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writes:I need to break up with my long-dist relationship boyfriend. We've been dating 7 months. There's no real reason to break up except..I sent him a pic that wasn't me. I know, I know. I'm too ashamed to tell him the truth, and I'm supposed to be 'visiting' him in a month. I need to end it, what do I say? I don't want to hurt his feelings, so nothing like 'I don't love you anymore' or whatever.I was thinking of saying something along the lines of my dad disapproves, and I have to end it with you, or he'll kick me out or something. I know, just lying more. But seriously, I just want to get out of this now, it's my own fault and I know now to never do it again. Any help would be appreciated, thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, el Lori +, writes (6 March 2010):
 Honesty is the best policy as Ben Franklin once said. Tell him the truth. Wait and see how he responds and if he wants to see what you really look like. Best of luck :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 March 2010): I have done the same thing, and I dating this guy for about 6 months until I realized that he wasnt all about the way he thought I looked. He Mostly told me he liked my personality. And one day I just called him and told him, I had to I felt bad, he was a really sweet guy. And He was a bit upset, and I sent him a real picture of and turns out he liked the way I really looked better then the fake picture I sent him. We ended up braking up a few months later but it was me who did the braking up. I realized a long distence relationship was to hard. But six years later he is still my best friend I live in Florida and he lives in Texas. And we still text just about every day and talk on the phone a few times a week. I would say send him a real picture and see what happens. Your talking about braking up, so might as well see if he really cares before you do it.
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