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| | *oodcharlotte4life's profile:Hello, my name is Ashley and I am 16 years old. I really do like this site, I love to help people and I know alot about relationship problems because I have been through alot of them, hasn't everyone? well hope to answer some of your questions and problems too :) |
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8 months of dating and no sex. I'm becoming desperate!
Q. me and my girlfriend have been dating for 8 months. we are not virgins but in our relationship we havent had sex yet. but we have done everthing inbetween. We both give each other oral sex, whilst i have fingered her and had sex with her boobs. a ...
A. 10 February 2011: my boyfriend is the same way, we dated before and had alot of sex, then when we got back together he wouldnt have sex with me, its been 7 months for me, but its only because he has become a big christian and now wants to wait till marriage, we still ... (read in full...)
Have you cheated on your partner and been able to have a good relationship / marriage afterwards? Share the story!
Q. Does anyone have any stories about cheating on their partner and being able to have a good relationship after? Has anyone here cheated on their partner, NEVER told them, and been able to have a healthy long-term relationship with the person they ...
A. 28 November 2010: well i think your question is a good one for me to answer, i am currently in a relationship and i have been with my boyfriend for almost 5 months, its not the first time i've dated him, i have known him for a year, anyways he use to be a bit of a ... (read in full...)
Should I make or break my relationship? Highly confused...
Q. Im having some problems in my relationship. Im only 15, and My boyfriend and i have been together 8-9 months now, but im a bit confused. At times i can feel like theres nothing in our relationship and im just not feeling the chemistry; even to t...
A. 28 November 2010: hello, i'm also 15 and i was in the same problem as you. when me and my boyfriend got together everything at first was just perfect and amazing, you get feelings of butterflies and you feel like nothing can ruin it.. but then there comes a time ... (read in full...)
Am I being a bad boyfriend?
Q. So I have this question people. Last night me and my "temporary" ex (temporary because she asked for a temporary break up). Now anyways, we were texting and I asked her why she broke up with me. She told me because I lied to her, and the poi...
A. 28 November 2010: you are not a bad boyfriend at all, i think she is mad about the money part because maybe she is only wanting your money.... (read in full...)
My friend slept with a guy, then slept with his brother!
Q. my friend slept with a guy, and then a few months later she slept with his brother. of course, neither brother knows that she slept with the other one. neither of them were her boyfriends (the recent brother she slept with is crushing on her ...
A. 23 November 2009: wow,
suprisingly i have did the same thing except both brothers found out about it. the older one did not care and the younger one eventually got over it and we are all still friends. But everyone is different so i dont know what may happen if the ... (read in full...)
What is the best position when you have sex for the first time?
Q. I am 13 and im having sex for my first time in a couple of weeks because my boyfriends parents are on holiday and he said i could come round for a couple of nights if i wanted to ... i said yes ... he later asked me if i was ready for sex and i knew ...
A. 21 July 2009: ok i am 15 and just lost my virginity today but still your 13? how old is your boyfriend?? jeez i didnt even think about sex when i was 13. but you have 2 possiable outcomes... 1. listen to the people that are telling you that you are too young.. ... (read in full...)
Did she just use me???
Q. Hello im 14 and i have a dilemma. Well my really good freind.. lets call her christina, just broke up with her boyfriend..so she's been really down lately. and she's been hanging around e for a while, we're always together but alot more now. well ...
A. 13 July 2009: on my opinion i think she was just teasing you which is not right at all...maybe she is just confused but still it was very wrong for her to do that. If she hurt you that much then i would not have anything to do with her because you will never know ... (read in full...)
How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?
Q. okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it... the truth is...
A. 13 July 2009: okay,...nevermind....his parents decided to stay. so i still need some advice. (:... (read in full...)
How should I break up with a guy that is obsessed and emotionally attached to me?
Q. okay...i'm 14 and my boyfriend is fixing to be 16. we started dating may 6th and have been dating for a while now. he was in miami for a good month and i couldnt take not seeing him...i cheated a few times but he doesnt know about it... the truth is...
A. 29 June 2009: its kinda ironic but after i wrote this i went to read my texts and he texted me saying he had to move back to south america. wow...i was going to be good friends after we broke up but i cant now...... (read in full...)
He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!
Q. okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...
A. 28 February 2009: thanks guys and girls. i gained some confidence... because i remembered a while back my friend talked to this physcic(sp?) dude and he told me that i would have REAL chances of love at ages "17, 21, and 26" i guess it all depends on me and how i ... (read in full...)
He wants it hard and fast and I am a virgin and he knows but doesn't care! Please help!
Q. okay. this is really scary to me so someone please give me some advice. i have a boyfriend, he is 18. i'm a little younger than him, hehe. anyways we want to have sex. he knows i am a virgin.... he wants me to be on my hands and knees when we do it. ...
A. 27 February 2009: i've known him for 3 years. we've been dating on and off for 3 years. he has tried to get me to do all sorts of things in the past. example- 3 somes and anal sex i'm not too worried about the "legal age to have sex" because i don't follow t... (read in full...)
Anything I can do to make this dance night unforgettable for her?
Q. okay so i am bisexual and i am going to my schools valintines dance with this girl. we are going as dates. she dates my guy friend. he says she can date chicks too just no guys. anyway i don't know how to slow dance and i am a little shy, i've never ...
