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How do I get over being shy to tell her I like her?

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Article - (16 October 2007) 7 Comments - (Newest, 15 February 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Im in love with this girl named alexius. she is so hot, she would fry an egg if you put it on her. I dont think she knows I like her. I dont know how to get her to like me. If you saw my picture you would think I wouldnt have this problem. People have told me i got great eyes and im good looking and have a problem pleasing the ladies. I like flirting, Im usually good at that if the girl lets me. but I feel shy to tell her I like her. I just cant get her image out of my head. How do I get over being shy to tell her I like her?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (15 February 2008):

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thanks but dont reply to this any more because im the poster of this, thank u

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A male reader, bobbb United Kingdom +, writes (9 November 2007):

if she likes u she will show it u cant make her like you just smile say hello and see where that leads to

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A female reader, iwillhelp United States +, writes (9 November 2007):

iwillhelp agony auntwell i am thinking you just like hr for her looks but if you dont suggest you tell her get her alone and tell her how you be feeling or it will be bothering you more whats it gonna hurt so trust me and follow ur heart if you have any questions email me

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A male reader, thelovedoctor United States +, writes (31 October 2007):

the love doctor is IN

First off DON'T tell her I repeat DO NOT go up to her and say "hey I like you" that does not work with girls no matter what they say its not true.

1. What you need to do is be have a GOOD sense of humor but don't make everything a joke. also be nice and genuine.

2. Get to know her better. She might not be as good as you think she is or she might you never know.

3. Stay calm, Don't Panic. Women can smell insecurity and thats a turn off.

4. BE CONFIDENT! that is a major tool don't put yourself down. Hold your head up and make eye contact no matter how hard it is. But don't just out right stare either.

THE KEY = is balancing the above out

good luck

God Bless

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A female reader, hello2580 United Kingdom +, writes (27 October 2007):

just like start sitting next to her at like cafateria or somewhere or talk to her alot she will get the massege

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A reader, anonymous, writes (18 October 2007):

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im the one who wrote this article. I messed up while i was typing. I meant to say i dont have a problem pleasing the ladies.

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A female reader, elizabeth1986 United Kingdom +, writes (17 October 2007):

hiya,

Just get her talking about anything. Does she like animals for example? Get her talking about her favourite animal, or maybe something that she is passionate about. Show interest in what she's saying and what she likes and go from there. Build up a rappor with her. If she smiles alot at you and seems comfortable speaking with you then maybe get a bit more flirtatious. Then if she is showing signs of liking you back then go for it. If you get rejected then so what, there are plenty more fish in the sea!! But if you dont.. then whoooo!! :-)

Be a gentleman, be chatty, be confident and go from there i'd say!! Good luck with that :-)

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