Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them?
Q. Why is it when you're not looking for someone, you find them? I had this guy. We have a rich history and have been building up to a relationship for the past 6 months. I love him so much, if not as my bf, as a friend. I think he's the most beautif...
A. 17 February 2012: What i will tell you is a simple question,what do you want?who do you want?if you want these guy?ask yourself does he feel the same way for you?does he want to be with me?am i making the rite decision?you have to understand that you are the big ... (read in full...)
My ex-girlfriend and I still like one another but she has a boyfriend
Q. I really need help with this situation and it would mean a lot if I can get as many responses as I can, thank you. So me and my ex been broken up for about a half a year, we broke up once which was for 4 months and then we got back together bu...
A. 28 January 2012: To be truthful,you have to decide on what you want,meeting her again,does not mean you are meant for each other,tell me something,for how long will you continue to fight breakup,and thats what you should answere,if you guys truely love each other ... (read in full...)
People only seem to see me as an acquaintance, but never as a friend
Q. I feel I have come to the realization that I'm just the acquaintance to everyone. I'm a nice, respectable guy. I enjoy hanging out with people, and people enjoy hanging out with me. Sure, I'm a bit introverted, but people I know have accepted me for ...
A. 28 January 2012: First of all,is the way u,present yourself to people,thats how there see you,they is these say that is all about the branding,packageing,you have make yourself important,you have make them see you as just the flexing and hanging out type,you have to ... (read in full...)
I can't bring myself to ring and invite him out, so how can I move things on?
Q. I have a big crush on a man I use to work with. It started with him and I have now left over a year and can not stop thinking about him. We are ion touch at xmas and I hinted a meeting but he did not response directly. Thinking of sending an an...
A. 25 January 2012: They say sometimes we let our opportunities,pass by,if you truely feel something for him i will advise you take things slow,send him the card,and see how he reacts first,you most find out if he cares about you ring,atleast let him have a crush for ... (read in full...)
I am tempted to have sex with my ex. He is flirting with me and I really would like to respond! Please advice?
Q. Hey guys, I'm getting tempted by my ex and don't want to cheat on my bf, what should I do? My ex sends me racy FB and text messages, and has asked for/sent me pictures of himself in various stages of undress, telling me what he would do to me if we ...
A. 24 January 2012: U know one thing about leaving your past behind,is for you to move on,if you were that satisfactory why did he not marry you,not let him decieve you into doing what you will regret,am a victim to same situation but you know what i did,i told my ex ... (read in full...)
I feel like I'm invisible!
Q. I feel like I'm invisable. I've just got through a very hard break up and I'm currently going to councilling but I feel very alone in the world hell my mother wont even talk to me. No one is listening to me or trying to help me. I don't know whats ...
A. 20 January 2012: My dear your family keeping silent Will be for so many reasons,not because they dont love you,maybe they are scared of hurting you,with what they say,but i will advise you to hold on to yourself,then try and talk to your mom,see her reaction,before ... (read in full...)
Do people believe in friendships without immediate financial benefits anymore?
Q. Broke people get lonely too. And this economy ain't looking up very soon. Do people believe in friendships without immediate financial benefits anymore. I'm by no means lazy or any of that. I' a hard working type guy . Any advice please? ...
A. 16 January 2012: My dear,people still believe in relationship,with out financial benefit,am also a victim,what i believe is,if you love someone standing,by them and growing with them is what should be the ultimate sacrifice,just believe that relationship sometimes ... (read in full...)
Four year age difference. is it too much? Do I go with it? I think she loves me already
Q. Is there anything wrong dating a girl 4 years older than you are. I am 22 and and this girl is 26 and i believe she does love me because anytime we are together she likes touching me,she'll like to rub her hands around my body. At times she'll t...
A. 16 January 2012: Ok,heres what u do,i want u to really find out if she truely love,or maybe wants to just have a flink with u and,live u,if u love her go for it,love does not keep time of age,it only suffers with how u spent it,my dear,if u find out she truely love ... (read in full...)
Am I too available to this guy? I feel after 3 years he is too comfortable and playing games!
Q. Hey everyone! I need some advice When we first started dating, of course, my boyfriend was very romantic and did lots of sweet things for me. He liked being affectionate and sending me little love notes - and he did, ALL THE TIME. Then we began to...
A. 12 January 2012: The way he is acting,is so bad,what u suggest is right my dear,but after doing that see his reaction,and if he is still that way,then my dear,he is not really into u,physically,mentally,spiritually and otherwise,you need to be careful so that you ... (read in full...)
I've loved him since day one!
Q. Ok this is a bit of a complicated one... I've known the love of my life for 9years, but I was only 16 when we met so my parents were unhappy about us dating (he was 20). So despite never having a normal relationship, we have never lost contact com...
A. 11 January 2012: Dont let go of him just like that again,he needs you now,you need to reasure him to trust again,thats why you have to be patience,ok,love is all about endurance,you can see that God really want you guys to be together,for how long will you keep ... (read in full...)
How can I get over him when we just had a baby together?
Q. i'm going to try and make this as short as possible. me and my boyfriend have been dating over a year we have a 5 month old daughter together. he broke up with me today cause he said now is the time he don't want a relationship, i asked him why he b...
