Like what
she writes?
... Add *l Lori to your favourite agony aunts
Want to get in touch?
... Send *l Lori a private message | | | *l Lori's profile:I do not want to give too much info about myself because this forum is not about me. I am hear to listen to questions and help to the best of my ability.
The only I was say that makes me tick is rudeness. People are have right their opinion but they do not need to be rude about it. |
|
Should I have sex with him knowing it means more to me than him?
Q. I'm 16 and I've been friends with this guy since year 7, we've always been incredibly close for example he rings me up all the time for a chat and we have nights in together, he's really attractive and I'm not. During our friendship he's ...
A. 2 May 2010: First, do not ever think someone is better then you. Second, don't have sex with someone if they do not return your feelings. You will be fooling yourself if you do not think you get hurt. Instead, wait until that right person whom you love and ... (read in full...)
What does "I'm physically attracted to you" mean?
Q. What does it mean when a guy says he is physically attracted to you?...
A. 2 May 2010: he likes something physical about you like your boobs, tush, legs, face etc. Sometimes it implies they want to have sex with you. Best of Luck!... (read in full...)
Would you consider me a slut?
Q. i've slept with 13 people, i'm 17, does this make me a slut?...
A. 2 May 2010: You are not a slut. My concern is how you are using sex. or better yet how sex is using you. I am sad to say young teenagers as as adult sometimes over use sex as a means of control or release to frustration. If you are asking if you are a slut then ... (read in full...)
Why am I so worried about getting in a relationship?
Q. I am 25, and have never really been in a relationship. I have hooked up but have never had a legit girlfriend. I always kind of longed for one but I always told myself I wanted to wait until I got a career, had my fun, travel and all that. Fast ...
A. 30 April 2010: Don't the fear of the relationship not working if you haven't started a relationship. Be afraid is living a life half lived. Jump in or atleast get your feet wet. Worrying freedom and such is something you will work out later on. Remember ... (read in full...)
I want to wait until marriage for sex, how can I resist temptation?
Q. I'm 22, and I finally have a boyfriend, and just lost my first kiss about a year ago. I have always said I'd wait till marriage before sex, but I keep getting tempted. I moved in with him because I had no where else to go. Which is really not help...
A. 29 April 2010: Living together makes it very difficult to resist the urge to. You need to have this talk with your boyfriend about you wanting to wait but what are you mean by waiting until marriage for sex? Do you mean not having any sex that involves ... (read in full...)
Dos and don'ts of a long distance relationship?
Q. I am in a long distance relationship with my girl for over two months, how do we survive, what are the dos and don'ts,because i have heard that it rarely works. If u have been in one before,your help we be appreciated. ...
A. 23 April 2010: I believe it can work but like any relationship it takes two people. Both of you have to be ready to put in the work to maintain. Keep things interestings talk different through email, phone, and webcam. Take breaks once in awhile too like any close ... (read in full...)
Should I have outgrown fancying celebrities?
Q. I,m 18 years old and I still really fancy celebritys shouldnti,ve grown out of this?...
A. 23 April 2010: Ever hear of the tarts? Usually older women but there is a mix of younger womentotally devoted to Gerard Butler. Or even recently how many women are crazy for that Edward/Robert fellow from Twilight? My point is that there are fans of all ages for ... (read in full...)
Should I just get out of my daughters life?
Q. What should i do ? well i have 7 kids all together. my oldest one don't live with me because her father is a real ass . and the people my daughter live with i can't stand them at all. she's going to be 12 yrs old . now they r telling her lies about ...
A. 27 March 2010: You need to be there for her and you need to tell her that. She might feel you are choosing her father over her but you need to make her see that she still has you. Stay in her life. Best of luck and wishes!... (read in full...)
Going on birth control
Q. going on the pill, my girlfriend is going on birth control. She said that now that shes going on it i can cum in her and she wants me to, i did anyways with a condom on but now that shes going on birth control she wants me to without one cuz she ...
A. 27 March 2010: keep using condoms, no birth control is 100% and as the poster below wrote you should protect yourself from STDs. Be safe and best of luck... (read in full...)
Does masturbating affect my sex life?
Q. Does masturbating effect my actual sex life??? I'm 15 and i started masturbating approx. 1 yr ago... ...
A. 9 March 2010: The only affect I can think of is if you are using a vibrator. Over use of a vibrator or vibrating toy can deaden the nerve ending in your clitoris and vagina. Keep your toys clean. Enjoy and be safe. ... (read in full...)
Self conscious about my vagina...
Q. ok well... im very self concious of my vagina... my husband thinks it's great... but i've noticed that my 'vagina lips' are a little farther apart than normal to me... and my clitoris is a little big... so is there anything i could do to help ...
A. 9 March 2010: There is nothing wrong with you. Vaginas come in all shapes and size just like penises. There have been many studies on the variations of vaginas and clitoris and trust me the variation is wide! There is no normal looking vagina :) you are fine and ... (read in full...)
