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writes:I'm 14 and my boyfirend is 23. i have know him since i was 5 and we started dating 3 mounths ago. but he has a girlfriend and 2 kids. i am bi and so is his girlfriend and we have had a three some. he says he loves me but i don't know what im getting myself into. please help.
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reader, Adee1  +, writes (15 January 2009):
 I agree dating a guy with kids, and your 14..
Wow, Is very wrong. Thats statutory rape.
sex is on a whole othe level emotional and its against the
law.
Your really should stop seeing this GUY,
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): He and his girlfriend are seriously weird if they're into cohersing intimately with a minor! Stop all contact with them both!
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reader, aunty_rach  +, writes (2 January 2009):
here is a sentence that i will say, which sums up what is wrong with this....
he is 23, you are 14 (minor/illegal), he could go to jail for rape.
i think you should stop dating him. not only because it is illegal and also because he has kids with another woman who he is still with. you are getting in over your head.
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reader, goodcharlotte4life +, writes (2 January 2009):
 okay, i am 14. i dated a guy the SAME way. he is 18 though. he had girlfriends while he was with me.i am Bi too! he tried to get me into having a 3some with him and his girlfriend. i was scared if i didn't do it he would leave me, i was right, i told him no and he left me. i was dating this guy on and off for 3 years. he would always come back though and asking for the same thing, it was always about sex with him. first it was "will you have sex with me?" then it became "will you have a 3some with me?" everytime i said no and everytime he would leave me. i didn't want to feel like a whore, i mean i am a virgin, i don't want to lose it in a 3some! i want to lose it to a guy i really am inlove with ya know? k my advice is dump the guy, he most likley is trying to use you to experiment in his sick kinky sex, basicaly your like a human sex toy to him. i suppose next he will want it to be a 4some or maybe even an orgy. the longer to stay with him the more you are gonna hurt and feel guilty about when you get older, i hope you take my advice and the other peoples to. :)
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 January 2009):
 No No No. Don't do it. A guy who has things in common with a 14 year old is not worth keeping around. Dating a guy with kids when you are (and sorry hun don't take offense) but you are still a big kid yourself. And having all kind of kinky sex is NOT making you an adult.You need to stop it. Having 3-somes at 14? What are you thinking?
It's statutory rape. YOU can get him in heaps of trouble. Meaning prison.
It's just so wrong on so many level. You are jumping into things that you aren't ready for mentally and emotionally.
Find an adult you can trust and talk it thru, hopefully they will get you some help.
I'm sorry if it seems like I'm talking down to you. But I can not to the life of me understand why you are doing this to yourself.You are 14. What's the hurry to grow up? You can't even drive a car, get a job, vote or join the military but you think getting into a relationship with a 23 year old single dad is a good thing?
Think hun.. Long and hard.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 January 2009): this boy is taking advantage of you. you are far too young to understand the implications of this relationship. what both he and his girlfriend have done to you in statutory rape. you are a victim to his behaviour. please stop seeing this man and confide in an adult you can trust. what he is ddoing is against the law
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