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I really like her and want her to be my girlfriend

Q.   I really need some help. There is this girl that im falling in love with. Ido not know if she likes me but she did say i was an amazing guy. We havent seen each other lately. I want to ask her to be my girlfriend but do i wait until i see her again ...

A.   7 July 2012: There isn't really enough evidence for me to judge whether she might like you too. Saying that you're an amazing guy could be something you would also say to a friend. What context did she say it in? How often do you see her? I don't think you ... (read in full...)

Losing virginity - later linked to health problems: is there truth in this ABC news article?

Q.   I am a male in my 20's and I am beginning to wonder if I have made the best choices in life or if I would regret my decisions regarding sex in the near future. I had made the choice not to have sex until the right woman appears in my life for ...

A.   2 February 2011: Are you sure that this article wasn't intended to be satirical or just humourous, it sounds like absolute bullshit?... (read in full...)

How do I ensure that I get an orgasm?

Q.   i have had sex only with my boyfriend so all my sexual experiences have been with him. most of the times i don't have an orgasm, because he comes sooner than me or i get turned off in the middle and therefore become less stimulated. i love foreplay ...

A.   1 February 2011: Ok, well if you don't know what turns you on, then you can't teach him to turn you on. All women are different as to how they get off, and in my experience I didn't have an orgasm until two years into my relationship with my boyfriend. I had to get ... (read in full...)

My friend took my boyfriend away from me, what do I do?

Q.   I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively. Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a rel...

A.   1 February 2011: To be honest, some guys can take advantage of you without you realising, like he could just be making excuses, and to be honest saying that your friend is depressive and that was his excuse for having sex with her is not a good sign. A nice guy ... (read in full...)

No contact from girlfriend... Should I be worried?

Q.   Well I have been seeing a girl for two weeks and last weekend was massive, had dinner at a nice restaurant, the next night i met her best friend, and then the next night was dinner at her parents place. Things are going really well and she has said ...

A.   1 February 2011: Omg stop texting her. Chances are you are annoying her with all the texting. Its just too much and you look desperate and clingy. I don't mean to be nasty but in my opinion a guy texting you constantly is really annoying. Just chill and wait for... (read in full...)

I think she wants me to pop the question but I'm terrified!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year. We have become very close over the course of the past year. Recently, she has let me know that she is ready to move onto the next phase of our relationship, i.e. she wants me to pop THE ...

A.   1 February 2011: Don't do it. You are very young still, even if you are in the 22-25 year old age bracket. Its clearly not what you want if you are this scared about it. Making a decision based on pressure from her will turn nasty in the end. Making the decision... (read in full...)

I think she wants me to pop the question but I'm terrified!

Q.   I've been dating my girlfriend for a little over a year. We have become very close over the course of the past year. Recently, she has let me know that she is ready to move onto the next phase of our relationship, i.e. she wants me to pop THE ...

A.   1 February 2011: Don't do it. You are very young still, even if you are in the 22-25 year old age bracket. Its clearly not what you want if you are this scared about it. Making a decision based on pressure from her will turn nasty in the end. Making the decis... (read in full...)

Does he or does he not... like me???

Q.   i need some guy help! it's not so much a question, more just me asking for a general opinion on whether or not he might like me or if he's just nice? so i really like a guy at work. he's a bit older than me, but i'm sure it wouldn't be too ...

A.   31 January 2011: If a guy comments on your hair then he likes you. Guys who don't like you won't notice or wouldn't be bothered saying it. I'm saying because a guy I work with recently commented on my hair, he told me he liked it and when I said I was thinking... (read in full...)

She found someone richer than me, what should I do?

Q.   I am a guy of 23 yrs. I was never loved by anyone- not even my parents. I never had any friend. My parents used to torchure me physically as well as mentally. One day I was thrown out of my house because I had failed in exam. I was very depressed ...

A.   31 January 2011: Your story sounds really tough, you have gone through so much and you've done so well so get through your difficulties. Being able to make it through tough times in the past just shows that you are a strong person, and that you can get through this ... (read in full...)

My friend took my boyfriend away from me, what do I do?

