If love comes and goes is there any hope for two people wanting sustained long term love?
Q. I read it all the time: "We were in love, but then I fell out of love." And then--poof!--the relationship ends. Love seems so fleeting. We get to know a person, the first few months or year are exciting. But then we tire of that person. Love fad...
A. 10 April 2011: Personally i really don't believe in "forever" perhaps after my first love failed i lost the faith in happy ever after. But that doesn't mean an eternal happy marriage won't happen to me. Mostly depends on me luck i think. Apparently me ... (read in full...)
Is love for real?? What did you feel the first time you fell in love?
Q. I wonder if love is real. I mean is it? Seems that we all just end up in bad relationships with people that dont care.. I was wondering what other people felt the first time they fell in love with someone special?...
A. 8 April 2011: My first love was the first time i fell in love which was tragic. New beautiful feelings for the first time an innocent lass could feel. But it wasn't like the moment i fell in love with me fiance. Not long ago i believe i could never love again. ... (read in full...)
Does Love Begat Love?
Q. Just a philosophical question for folks... Can you MAKE someone love you by loving them first??? Cliff Notes version of the background story: I am/was married. (we have separated) I met a man and started a relationship with him in J...
A. 8 April 2011: Anything's possible i would say. Me own story, yes it can. I didn't love me fiance at first but i didn't leave him even though knowing that i didn't feel love. I wanted to give it a try. After so many things he's done for me. After 8 months i fell ... (read in full...)
Can you fall in love without knowing?
Q. is it possible to fall in love with someone without knowing it's happening? ...
A. 8 April 2011: I know not about the others. The truth is it's possible to someone but impossible to the others. Love is not a bag of salt or sugar which you can measure its weight. It's emotion, sentiment which is intangible. I agree that feeling's built up day by ... (read in full...)
Why do guys do this or is it just my guy?
Q. why do guys do this or is it just my guy? So im in a LDR and have been for 3 years, I Love him and we have met in real (incase anyone thinks we havent) and we get along much much better in real but anyways... Hes not much of a sentimental ...
A. 8 April 2011: Well honestly i don't know about the other guys out there but my fiance is not like that. He's completely different from yours. The first thing he asks everyday we talk online is how my day was, then i tell him my day and in return i ask his, he ... (read in full...)
Is there any such thing as "I don't know why I love you but I love you"..??
Q. My boyfriend of 9 months told me yesterday that he doesn't know why he loves me but he loves me. Is there any such statement and does such exist. I can tell him 3 reasons why I love him but he can't? When I asked him what he menat. He said "It mean...
A. 8 April 2011: I agree that your BF either can't put any words in the explanation for his love to you or he truly doesn't have a reason. I never feel like i need a reason from my man for his love toward me. All i want is seeing him show it everyday. Coz si... (read in full...)
Would this be called cheating the new Gf? If I just asked my ex to strip while we were on webcam.
Q. Is it cheating if? Let's say you have a girlfriend. And you know your ex still loves you and you still have feelings for her, but you don't want to be in a relationship with her, but you drunk call her telling her you love her, and miss her, et...
A. 23 March 2011: Obviously, a big "yes"! Some people say, even when you look at a handsome guy on the street, you think of you and him in a private room, strip each other off, then watch each other naked. That's called "cheating in mind". Coz if you got a chance to ... (read in full...)
What does it mean when a guy says he does love you but he doesn't bother talking to you very much?
Q. Ok So I have this boyfriend and its really complicated because it's a distance relationship so thats already a extreme added conflict. However we are like most couples. But he does this thing where we will be fine and then after a while he kind of ...
A. 22 March 2011: As i'm reading your title, obviously he told a lie! A man would cut down his busy schedule just to check you out how your days are, anything special happens to you in the day time. A cruel fact you need to accept my dear!... (read in full...)
I don't know if I can wait 1.5 years to see him!
Q. I just want an advice on whether I should continue this LDR or break it off... I'm 19 from Aus and my boyfriend (22) lives in Costa Rica. We've been in this LDR for about almost 3 years, we met online, I don't care what you think about it but I ...
