its muscles very powerful...so much so that women are able to push babies through it...have been since the ... (read in full...)
He is just too big, but I love him, how can I please him?
Q. I won’t be shy, I’ve been around the block more than a few times and never have I come across anything like this. I met this totally great guy last year. He was friendly and we got talking. We’ve been dating for the last 9 months or so now. But when...
A. 16 October 2011: There's no shame in talking straight with him about this. He's well aware of his endowments and not hiding any secret. Just the fact that he didn't pressure you for sex in the 9 months(!?) you've been dating tells me this may have affected his ... (read in full...)
My toxic relationship with my sister
Q. my little sister, who's 3 years younger then me, has a serious jealousy issue over me. i know that the feelings she has towards me have always been there. like, when we were a few years younger, she would ask me not to dress cute around her ...
A. 10 October 2011: Tell her you're sorry she feels that way, but a guy that would turn his attention from her because you're dressed "cute" isn't worth having. You need to be who you are. Then tell her you love her and you're sticking together, because at the end of ... (read in full...)
Do I follow my heart and move far away from my kids or try to stick it out?
Q. Hi again guys. Since last time I asked a question, I made the decision to end the marriage, and filed for divorce a few months ago. Nothing was getting any easier, and my soon to be ex even started going on dating sites while I was trying hard to ...
A. 6 October 2011: Oh boy....you prepared long ago, and now you may be offered this great job while your on-line business is in a downturn. Not an easy decision, but consider your options. You're being recruited from long distance for good reason. Either there ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?
Q. Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...
A. 6 October 2011: One last thing....be patient and hang on for a potentially rough ride. His initial reaction to a new woman in the house (you) may not be at all what you expect. Your new behavior will be foreign to him and create suspicion. He may brush off your ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?
Q. Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...
A. 6 October 2011: For whatever reason he thinks you're not interested and unapproachable. You and I grew up in a world where we learned nice girls don't dress sexy or touch our bodies...and to keep our hands to ourselves (personally, I wouldn't initiate sex because ... (read in full...)
Does my husband have a problem with me? or sex?
Q. Been married 12 years and sex has always been a problem almost from the beginning. When we were dating I had a higher sex drive and was frustrated about the quality and quantity of sex, although when I married him I reasoned that it would be easi...
A. 5 October 2011: Wow, I could have written this book. We've been together over 25 years and my guy still doesn't get it. When you express your needs, doee he get pissed off and storm off? If so, he sees your commments as personal criticism. Does this sound... (read in full...)
Is it normal to still be a virgin at 22?
Q. Um ... I am writing this because I am not sure if it's normal. I am a young female (22 years old), kind of tall, OK-looking .. and I've never been asked out. Like .. ever. I was recently having a casual conversation w/ some of my peers...
A. 5 October 2011: There is nothing wrong with being a virgin at 22. Kudos to you for making it all the way through college without giving it up! Please respect your body and value your chastity. Don't have sex with just anyone...chances are you will regret it. ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to use dirty talk in the bedroom and I have no idea how to do it.
Q. I'm quite embarrassed about asking this, but i have no one else to ask... i'v been going out with my boyfriend for about 6 months now, and we started having sex, but he never manages to finish 'if you know what i mean' and he told me he'll only ...
A. 5 October 2011: If you're like me just coming up with things to say can be a struggle. I suggest ordering books of erotica and short stories. With the internet it's easy to browse, but order only from sites that promise to be discreet or better yet order from ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend uses emotional blackmail and I'm not sure how to deal with it anymore
Q. We’ve been dating for about 15 months. I am 27. My gf is 26. We attended my friends’ wedding. I know both the groom and bride. My gf came along as my guest, but she didn’t know neither of them. The wedding was ending since other guests were ...
A. 4 October 2011: She's acting selfish and controlling you ... it will continue to as long as you allow it. Stop playing this game and take control back. When she tries to give her key back tell her you'll knock from now on. When she talks about being friends ... (read in full...)
I thought having a boyfriend meant I didn't need friends!
Q. Hi all, I'm 27 and I have a really big problem with my mood. I didn't stay in contact with my school friends when I went to uni. I went to an inner city comp and most of them went on to get pregnant at a young age whereas I went on to become ...