A. 11 January 2012: My dear,you just have to move on,if not for you,then for your baby,she needs you right now,let me tell you something what is meant to be will be,no matter what,so dont be afraid,just hold on to your baby,show her your smile,let her know you be there ... (read in full...)
I think she likes me, but so many things are getting in the way of us being together! What should I do?
Q. Well... I started liking this girl (freshman) a month or 2 into school... homecoming was coming up, and i asked her, but she declined because she said she couldnt... i didnt take it harshly because i knew she was taking honors classes (although i ...
A. 11 January 2012: Well,i will suggest you give her time,but always make yourself outstanding,the best way to attract a female is to be seen with another female,to be outstanding,to be her hero,u most do something that she will be proud of,if you really care about ... (read in full...)
I miss my ex so much it hurts and I can't stop crying!
Q. My story is a little complicated so I will try to make it short as possible. I was enganged to a guy. We were together for 4 years. I found out that he cheated on me... (several times) so I left him. I left him without a fight... I just packed my ...
A. 11 January 2012: My dear that was the worst mistake u ever made,how could you just pack up and leave him,without hearing him out,that shows u dont love him,no matter what happen in your life always give people the chance to explain their selves,what you did was hash ... (read in full...)
My b/f says that since I have been with others, he needs to have that experience too
Q. my bf and i have been together for 3 yrs now. I was with other men before we got together but i was his first. i love him very much and he says he feels the same but he wants to be with other women. he says that since i have been with other men he ...
A. 11 January 2012: Dats the most suprising thing i have ever had,what is that,gal just let that guy go,he is not whort it,if he claims to love u,he cant think of such,my dear just let it go,some people are not meant to be in your life,let them go,enyman that love ... (read in full...)
Lack of contact from b/f is making me question everything!
Q. Here is a little bit of what has been going on I lost contact with my boyfriend for month in November and I was trying to get back into contact with him we never broke up but he lives 2 hours away and his phone was messed up then his boss ran it o...
A. 9 January 2012: My dear you are welcome,one thing i want you to know is this,what is meant to be,most surely be,just be yourself,dont lose contact with his sister until you find out what is wrong,just believe in what you want,and most of all be prayerful,because ... (read in full...)
Lack of contact from b/f is making me question everything!
Q. Here is a little bit of what has been going on I lost contact with my boyfriend for month in November and I was trying to get back into contact with him we never broke up but he lives 2 hours away and his phone was messed up then his boss ran it o...
A. 9 January 2012: Like i told u ealier,just hold on till you find out whats going on,dont just give up on him... (read in full...)
Fiance's family treats me terribly and his never does anything about it
Q. I'm going to keep this simple. My problems with my fiance's family are on-going. One example of these problems occurred during one of his sister's birthday parties. She decided to call me a cunt for no reason. She humiliated me in front of her ...
A. 9 January 2012: The truth of these matter is simple,he cant stand up for you,and eny man that cant defend his woman does not deseves her,if he can't tell his sister now that what she is doing is wrong,think of when you are marriade my dear you will be all alone,is ... (read in full...)
Mother doesn't like my boyfriend because she thinks he might be like his mother!
Q. Okay so me and this guy really like each other and we are pretty much dating but my mother does not like him at all. She really doesn't know him she judges his by his alcoholic mother who is also a drug addict. But he is nothing like that he got ...
A. 9 January 2012: Ok,i will advise u to call your mom,when she is in a good mode,tell her you two need to talk,when you are ready to talk,tell how mush you love her,tell her that being a drug addict is not something,you inherited,it is a habit you learn,tell her that ... (read in full...)
Two women in my life...but neither make me completely happy!
Q. i'm in a horrible bind and i need some advice, please! i have been seeing this girl for a couple of months now, but not officially. we started off extremely slowly and have progressed to the point where she stays a handful of nights out of th...
A. 7 January 2012: My dear,first of all you dont even know what you want,no body can make this right but,just you ,you need to focuse on what you want,the problem yeah is,the two girls you are dating you are not into them,you are just lost in lust,you need to let go ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend constantly think I'm cheating when I'm not!
Q. I need desprate help I love my girlfriend to bits but she is always thinking I am cheating on her when I am not She constantly thinks she hears and sees proof when I am not doing anything For example I'm on the phone with her all day everyda...
A. 6 January 2012: My dear she loves Don't abandon her like that,just sit her down talk to her make her see the demage insecurities can cause to your relationship,talk to her,she may be doing that,because of her past,just tell her to talk to you,tell her how mush you ... (read in full...)
Is he worth pursuing or is it just a terrible idea?
Q. Dear Cupid... So in November I met this guy and we started talking and hitting it off immediately. I thought he was so sweet (and still do) and we told each other everything. However... I was honest with him and told him that there was someon...
A. 6 January 2012: My dear, you don't have to put up with a jealous guy, you cant continue like this, what i want you to do is to talk to him, sit him down when the two of you are together, let him know,that you are kicking against his jealousy, but you are letting ... (read in full...)
B/f isn't as highly sexed as me
Q. I have been with my partner for over 2 years. We have had a few tough times but have had some of the best times I have ever had. My problem is that he is not as highly sexed as me, I have known this from the start of our relashionship but I was so ...
A. 6 January 2012: U dont have to be discourage,the answere is in two options,1.is either u let go of him now,because sex as u know is the number key in every succesful affairs,you have to be sure of what u want,2.or u can teach him how to be active,look for therapies ... (read in full...)
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