He wanted sex. I had my period. Finally I agreed to do it, as I was horny. But it all ended badly, with him freaking out. Was his reaction excessive disgust?
Q. This may gross some people out with I need some honest opinions... I have a fwb and we have sex on a regular basis. Well the other night he came over and I was on my period (a very light one) so I declined sex and just gave him head. Well the ...
A. 17 January 2012: There is one important question here, did he know that you were on your period? If he didn't then I do see how he could get freaked out some, I can imagine him looking down and seeing blood on himself, and thinking What the ? So if that is the case, ... (read in full...)
Husband didn't satisfy me emotionally so I went online, he found out and we are working on things but things still aren't right
Q. Hello everyone, I have been married for almost nine years, I have a wonderful husband, he's been the most kindest, compassionate, wonderful man I have ever known, only problem is, is that we don't get intimate nearly enough, if I'm lucky it's once a ...
A. 16 January 2012: For the record I agree with Code Warrior. What you have to see is that it's fun sipping champagne until the wee hours of the morning but someone still has to dump the empty bottles in the rubbish the morning after. Make your decision, on what's real ... (read in full...)
I didn't mean to, but now I'm stuck faking orgasms for my boyfriend!
Q. The first time me and my boyfriend did anything sexual, which was just fingering, I faked it. I dont know why, but I could tell he was getting tired, and frustrated, because i've never actually orgasmed before, and although it felt really good, I ...
A. 3 January 2012: You need to relax, you have got it into your head you can't so you don't. Sometimes it can take a while to find out how, spend ALLl the time you need on your own and find out what works for you, it really is worth the effort and it is for your ... (read in full...)
Losing my virginity.....what do I need for my first time? How do I make sure I last long enough?
Q. Okay so when I was 16 I promised myself myself if I was 21 and still a virgin that I would lose it to someone of that year. Well here it is 6 years later and its come to the unfortunate time that I was dreading and excited for. This girl who I ...
A. 31 December 2011: Take the girl that has agreed to sleep with you, away for the weekend that you have set aside in January. Don't worry about 'lasting' you will be doing it a few times over the weekend and it will get better each time, relax and enjoy. ... (read in full...)
My husband has been impotent for 5 years. Should I stay?
Q. What would you do, if your husband 20 years, suddenly goes impotent , without any any medical cause? He is 50 now, but he was 43, when one day to the next he just lost his erection, and ever since, he is unable to get a normal erection. He also lost ...
A. 31 December 2011: It all depends why you love him? Do you love him just for his erection? So if that's gone you're gone too? Marriage is a journey, things change, no one knows what's around the corner, who knows in 5 years time, 5 minutes time, something might ... (read in full...)
What to do with a lying spouse?
Q. My wife of 10 years had some problems with stealing and lying in the early years of our marriage. For the past several years there have been times I've suspected the behavior again, but lacked proof to confirm, so I gave her the benefit of the ...
A. 28 December 2011: Trust what you gut is telling you, it rarely puts you wrong. Do some digging and see what you find. ... (read in full...)
Should a FWB be persistent?
Q. Is it normal for a guy who wants fwb to be persistent ?. He says he thinks i am really good looking, but i don't think i am that attractive, to be honest. I'm also a shy person, so i don't understand why he doesn't want an fwb who is more outgoing. ...
A. 28 December 2011: He will say or do what he needs to, he wants to get laid. ... (read in full...)
Everytime I tru to end the relationship, he tells me "I don't know what may happen in the future."
Q. My boyfriend of 14 months lives with his girlfriend of 4yrs... Everytime I try to end the relationship he tells me i don't know what may happen in the future. What should i do?...
A. 26 December 2011: He is not your boyfriend, If he was going to leave his girlfriend, he would of, done it by now. ... (read in full...)
After 9 years he still doesn't know if he wants to start a family with me
Q. Should I break up with my boyfriend of 9 years? I have been dating this man for 9 years, we have had our ups an downs, but i have never felt so lost. There are a lot traits about him I love and Hate. But my biggest issue is he won't talk about ma...
A. 26 December 2011: Did he talk about the future before this happened? If yes then maybe this has freaked him out and he is not dealing with it very well. If he has always avoided the subject, then you probably want different things and it's for you to decide what to ... (read in full...)
My coworker who I'm interested in, called me "buddy" while texting. What could this mean? Are we in the friend zone?
Q. I have not been single for a while. I was in a three year relationship in which in the end I ended up really hurt. I've been single for a couple months and it has been tough. But knowing guys still take an interest in me feels pretty good. I am not ...
A. 26 December 2011: Here's what you need to do. Relax, and stop over thinking. He's asked you to hang out, you said yes, he wouldn't be texting so much if he thought of you as just a buddy. ... (read in full...)
What hope is there that this could become more? His friends tell me he doesn't want a relationship now. But I really like him.
Q. One year ago I danced with a guy on a beach party in LA but nothing much else happened. We talked for a few weeks and then things just fizzled out. I have seen him a few times since then with mutual friends, and then at a party one month ago we kiss...
A. 26 December 2011: There is nothing you can do, he's had a year, if he wanted to ask you on a date he would of, done it by now. ... (read in full...)
