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writes: Hey. Alright, so I really like this guy in my grade, and I want to know if he likes me back. We're pretty good friends; we talk and joke around all the time. Recently he's started walking me to some of my classes, and whenever we're talking he looks at me a lot - even when his friends are in the conversation too. He also touches me on the shoulder, pokes me in the arm etc. People have started coming up to me and asking if I like him, or if he likes me. It seems like he might, but I don't have much experience with this stuff and I'm not sure. What do you think, and what should I do? Reply to this Question Share |
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reader, mima +, writes (16 September 2008):
ah... i bet u he likes you. guys just dont try getting too close to a gal, if they're not interested in her. besides, does he do that to other gals? or why do his friends not do those little plays with you? he likes u surely if not for a relationship(which i doubt), for serious friendship. relax...the words will escape his mouth in a very short time. cheers!
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reader, Emj85 +, writes (16 September 2008):
Hiya Chick,
It sounds like he likes you quite abit as guys tend to keep eye contact when they like someone. The touching and poking you could be the reason to bnrush your skin (my boyfriend gently puts his hand on my back) just for an excuse to touch me. When he looks at you next, look at his body language - are his feet facing you? Is his mouth slightly open? Are his pupils quite wide? Better still talk to him, ask him if hes looking for a relationship right now or just as friends. You never know until you ask dol and if he isnt if your friendship is strong it shouldnt matter. Another sign is if he 'preens' himself in front of you. Eg makes sure his hair is ok or rubs fluff off his jacket stuff like that.
Although if he folds his arms or his feet are away from you stick to being friends.
I told my friend of 10 years i fancied him and unfortunately he didnt reciprocate but we are even closer now and both are in different relationships.
Hope this helps, email if you wanna chat or add me as a mate. Emxx
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