SOS: In a relationship but in love with teen girls!
Q. Greetings to all on DearCupid: I'm 21, from Miami (Florida, not Ohio), and I have an internal issue involving whether I should stay in love with my 19-year-old long-distance girlfriend I've met on a social gaming site about a month ago, or fa...
A. 9 March 2010: You are swiming out in murky waters. As Accountable said you asking if its okay to engage in sexual intercourse with a teenage girl. If you really like this girl and if she is worth the wait then wait until she is 18. This could get messy especially ... (read in full...)
How do you talk dirty?
Q. How do you talk dirty? I've never understood this for some reason. Like what kind of things do guys want to hear? What if you're just talking over the phone? What kind of things does one say? I ask because I have a semi-long distance relationship ...
A. 6 March 2010: As anonymous male reader says, just say what you like to do if he was there at that moment. Say things that you are only comfortable with. Dont be like the girls in a porno...think more like an erotic novel. It will feel funny and awkward. Best of ... (read in full...)
Sent him a pic that wasn't me...how do I get out of this situation?
Q. I need to break up with my long-dist relationship boyfriend. We've been dating 7 months. There's no real reason to break up except..I sent him a pic that wasn't me. I know, I know. I'm too ashamed to tell him the truth, and I'm supposed to be ...
A. 6 March 2010: Honesty is the best policy as Ben Franklin once said. Tell him the truth. Wait and see how he responds and if he wants to see what you really look like. Best of luck :)... (read in full...)
Help! How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex writing on his facebook wall?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I can’t seem to stop obsessing over his ex. He has never talked about her to me, the only thing I know is they used to live together in Florida, broke up almost a year ago and they tried to be ...
A. 28 February 2010: Oh hon, I'm so glad to read that eveything work out great! :) I wish you the best of luck!... (read in full...)
1 month late... BABY????
Q. ok so i am a month late. i took 2 at home pregnancy tests already. when i was a day late and 2 weeks late and they both came out negative but now im a month late and nothing. me and my bf dont use pertection. he uses the PULL OUT METHOD? i want to ...
A. 16 February 2010: There is a chance you could be pregnant. Go to the doctor to get a pregnacy test. Congrats if you are. If you are not pregnant, please use a condom. Only you can take care of your health. Best of luck... (read in full...)
Will you say a prayer for us please...?
Q. Me and my fiance have been trying to conceive for 7 months.. We hope that we've done it this month.. We really do.. But i feel the need that if someone were to pray for us, for the miracle of life, then it'd help us, so please, say a prayer for us? ...
A. 16 February 2010: You have my prayers :) Remember to not to try too hard. Just go with the flow and it will happen for you. Best of luck!... (read in full...)
Help! How do I deal with my boyfriend's ex writing on his facebook wall?
Q. I’ve been with my boyfriend for 6 months now and I can’t seem to stop obsessing over his ex. He has never talked about her to me, the only thing I know is they used to live together in Florida, broke up almost a year ago and they tried to be ...
A. 16 February 2010: I understand what you are going through. I hate saying this but there isn't anything you can do except keep busy. When you feel really worried about his ex feelings, do something else. Pick up a hobby, go out with your friends, or take a day out by ... (read in full...)
How can I stop worrying all the time and learn to trust him and have fun?
Q. hey there, i need some help i think i could be the worst possible girlfriend ever, alls i do is worry about my bf hurting me, by keeping things from me or cheating on me...he has an ex girlfriend who lives 2 hours away, where he use to live, an...
A. 13 February 2010: Keep busy like finding a hobby, go out with your friends or just go out on your own. You can't make yourself sick and miss out what's going on by worrying all the time. If he cheats, he cheats. You have no control over what he will do or not. Just ... (read in full...)
I have a crush on a man-whore and want to loose my virginity to him!
Q. Hello im 13, and 14 in a few days i have this big crush on this boy and he has one on me, but he is known to be a bit of a man slut if you know what i mean. well he has had sex a good few times, i really want to loose my virginity to him, he is so...
A. 12 February 2010: honey, you are 13 you have your whole life to have sex. Plus if this guy is a man whore then you could catch something. Some STDs you are stuck with for life. Pregnancy is not the only thing to worry about. If you can not understand the machanics of ... (read in full...)
Sexual partners are shocked over how wet I got. Is this normal?
Q. I'm 18 and recently tried to have a threesome with some friends (that drunk night) They both were shocked at how wet I was; even when not arroused and how smoothe my lips were. Just wondering...is it normal to be that wet or smoothe?...
A. 12 February 2010: there is no such thing a "normal" looking vuvla. they come in a variety of looks.. and getting wet is a nature's lubrication so good that good if you get wet alot.
P.S as caringguy said dont let yourself be used. Always have sex with a condom a... (read in full...)
Pain after foreplay, sometimes after masturbation, and always during sex.