A. 3 October 2011: Just came back to let you know that I recently signed up on MeetUp, too. What's great about MeetUp is you can join existing groups, new groups, and even start one of your own to attract others with he same goals, interests, or professions. Meet... (read in full...)
I want someone who will find me sexy and I don't think my boyfriend finds me sexy!
Q. ok so this is confusing. Been with my partner 3 years. It's on and off long distance, which has been hard but we've always worked out ok. Well I'm having an have been having doubts and I don't know if its my insecurity or what. Well I have this ...
A. 3 October 2011: You are in your 20's and he's "a lot older". Sexually speaking, you're in your prime, but he could have low testosterone or just not as interested in sex as he used to be. This part of the NORMAL aging process. It doesn't mean he's not interested ... (read in full...)
I thought having a boyfriend meant I didn't need friends!
Q. Hi all, I'm 27 and I have a really big problem with my mood. I didn't stay in contact with my school friends when I went to uni. I went to an inner city comp and most of them went on to get pregnant at a young age whereas I went on to become ...
A. 2 October 2011: I am married and come from a really big family, but I've battled loneliness my whole life. I was number nine in a family with ten children, but I was different and didn't bond. For whatever reason it's just not easy for some of us and others with ... (read in full...)
Do I stay for the kids or leave for me?
Q. My husband and I have been togther for almost 9 years. A year and half ago we got in a big fight. he wanted a divorce joined a dating website and everything. We deside to work things out but I found out he never deleated the account, so i did for ...
A. 2 October 2011: Hmmm, you have a pretty good set-up. You don't have to work; he's carrying the financial responsibility for your education, living expenses, vacations, and taken on the father role, too. But there's the issue of his sexual escapades...what's that ... (read in full...)
Does she want my number?
Q. A girl I work with said she thought of something funny to tell me (we often carry on and joke about stuff and make each other laugh a lot) when were not working on a shift together. She said she would have text me the joke but didn't have my ...
A. 2 October 2011: Sounds like she's very comfortable with you, like a brother, and just having fun. She knows joking around at work can get the two of you in trouble (someone who overhears might take offense and report one or both of you for harrassment). She wants ... (read in full...)
GF lost all sex drive before our relationship became long distance
Q. My girlfriend left the country to study abroad for a year. We decided to go on with a Long Distance Relationship as I will visit every now and then, as will she. We used to have a very sexually active lifestyle before the news of her scholarship, ...
A. 29 September 2011: Man, you are in your prime [sexually speaking], but you need to realize that this young lady has more important things on her mind...her future. And, if you want to be in it, stop measuring your relationship by how often you have sex. She deserves ... (read in full...)
Do all guys use girls?
Q. Why do all the guys i know say they like but just want to use me for sex? Then the guys i do like will like my friends or just stay long enough to get wat they want then wen they do they stop talking to me until they want something else? Are all ...
A. 29 September 2011: Fact: you're under 16 and having sex with little boys who should be having wet dreams instead.
Fact: little boys don't care about relationships. They'll care about relationships in 10 years, when and if they grow up.
Hello? Are you listeni... (read in full...)
He says he is straight. But is he?
Q. I am a bi male. I have a friend who I believe is "straight" but have doubts. Now ordinarily I wouldn't care about another persons sexual preference. But I have feelings for him. He knows that I am bisexual and has known since the beginning of our ...
A. 29 September 2011: I'm not a guy, but I've been married to one for 30 years and I'm here to tell you that two guys watching porn together, movies in bed, spoon feeding, and deep talks about sex is NOT normal heterosexual behavior ... golf, baseball, and dirt bikes ... (read in full...)
I'm totally unlike anyone my boyfriend's been with.
Q. I made a huge no-no. As a little preface, I'm currently dating a guy who is far more experienced than me. Part of it comes from an age difference (nearly a decade) and another part comes from the way he's lived his life up until now (he's done a...
A. 29 September 2011: First of all, stop trying to second guess him. Who cares what his friends and old girlfriend look like? Get over it ... he's changed and he appreciates you, so stop trying to read between the lines. If he's honorable and treats you with respect, ... (read in full...)
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