A. 22 March 2011: Oh my dear, you're still in a relationship which means just bf & gf, and you're intending to see him once in one year and a half? That's insane.
To be honest, me and me fiance haven't seen each other for 3 months after our holiday trip together... (read in full...)
Married three years, never lived together due to immigration.....should I ask for a divorce?
Q. i have been married for almost 3years now.my husband and i have lived apart the whole time.i lost my 1st baby and i havent had another since then-2 years now.we are having problems getting me across there.the separation is taking a huge toll on our ...
A. 22 March 2011: Do speak to him seriously about the situation, how you feel and what you want. Let's see his opinion. If he cannot give an explanation, a proper plan for both then i agree you should end it up before it's killing your age. Good luck!... (read in full...)
I hate sleeping alone and I miss him!
Q. Hi there. Me and my boyfriend live far away from each other and only see each other on weekends. I'm so in love with him, so it's really hard when he's away. I also find it extremely hard to sleep on my own, so I need him at night time. Do you have ...
A. 22 March 2011: You're much luckier than me. I understand it so well. Believe me when i'm saying: long distance f****** sucks! Me and me fiance living far apart. After the last time we were on the trip for 2 weeks, it's been 3 months already. When i just got back ... (read in full...)
This is driving me nuts... I'm heartbroken he cheated and we've not even met yet!
Q. whats happening???? I met a guy on the net 2 years ago and we have become very close, get on wicked its unreal and we have a great connection... he says he loves me and wants to marry me... we havent even met each other yet!!! he occasionally spi...
A. 1 November 2010: If you decide to find out the truth instead of waiting for the answer. Then go for it but as many readers have given their own opinions as well as my own, you could get hurt.
Chatting online is completely different from taking a walk together... (read in full...)
Is she growing fed up of me?
Q. I'm in a long distance relationship right now. I Love my girlfriend deeply and care about her very much and think about her all the time. I've sent letters to her, and she knows how much i feel for her. She was recently up here from mexico for two ...
A. 1 November 2010: I agreed with the previous readers' answers! They've given you a good point of view which means you should give both more space to breathe. I used to rush it on. But now i'm chilling out my lifetime everyday and enjoying it so far. Once you rush it ... (read in full...)
What was your best first date? I need ideas!
Q. what was the best first date you ever had? what made it so great and did you end up together? im just curious and looking for great date ideas!...
A. 14 October 2010: Well for me, it was the date i was asked out for a cup of coffee with a guy stopped by my town on the way back to his hometown visited his grandmum. We emailed each other a month before that setup day. I don't call it's the best date ever coz i ... (read in full...)
His decision to join the army makes me feel like I'm losing him
Q. My problem is that I have been with my boyfriend for 10 months now, and we are so very deep in love. We know we want to spend the rest of our lives together, despite how young we are. But, he is planning on joining the army and I can't stand the ...
A. 12 October 2010: I do agree with the second reader. Once a man wants to join the army, he's very certain about what he's going to do and how dangerous it would be. My advice is telling him how you feel and support his decision. As long as you love him and that love ... (read in full...)
Girlfriend and I have very different sex drives, and the distance is making it worse.
Q. hi my girlfriend and i have been together for 5 months. its the first openly gay relationship we have both been in and im the first girl she has slept with. i love this girl more than anything in this world. I have been really ill in hospital, ...
A. 12 October 2010: Hiya, though i'm not a les but i would want to point out what i'm thinking about your situation. If communication by talking doesn't work, why don't you try writing? Leave her a note at some surprising place where you would obviously find the note, ... (read in full...)
HELP , should I MARRY this girl ?
Q. I met this girl and I fell in love with her , it was in a different city where I live and she was coming for a visit to Denmark , we hanged together for two days , and in the end of the second day I told her that I liked her very much and she said ...
A. 12 October 2010: People do have their own past. As long as you can accept her past, the one you love. I'm certain that you can carry on. On the other hand, when you proposed to her, she said she has one thing to tell you and she did tell you the truth, which is ... (read in full...)
