I treat her like a princess, things seemed to be going well, so why does she say I'm pushing her away?
Q. Firstly, thanks for the advice. I am not sure what to think so i guess it's always good to get an outside opinion. I have been on a few dates with a girl whom i met at a party a few weeks ago. I am 24 and she is 20. I have a good job and have had...
A. 21 July 2013: if you look through the questions posted tonight, there are quite a few like this. the question I posted myself earlier was pretty similar! I think it's the full moon driving every one crazy!! :) But seriously, I'm in a similar situation. I feel lik... (read in full...)
Why is he wonderful one moment and completely aloof the next? Advice needed!
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for a year. He is wonderful and I cant honestly say I have never felt this way about anyone before. The problem is that he goes through phases (sometimes a day, sometimes a couple of weeks) where he doesn't care if ...
A. 23 November 2011: Hello,
Thanks for this and your right, I know all about men are from mars and men do need their own space. This happened about 8 months ago now, and with some perseverance, after that incident we are now the happiest couple I've ever known and ther... (read in full...)
Can it be true that you make your own luck? Do some people attract bad luck due to their own attitudes?
Q. Hi agonys after 7 years of mental cruelty by my son`s father i finally had the guts to tell him exactly how i felt. And what he really meant to me. In the past i held back my true feelings as i still loved him and had hope that he would change to b...
A. 3 July 2011: Hello, I really believe that you make your own luck!! The days I'm positive, happy and nice to people, I feel better in myself and tend to have better days. When I'm moody and storming about the house, I'll stub my toe, then get angrier at the ... (read in full...)
What's wrong with me? or is it that my boyfriend cheated?
Q. can someone tell me whats wrong with me? okay so thursday my boyfriend went to his friends house. and didnt text me for 5 hours i texted him but he didnt text me back. so i texted him again and he finally texted me back. then we texted for 1 hou...
A. 3 July 2011: Hi, This would really bug me too. I hate that feeling, it's the worst. There is nothing wrong with being angry about this but you have to get to the bottom of why you feel like this. My opinion is that you should sit down and talk to him ... (read in full...)
I asked a question and don't like the answer I got!
Q. I am a more touchy-feely person than my wife is. I think she is incredibly sexy and to show her I think so and to be affectionate I like to lightly slap or rub her bum for instance when she is standing at the sink doing dishes. It's a cheap th...
A. 3 July 2011: Hiya, It's horrible getting the truth when it's something that you didn't want to know. The good thing is that you did ask, so don't feel hurt by the reply, tell yourself well done, because not many men would be considerate enough to ask in the f... (read in full...)
Does everything need to be close to perfect before you propose?
Q. I am in love with my girlfriend and she says she is in love with me. However, our relationship is not without problems. There are still a few complex issues we are working through with the help of a therapist, some of which are not directly...
A. 9 May 2011: Oh I think this is lovely! You've said it yourself, you want this woman to be your wife even with problems and I think you've answered your own question. Life isn't perfect, relationships aren't perfect, and I think we need happy occasions and ... (read in full...)
I'm not attracted to my girlfriend's body. Should I leave her?
Q. Hi. I don't know what to do. Please read the whole question before cursing me and telling me what an idiot I am. You can do that after you've read the question. Well, I am not attracted to my girlfriend's body. We've been together for several mont...
A. 19 March 2011: Hi, I agree with dmartin89, but I'd say don't be so hard on yourself. If you're passionate about health and fitness there's nothing wrong with that. For her health it would benefit her to be healthy and it's your natural instinct to be attracte... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to travel to him! What do I do?
Q. Dear Aunts, I have been dwelling with this thoughts of me for a couple months now. It is about my boyfriend whom I met online 15 months ago. He used to tell me about coming here to be with me and then after a few months he stopped doing that in...
A. 19 March 2011: Please please be careful. A man convinced me to move only 30 minutes away from my home town and it was awful. he refused to move to my home town. We have now broken up and the difficulty of moving all my things back was a nightmare. I now ... (read in full...)
Am I stupid or has it been too long since we onced liked each other?
Q. well i used to really like this guy and he liked me too but we were both really shy and nothink become of it. we used to hang out all the time and we would talk on instant messenger every night untill i ended up kissing one of his friends and he was ...