Q.   I like my friend D. I told him that a month ago after I got roped into doing that. And I was happy because he reacted positively. Now, I am angry and sad. My friend J, who knew I liked him, took him from me by asking him to have sex and be in a rel...

A.   31 January 2011: Thats not a nice thing to have happen to you and your friend is not a good person, and she doesn't have your best interests in mind at all. If he was so easily suade by the prospect of sex though, he hardly seems worth your while in the first pl... (read in full...)

I feel like he is pushing religion on me, but he keeps asking me out

Q.   A man asked me out that I met at a party. We met up for drinks and it appeared to go smoothly. he invited me out for a fancy dinner a few days later. I accepted. I am 48 and he is 50. The evenign started out soo good until the subject of religion ...

A.   31 January 2011: Run away now. If I that was me and and someone said "how do you think you will ever meet someone if you do not believe in God?", I would have to start walking away very fast for fear that I would punch them in the face. What an arrogant d**K!... (read in full...)

I don't think I should date this online man, seeing as he exposed himself to me!

Q.   Hi, I met a man online 3 years ago. We chatted along time before meeting he seemed normal other than enjoying exposing himself to me. We were seeing eachother approx 5 months when I felt something was up. We would chat online and his responses...

A.   31 January 2011: RUN A MILE. And then keep going!!!... (read in full...)

Do I have to keep the lines of communication open if a man is autistic?

Q.   Do I have to keep the lines of communication open if a man is autistic? Im involved with a younger male artist who is prone to depression and has been in abusive relationship. I had known him socially for a few months and after propsitioning me (I ...

A.   30 January 2011: People with Autism have feelings. But they find it difficult to show their feelings in a conventional manner like those of us who do not have autism. In addition, they are known to have impaired social interaction, mainly because they do not have ... (read in full...)

We both like her but he won't ask her out!

Q.   i really really like this girl at college but my best friend also really likes her. he doesn't know that i like her and i'm not going to tell him because i want him 2 go out with her cause he's my best friend and i want him to be happy. the thing...

A.   30 January 2011: Ask her straight up!! Don't beat around the bush, be clear or else your intentions might be misconstrued. You could ask her if she likes anyone she knows, you don't have to mention names, but then she might be afraid of putting herself out there ... (read in full...)

Will my girlfriend get used to my large penis?

Q.   My girlfriend finds it painful being on top since my penis is so large. But I love it when she is. Also sometimes afterwards she feels pains in her uterus. Are these pains normal? And is it best to just get used to her not being on top, or shoul...

A.   30 January 2011: Pick a sex position that isn't too deep. Missionary is always good. Avoid doggy obvs. Make sure she is well aroused before you penetrate, lots of foreplay is necessary. Use extra lube, and build up your thrusts gently. And yes of course she'll g... (read in full...)

Is it right to stay with the only man I have ever been with?

Q.   dear readers, i have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now, he has been the only proper boyfriend that i have ever had. i love him very much and he loves me to, we have a great relationship. But people always seem to think its ridiculous that ...

A.   30 January 2011: Your feelings aren't wrong. You aren't the first person to feel this way about someone. But unfortunately, many people who feel this way initially find themselves rethinking their exclusivity to one person down the line at some point. The important ... (read in full...)

I really really like her but so does my friend! Advice needed!

Q.   theres this girl i really really like and i have fallen in love with her. we used to talk a bit but now we speak very regularly. i think that she likes me but i'm not 100% sure. the problem is that my best friend really really likes her t...

A.   29 January 2011: To be honest, I'd go for it if I were you, and if I were your friend, I wouldn't be a cock-blocker. I personally like to see my friends happy and wouldn't stand in the way if I liked a guy my friend liked and he liked her back. But then again, thats ... (read in full...)

Why do the girls I like seem more interested in guys way less successful than me?

Q.   Help, I need major help getting on track! Hello all. I am 27 and for all intents and purposes I consider myself a virgin (the one night of 5-hour attempt where I got no pleasure doesn't count). I can't find anyone compatible and I try eve...

A.   29 January 2011: In all honesty you don't sound like an attractive person. You want to know why? You look down on other people. And not only do you look down on them but in a weird way you are jealous of them. So what if they don't earn as much as you, so what if ... (read in full...)

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