A. 13 February 2009: thanks.
our night was okay.
niether one of us slow danced
it turns out she is not the type of person to slow dance.
i guess she is too "goth" to do that sort of stuff.
but i had a great time just sitting on the floor with her. hahaha.... (read in full...)
Should I just bite his neck some more and make him forget I am a virgin?
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfriend is 15. Last weekend I stayed the weekend with him. I'm a virgin and he told me once before that he didn't want to take my virginity away. Well we started making out and I started biting his neck which REALLY turns him on. ...
A. 25 January 2009: thanks for your answers guys and girls. but this guy broke up with me. :/ but there is a high chance he'll ask me out again as always... so thanks for future advice also. (:... (read in full...)
Am I Considered A Whore?
Q. okay, so here is the thing. i am questioning myself "if i am a whore?" well okay, a little while back i went somewhere with these two guys. i took a pill (not sure what it was but my friend said it would make me feel relaxed) and i started to make ...
A. 19 January 2009: Well is a whore the same as "slut, hoe, skank"? Bascically I am asking if other guys and girls find out will they think of me in a bad kind of way?... (read in full...)
If I don't give him what he wants, will he drop me for someone older?
Q. Hey people I'm 13 years old + I'm going out with a 16 year old guy. I know technically it doesn't matter but I've been told by almost everyone I know that it is "immoral", he is "too old", and I should "stick to people my own age". Please don't gi...
A. 18 January 2009: well i dated a 16 year old at 12. he wanted sex and that was all but at the time i didn't want to give it to him cause i wasn't thinking about sex at that age, sooner or later he dumped me to date on some other chick. and he always cheated on me to ... (read in full...)
I don't feel anything during sex, why could this be?
Q. okay, basically i have no feeling what so ever during sex. My boyfriend is experienced so i know he isn't just not doing it right, he's doing everything fine but i can't feel a thing! he gets really paranoid about it. is there something wrong? i...
A. 12 January 2009: hmm....i worried about that problem myself. i am a vigin though. well i don't feel anything really when i finger myself or use a dildo. O.o i hope i'm not that way. well...i guess i would ask "well when you have sex are you horny before getting into ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my best friend's brother and now she's mad at me, how do I fix this?
Q. Hi,my name is sara and im 22 i have a very close friend whose lately got so mad at me because of something i have done we used to be best friends since we were 11 and we are also living in the same neighbourhood i don't even remember that w...
A. 6 January 2009: well, i date my best friends brother. she told us "no sex in my house." but the other day i told her that i gave him a handjob and she wasn't mad, only upset i didn't tell her sooner. maybe your friend feels kinda betrayed right now. try to get a ... (read in full...)
I'm in love and he's a druggie - did he take advantage of me?
Q. I am 14 years old and no im not exactly sure what love feels like but if i had to guess im pretty sure it would feel the way im feeling about this guy. My best guy friend introduced me to his best friend (the guy i like) and ever since I cant get my ...
A. 2 January 2009: i know how you feel. my boyfriend smokes weed ALL the time. we make out, etc. but he never tells me he loves me. he told me once that he didn't love me and that love takes time. i smoke weed from time to time or whenever i get a chance but he gets ... (read in full...)
Too much hair!
Q. well here goes this is inbarassing but oh well im 14 and have alot of hair down below every time i shave it , it grows back evan more i hate it i cant evan go swimming i havnt been in ages and i just want to get rid of it all completely please h...
A. 2 January 2009: well i'm 14 and i shave mine but they say that the more you shave it, it will just grow back thicker. mine isn't that bad though, does it run in the family to have a lot of hair down there? there is waxing but that would really hurt, i had my ... (read in full...)
14 dating a 23 year old with kids
Q. I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting ...
A. 2 January 2009: okay, i am 14. i dated a guy the SAME way. he is 18 though. he had girlfriends while he was with me.i am Bi too! he tried to get me into having a 3some with him and his girlfriend. i was scared if i didn't do it he would leave me, i was right, i ... (read in full...)
Too much sex, I'm tired & my fiance doesn't understand!
Q. Me and my fiancé had sex three times a day for 6 months straight (with no breaks)!! Eventually she wore me out and I needed a little break from it. A week later I haven’t even touched her in that time. When we going to bed my fiancé went bathroom ...
A. 1 January 2009: well i think she needs to learn to respect your decsion on taking a break for a while, seriously she needs to grow up and relize not every guy thinks about sex ALL the time. and if she thinks you won't have sex with her because your not attracted to ... (read in full...)
I'm a lesbian but I'm not like other lesbians
Q. A lot of people seem to think I'm 'weird' for various reasons, but I always tell myself that I'm a perfectly normal teenage lesbian. But some of the things others, including other lesbians, are saying is starting to make me wonder... One thing...
A. 30 December 2008: this is my bisexual friend anwsering your question.
You are what lesbians strive for. You are young, so alot of "women" aren't that comfortable yet in telling everyone in their whole school, family or friends. That doesn't make them unnormal, an... (read in full...)
Can a dildo break your hymen??
Q. Is it possible to lose your hymen with a dildo? If so, how can you tell if you've lost it? This weekend was my first time using a dildo, and I bled. I'm not sure if I a) lost my hymen b) caused my cervix to bleed c) caused some other area in there ...
A. 25 December 2008: well....i am a virgin. i tried a dildo before, i only could stick it in like halfway because it started to hurt too bad...and i didn't bleed, i probley have done broken my hymen, but i think if u bled then most likley you have broken it, and i know ... (read in full...)
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