A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:okay, basically i have no feeling what so ever during sex. My boyfriend is experienced so i know he isn'tjust not doing it right, he's doing everything fine but i can't feel a thing! he gets really paranoid about it. is there something wrong? i can't get it checked because i'm underage. i know all that but i just want someone to tell me what's up. it's kinda scary 'cause there is not feeling what so ever, my breasts are okay, just not down there :/
View related questions:
breasts Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, sushi_wushi89 +, writes (24 January 2009):
ohmygod..im the same way...only im a virgin and my bfs down fingering and gone down on my and i dont feel anything...whats wrong with us!...im hoping i just need penetration...this worries me alot....i understand how you feel....even if your underage try planned parenthood its free...they might help you out
A
female
reader, Fee-Fee  +, writes (12 January 2009):
 There could be a multitude of reasons hon.
You only have real sensation in the first inch or so anyway, after that nerve endings are few and far between.
Do you take any prescription drugs regularly (i.e. antibiotics, antidepressants, migraine pills etc?)
Sometimes these can interfere with your sense receptors, if you are on a long term course of drugs, it may be something you have to grin and bear.
There could be other psychological reasons, such as stress or depression.
I would suggest making an appointment with your doctor and having a chat - there are so many possible causes, and a plethora of questions we would have to ask you to hit the nail on the head!
I believe (or at least here in the UK it is true) you are entitled to full confidentiality from the age of 13 onwards, so don't worry about being underage.
Good luck!
...............................
A
reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): On the odd occasion I have had full sex I just feel a numbness inside! - I too havn't had intercourse very much as I am worried I won't enjoy it! - Infact I can't see how women have orgasms from it!!?
...............................
A
female
reader, anonymous, writes (12 January 2009): i don't get any pleasure, i can feel something but it isn't like an actual feeling, if that makes any sense?
i honestly don't know how to describe it, and before anyone thinks that i'm like 13 or something i'm 16 in a week lol.
...............................
A
female
reader, goodcharlotte4life +, writes (12 January 2009):
 hmm....i worried about that problem myself. i am a vigin though. well i don't feel anything really when i finger myself or use a dildo. O.o i hope i'm not that way. well...i guess i would ask "well when you have sex are you horny before getting into it?" if your not horny i doubt it will be that pleasurable. but you say you can't feel ANYTHING! hmm.....well idk what to say cause you can't go see a docter cause your underage.......it also depends on when u lost your viginity. okay...did you feel pain losing your virginty cause if you didn't feel ANYTHING there then something is wrong.
...............................
A
female
reader, xxkissssxx +, writes (12 January 2009):
 you dont feel anything??? or you dont get pleasure ? wb :)
...............................
|
