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writes:I have a big crush on a man I use to work with. It started with him and I have now left over a year and can not stop thinking about him. We are ion touch at xmas and I hinted a meeting but he did not response directly.Thinking of sending an anonymous valentine card. Do you think he will think its from me. I was going to send it to his work place. I dont plan to sign it.I want to move things on. Dont know how to and can not brin myself to ring and invite him out.
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reader, SonOfMan  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 Like all things in life, it's in your hands. If you are thirsty you get yourself a drink, it doesn't come to you.
So it will move however fast or slow; and in whichever way you want to take it.
There's no harm in asking him or approaching him in a way which you are comfortable with and can show that you are interested in him (with out being anonymous).
Show your feelings and see where the road takes you. Worst case he will say he's not interested. Then you can deal with it in the best way and move on having known you found the courage to face a situation you were uncomfortable with.
Either way you will have gained something.
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reader, Emily20  +, writes (25 January 2012):
 They say sometimes we let our opportunities,pass by,if you truely feel something for him i will advise you take things slow,send him the card,and see how he reacts first,you most find out if he cares about you ring,atleast let him have a crush for you too,you dont want to make a fool of yourself do you,just take things slow and be careful.gudluck
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