I live in the States, he lives in Spain!
Q. Sorry guys for so much details I just figured the more the better and also I am not an organized thinker so please excuse my spontaneous thinking! Ok so I met this guy on my last night in Spain and I really like him. The only thing is I live in ...
A. 12 October 2010: Believe me, once he cares about you, he will make a move to show his feelings out and find a way to be in contact. Since you both live far away from each other, there's no measurement to make sure you have him on your hands. Plus there's some ... (read in full...)
Two months ago she was going to love me forever; now she doesn't see it working out
Q. I'm 21 and I've been dating my 27 y/o girlfriend for just over a year now. I met her in Australia after she came for a year from Germany, where she has now recently returned home. We travelled all over Australia together and i took her home to meet ...
A. 11 October 2010: Hey, i don't know her at all to give a right judge. But believe me, there're some girls like DaisyL has said. For an example, yes i am kind of that girl. I easily losing the feeling of connection once me and my fella live apart. So my mind simply ... (read in full...)
Will I ever have a boyfriend in my life?
Q. im 16 years old and i never really had a serious boyfriend, ive had guys intersted in me but i wasnt in them.Sometimes i like being single because a lot of my friends have boyfriend and there always getting in fites and telling them what to do ...
A. 27 September 2010: There's no reason to rush my dear. I'm 22 and i've just got a serious relationship 8 months ago. He's the greatest thing ever happened to me though i haven't known if it's love of life or not. And you are so young for that my dear. Believe it will ... (read in full...)
Jealous, insecure or do I need help?
Q. Hello, I'm a 22 year old female. I have been with my husband for almost 6 years now. We have two little girls 4 and 2 and a half. We love them and eachother very much, words can explain it. But i often find myself jealous. For example i don't ...
A. 27 September 2010: Yes i do agree with Dorothy. Do exercises, work out more. It brings good health and good shape. And therefor you'll get your confidence back. On the other hand, do something for yourself like enjoying time out with your female friends like shopping ... (read in full...)
Boyfriend being cold and distant, is it related to stress?
Q. Hi everyone, thanks for taking time to read my question. Ok, so um I need help like urgently. The best relationship I ever had is about to collapse and I want to do something before it's too late. Here's the situation, I've been seeing this gu...
A. 27 September 2010: Were you calm talking to him when his attitude has been changed? People sometimes need space and air the breathe. There's maybe something happened to him which caused the change.
My option is, ask him out to a place you both always relax and feel... (read in full...)
Was I right to send him to his ex?
Q. i met a guy that lives 8 hours away. we clicked fast. i went to visit him for a week and we had a great time. his ex girlfriend decided to come back and she waqnted him back. he became confused and sad he did not know what he wanted. i told him ...
A. 24 September 2010: You did right my dear. I remember Demi Moore said once in Indecent Proposal film: Someone once said, "If you want something very badly... set it free. If it comes back to you, it's yours forever. If it doesn't, it was never yours to begin with." SO ... (read in full...)
Why have I not heard from him? does he just not like me as much?
Q. Hey. I like this guy and we've sort of had a bit of something "going on." I normally hear from him every day. Just one question.. I went away on holiday recently and every single day, he'd text me asking how I was and just to generally have a chat. ...
A. 23 September 2010: Why didn't you text him first? Such a simple one like "hey, enjoy your trip so far? hope you do!". Guys sometimes have the need as women. Are you happy seeing his msg everyday? If he likes you, yes he would be absolutely happy seeing your first msg ... (read in full...)
Will I ever fall in love truly?
Q. I been wondering, if it's possible to be in love with the person through years if everything comes easily when love is mutual. Won't it bore you both with time? Or if the routine will ruin it? I always been looking for something more than usual ro...
A. 23 September 2010: Dear dreaming fellow, everyone has yearnt a big true love which is stunning, unbreakable and just simple perfect. Everybody does. But it's not easy to get one. There're so many defitions of love have been given by many people. Mostly they ... (read in full...)
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