A. 28 June 2008: Hi,
No your not stupid at all!! I think when we really like somebody it never really goes away completely, and I bet he thinks the same. Maybe you could do some investigating and ask around to check he hasn't met somebody new in the mean time, an... (read in full...)
Do these things mean he is losing interest in me and wants to break up?
Q. Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about a year and 1/2 everything seemed to be doing great, until recently. It seems that he is losing interest in me.. and getting to the point to were he cant stand me. He points out to me, what wrong with ...
A. 28 June 2008: Hi hun, I actually went through something very very similar!! In the end it got me so down and depressed trying to fix things and do things to make him happy and wondering what I was doing wrong. He used to come over for about 5 minutes and then... (read in full...)
I'm really confused, because I don't know if my feelings for him are true,! How do I figure this out?
Q. Well, I like this guy and he likes me back. I'm 15 and he is 16. We told each other that we like each other 1 month back. We are not going out just yet, we're on the verge of going out. We are getting to know each other more in that way. I met...
A. 27 June 2008: Hi hun,
Well, everybody is different, but I know when I am interested in somebody, especially at first, I cant stop thinking about them, I go out of my way to speak to them and am devastated if I cant speak to them. I only start to wonder i... (read in full...)
She was my rock, she meant everything to me, but I cheated. What now?
Q. I used to go out with this girl who was my rock. She meant everything to me and still does to this day. The problem was, i cheated on her with this other girl that we will cal sophie for arguements sake. I cheated at the beginning of the relations...
A. 27 June 2008: Well, its true that you dont know what you've got til its gone. Its terrible that you cheated but it happens sometimes when we have weak moments. Im an old romantic and say try and get her back!! First of all apologise and admit full responsibilty ... (read in full...)
What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend?
Q. What can I do about my suicidal ex boyfriend? We broke up on Wednesday after a year and as a result he took an overdose and has been in hospital since. I've visited him every day because I feel responsible, he says he's going to change for me so ...
A. 27 June 2008: Hi hun,
What an awful position to be put in. Its obvious he is very fragile but he should never have put you in that situation. Im no psychiatrist but I believe that somebody who is suicidal needs to sort themself out, and not to lean too much... (read in full...)
How do I get over being shy to tell her I like her?
Q. Im in love with this girl named alexius. she is so hot, she would fry an egg if you put it on her. I dont think she knows I like her. I dont know how to get her to like me. If you saw my picture you would think I wouldnt have this problem. People ...
A. 17 October 2007: hiya,
Just get her talking about anything. Does she like animals for example? Get her talking about her favourite animal, or maybe something that she is passionate about. Show interest in what she's saying and what she likes and go from there. B... (read in full...)
How do I control the different sides of my personality?
Q. I know around the teenage years people are trying to find themselves, and try to become comfortable in their skin. I have two sides, if I may: 1) I can be so polite, friendly, sensative, very easy going and just all around fun. 2) All around fun...
A. 17 October 2007: Hi, yeah I am the same!!! I completely change as to who I am around at the time. Sometimes I say things that one group of friends will find funny, and other people look at me like Im really offensive!
You've just got to try and remember who you ... (read in full...)
I often think about being gang banged, whats wrong with me?
Q. I know this sounds kinda sick but I'm 18 years old and I'm a really horny girl..sometimes the thoughts that run through my head make me ashamed...i often think about getting gang banged and having multiple penises involved in my fantasies..what's up ...
A. 25 August 2007: hey,
fantasies are very different to reality. There is nothing to be ashamed of, its not sick. Read cosmo magazine and there are loads of people who do the same. If your just thinking about it then whats the harm?? (unless its illegal of cour... (read in full...)
Should I get my ex a birthday card?
Q. Should I get my ex a birthday card? We have had trouble talking since we split 2 months ago.. 2 months today, actually, and so, I'm not sure we are actually speaking at the moment. I told her I didn't think we should, because anytime we do I ...
A. 25 August 2007: hi, hun if she's saying she is over it then maybe just get on with your life too. Its great staying friends but sometimes one person wants to get back together and the other doesnt and it can be confusing for you both. so i'd say play it cool and ... (read in full...)
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