Does this disgust girls?
Q. Sometimes when I'm kissing a girl or holding her close, I'll start to get an erection. I know it's normal but sometimes I feel a bit embarrased. Is this disgusting for girls? Should I try to hide it? ...
A. 23 December 2011: No, it's not disgusting, it's the most natural thing in the world. A man kisses a woman, he gets turned on, it's what keeps this world of ours going. ... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 23 December 2011: You need to use your mind. Think about what is happening that part of him is inside you sliding in and out, picture it, see if that helps any. The mind is all part of sex too. ... (read in full...)
10 year relationship being ruined by my inability to feel anything during sex
Q. Hi, Please help me - I'm a 30 year old healthy woman in a 10 year relationship that is being ruined by my inability to feel anything during intercourse. I can orgasm fine by clitoral stimulation and I have no issues with sex such as lack of experien...
A. 23 December 2011: You need to use your mind. Think about what is happening that part of him is inside you sliding in and out, picture it, see if that helps any. The mind is all part of sex too. ... (read in full...)
If he pulls out before he comes does that reduce the chance of pregnancy?
Q. Ok me and my boyfriend was talking about if we have sex and he pulls out before the semen comes out does that reduce the possibility of me getting pregnant ? Haha sorry about how I ask the question I just really didn't know how to put it ...
A. 27 November 2011: The best advice I can give you is, if you have sex there is always a risk of getting pregnant. ... (read in full...)
Since he defends my honor, does that mean he likes me?
Q. Hey, I'm a gay (closeted) male in my sophomore year in high school. There is this really cute guy in my class and I think he might like me but I'm not sure. We are not the closet friends but he often tries to talk to me. On occasion he also touches ...
A. 27 November 2011: There is no way of knowing if he likes you the way you want him to, you could be reading all sorts into this, because it is what you want to see. I wouldn't tell him because once it's said you can't unsay it, this really isn't a good way to come ... (read in full...)
I just don't want to be treated differently because of my gender
Q. hey all those who are there... im having a little issue with my partner at the moment... all my life i've been treated differently because i'm female and it really bugs me, i don't understand why all women are put under the same category like...
A. 23 November 2011: Men and women are different, that's just a fact. I can think of something good about being a woman, and that is if there is a war, we don't get conscripted, into the armed forces, these days they do let women go to war, but it is our choice we are ... (read in full...)
Is it normal for someone 50 to ask their parent if its ok to take a bath?
Q. do you think its normal asking your parent that you will take a bath at the age of 50?someoene i know ask this question everytime want to take a bath in the night. i find it so weird? for me its wrong because personal hygiene.. why ask other people. ...
A. 20 November 2011: I have to ask, are you phoning your parent up and asking for permission, to have a bath in your own home? ... (read in full...)
A little primer on women and sex...
Q. A Primer on Women and Sex Look, we girls are funny. We don't sexually mature all overnight, our first sexual experiences are often painful, crappy and frankly unfulfilling on many levels. We don't know how to give blowjobs, most of us don't grow up ...
A. 12 November 2011: I have to say that most of the men I have know, well in fact all but one, do not need to read this article at all, I think saying that is should be printed out and passed around to all men is frankly insulting to men, the same way if something had ... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 8 November 2011: Most rsearchers go where the money is. From Nixon to J.Edgar Hoover. Government money is in puritanical denouncing of anything remotly liberating to the masses. So researchers are more concerned with pandering to the check writers than to solid ... (read in full...)
He chose to watch sexy nurses instead of time with me!
Q. My boyfriend chose watching sexy nurses on TV instead of reading the horoscope with me...what should I do?...
A. 8 November 2011: Any man I know, would rather watch paint dry than read the horoscopes, let alone watch sexy nurses. ... (read in full...)
Should I just become a womanizer so women will notice me more?
Q. I just don't understand why im single. When I was younger I was always over looked by girls as a potential date. Granted though I was skinny unkempt idiot back then but I was still a nice guy. Fast forward to today and alot has changed. 2 Years ago ...
A. 6 November 2011: If you behave like that, the only woman you will get is a female version of a womanzier. They have low self esteem and are not nice. You shoiuld be yourself and not pander to women like that.
Talk to a woman and get to know her. Communic... (read in full...)
What do you think he feels for me: love or sympathy?
Q. Dear agony aunts. I am 32 yo female and I have been in love with this guy for about 8 yrs now. I am a charming, caring, and loving person and I have shown him my cares in many ways. I mean my and his friends have also seen it. They have also said he ...
A. 6 November 2011: I think you should talk to him and tell him how you feel. You are getting nowhere waiting for him. Ask him out.... (read in full...)
Dangers of Porn
Q. I was listening to the recent case of Vincent Tabak who killed his neighbour after he had watched violent porn, particularly of men placing their hands around woman's throats and tying them up in the boot of a car!!! So what did he do, he strangled ...
A. 6 November 2011: I have read this thread with great interest. I would agree that at first glance porn is a nuisance and has no place in a relationship between a man and a woman. I would however like to tell you about my experience with pornography. My first husband ... (read in full...)
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