Q. I am turning to you, Dear Cupid, because I am growing exhausted. I have been having sex for a few years now and have had a few different partners. But I've honestly never enjoyed it like I suspect I should. I feel dry and in pain almost imme...
A. 12 February 2010: Douching alot can cause vaginal dryness and destroy the "good" bacteria which can lead to yest infections... (read in full...)
Can I kiss him after I blow him?
Q. I'm planning on giving my boyfriend a blowjob. Can I kiss him immediately after or do I need to wash out my mouth first?...
A. 12 February 2010: depends on the guy....regardless you should always have him wear a condom during sex. Yes, oral is still sex and you can catch an STD. best of luck... (read in full...)
Mom is drinking, wondering if she's going crazy, how to handle this?
Q. If nothing else, I'd like to use this space to vent. Advice and even just opinions would be fantastic. To begin, I think my mum is going crazy. I remember that the only time my mum used to drink alcohol when I was younger was on Saturday nights ...
A. 19 June 2009: Honeypie is right, you should check out AL-Anon which is a support group for family memembers with a love one who is an alcoholic. Also there is Alteen. this is there website: http://www.al-anon.alateen.org/ The said truth is alcoholics can n... (read in full...)
Friends are ment to stick you right? Why are they telling me to change?
Q. Hello, I am a 16 year old girl. I admit that I smoke, I occasionally go out at the weekend and get drunk, and I have taken pills about 3 times in my life (but legal highs). And I have had a few boyfriends. I have, however, never had sex or done ...
A. 19 June 2009: Sometimes friends and I mean real friends the ones who have the ability to look you in the eye and tell you the truth is hard to come by. Sometimes friends do feel they can say the truth which sometimes is not always so nice to hear. If they really ... (read in full...)
Sex/Love
Q. I have been thinking if I should lose my virginity to my boyfriend that I've been going out with almost a year. He's a virgin too, we're both 15 years old. Since I'm his first love and he's mine to we want our first time to be with each other but I ...
A. 14 November 2008: It sounds like there is a part of you that is telling you to wait if you feel that you are not ready. Listen to your instincts they are there for a reason. You are both very young and have plenty of time to experience sex later. Be patience its a ... (read in full...)
Should I proceed with this relationship, or is the age difference going to mess us up?
Q. So, I'm 15, turning 16 in like, two and a half months or something. I like this guy who's 21. He's really sweet, smart, funny and terribly caring My parents won't let me see him, but I've been telling them I'm with someone else. My question is, ...
A. 14 November 2008: Age difference can be a problem in a relationship, but seening as you are only 15 soon to be 16 and this guy is 21, end it. He can get into trouble. You are still young and will not be able to go to certain places that he can. This will put a ... (read in full...)
How can I suggest to him we use condoms without hurting his feelings?
Q. Hey guys! Well I am gay and have been with my boyfriend now for the best part of 3 years. We've recently started having sex but I am a little concerned about using protection. I mean I know that we can't get pregnant or anything like that but I mean ...
A. 14 November 2008: Asking your partner to use protection is not saying "I don't care about you". It says quite the opposite. Also, you need to think about your own health. Especially if both you have had previous sexual partners. This goes out to both straight and gay ... (read in full...)
I am so disgusted with my weight that I cringe every time I look in the mirror
Q. I am so disgusted with my weight that I cringe every time I look in the mirror. I would like to have a nice figure, and I would like to be able to wear stylish clothes and be poised and confident, and it makes me cringe to see all the blubber ...
A. 14 November 2008: Weight is an issue many women struggle with so do not feel alone because you are not, so hang in there. Start by taking little steps such as drinking lots of water instead,take the stairs instead of an elevator, and don't eat late, eat small and ... (read in full...)
Is having an internet lover stupid?
Q. Is having an internet lover stupid?...
A. 13 November 2008: Its not stupid. It just not practical your heart might in the right place but his might not be or vice versa. Its really hard to trust someone you never met. Good Luck! ... (read in full...)
He says his internet cuts out online and doesn't reply to me. Does he not want to talk to me?
Q. im talking to this guy and we connect extremely well.weve only talked via instant messenger,and im waiting for him to get back from another state next month so we can meet.he is there for work.anyways,just lately ive been feeling a little uneasy.his ...
A. 12 October 2008: Back off for a few days as you were planning to do, some space might be good for the both of you.You also might be over thinking thinking if he does not respond right away he might speaking to other people at the same time. Good luck!... (read in full...)
What do people think about 3rd cousins dating or sleeping together?
Q. I have been talking to my third cousin who lives in a different state. He is coming to my state here in a week or so and we have been talking about spending time together and maybe going on some dates when he is here and who knows what else... My ...
A. 17 August 2008: It doesn't matter others might think. Just think about maybe perhaps what your family might think. Good luck! ... (read in full...)
| *l Lori's friends
These are mutual friends, so *l Lori has
added them and they have added *l Lori!
|
