What does it mean when a guy has condoms?
Q. He has condoms at his place.. when I go to see him he's got condoms when we are going to have sex.. basically he has condoms in his room.. does this mean he's ******* other girls as well and that girls comes over to have sex..?? Please is he ...
A. 23 January 2009: there's no certain way to tell if he's having sex with other women, unless of course you find their clothing around his place.
maybe he just wants to be safe, in case something happens heat of the moment.
i wouldn't worry about it too much, un... (read in full...)
She dumped me via text, can I get her back?
Q. My girlfriend dumped me today after 6months by text message. what can i do to get her back?...
A. 25 November 2008: If she dumped you through a text, you don't want her back but I understand being in love, just let her come back to you. Don't stalk her, don't start conversations with her, and don't talk about her to people. Start trying to move on. Jealousy ... (read in full...)
What are the odds that my hymen was broken during a rape kit when I was 6?
Q. I had to have a rape kit completed on me when I was only 6 years old. They did a pap smear (HURT INCREDIBLY!! I still remember the pain) and then inserted a speculum, too. I don't remember whether or not I bled afterward. In any case, I lost ...
A. 25 November 2008: It might have happened. When I lost my virginity it wasn't that painful and there was no bleeding but I had never broken my hymen. Sex still feels the same but my first was nothing like my friend's sounded. However there was a little I don't k... (read in full...)
IS she no longer interested???
Q. Well I've dated this girl the last week or so, she started being quite forward texting me every day asking how's my day going and stuff, this was before we actually dated, which I found a bit forward but thought nothing of it. This girl also suffers ...
A. 25 November 2008: I seriously have no idea. It could be her insecurities holding her back from you. She seems to have a lot of issues to deal with first and believe me you can't fix people, they have to fix themselves. Are you two exclusively dating? What's... (read in full...)
Did I miss my chance? Should I tell her how I feel?
Q. First of all, I'm sorry for how long this is! It would mean a lot to me if you would read it all and give me your advice, thanks! - - - I met this girl over the summer while on an outdoor experiential type program. Almost on day one I kn...
A. 25 November 2008: oh boy, this is such a heartbreaking situation. i'm sorry :[ i believe you should tell her, in person. but make it clear to her though that if she does not wish for anything more than friendship that you won't act on these feelings. but if y... (read in full...)
Was that too harsh?
Q. All the names here are fake I went to this school dance with my friends. I ask my best guy friend, Alex (who I have a crush on) to dance. I kept stepping on his feet accidentally. Later after the dance I over heard Alex talking to his bud. ...
A. 25 November 2008: no, you have every right to not want to be around people who "pity" you or make rude and unnecessary comments. but if his guy friend is making fun of him for that then they're probably still in that awkward, "girls are gross", phase. hopefully ... (read in full...)
Does he really mean that he loves me?
Q. My boyfriend told me last night that i had the key to his heart and dat he really d0es love me and dat im da best gf he ever had i did really appreciate it and i love him alot but me and him had a deal about him not getting high and just found ...
A. 25 November 2008: you're young. believe me when i was your age "love" was something that seemed to engulf me and in actuality i probably wasn't in it. now i'm not saying when you're young you're incapable of true romantic love, but it's very unlikely. if he's ... (read in full...)
Did I do the right thing for checking her emails?
Q. I recently used my wifes computer to send an email and noticed she had messages from an old friend. I investigated and realized she was having an emotional affair for over a year. Is it normal to want to check her emails? ...
A. 28 August 2008: Yes, sadly it is normal. Most people have insecurities about their partner or spouse. Unfortunately I don't believe you should confront your wife about it. She has done something horrible that's for sure, but you were looking through her personal ... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want a girl just for sex - confused and masturbating!
Q. I'm a 16 year old male, who has been masturbating for a year or two now, and one of my guy friends is going out with one of my girl friends. They're happy together for the most part, but sometimes he'll make her sad or they'll fight which I know ...
A. 14 July 2008: go find another girl
there are other fish in the sea... (read in full...)
How do I masturbate properly?
Q. Hello All! I'm a 15 year old with a question to ask. I was reading about masturbation a while ago and I want to try it myself. However, can someone explain how, in depth you "do it". Plus,I don't have any lube or anything and I don't particu...
A. 14 July 2008: My gay friend used toothbrushes.
I think he liked it :]
try to get a vibrating one, that should be fun.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend messes around with another guy!
Q. I have a girlfriend I've been with since May and we had been messing around for about 8 months before that. We were supposed to be messing with only each other but she messed with someone else. Then she asks to be friends with him. I told her no. ...
A. 14 July 2008: I think maybe you should talk to her about it. If she did it while you two weren't actually together than I can see where she's coming from. Tell her that you have a hard time trusting her because of it but you're willing to try to trust her ... (read in full...)
Can I be close to my boyfriend AND my gay friend?
Q. I have a good friend who’s gay. We used to be best friends until I met my boyfriend. When I introduced them both, they did not get along. They were polite to each other, but my gay friend thinks I can find someone better than my boyfriend. My ...
A. 14 July 2008: Oh my goodness, it's me in a couple years with my boyfriend...
You can have both people in your life, stop listening to the garbage your boyfriend is telling you!
Do you feel that your gay friend is influencing you in a bad way? And even if he t... (read in full...)
I don't know if I want a girl just for sex - confused and masturbating!
Q. I'm a 16 year old male, who has been masturbating for a year or two now, and one of my guy friends is going out with one of my girl friends. They're happy together for the most part, but sometimes he'll make her sad or they'll fight which I know ...
A. 14 July 2008: First of all NEVER go out with a friend's ex! If you respect his friendship, if not then pursue her. Masturbating is so common among teenage boys, don't worry! A lot of guys have weird thoughts or desires while doing it that later on they look ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend wants me to move in but won't get engaged!
Q. I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years. He’s 27 and I’m 25. We love each other and we both know that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. We currently don’t live together because we live 2 hours away and have our own careers ...
A. 14 July 2008: Marriage is one of the biggest commitments someone can make. But let's face it, commitment scares a lot of guys. He's probably a little scared of having a repeat of his last marriage. If you really want to be his wife you have to prove to him tha... (read in full...)
Is it normal to have sex five times in two days?
Q. The only time I get to spend with my boyfriend is on the weekend. We live far away and we work on the weekdays. We’re both in our late 20s so we are not little kids. Is it normal to have sex 5 times over 2 days? It feels like we’re making ...
A. 14 July 2008: Unless you two have health issues there's nothing wrong with having sex that many times in two days :]... (read in full...)
Young People Having Sex
Q. Does anybody else find it as ridiculous as I the age people nowadays are losing their virginity? I am sixteen and have no intention of having sex while I'm still a teenager. It saddens me whenever I hear of girls (and guys) my age running off toge...
A. 14 July 2008: I agree with you.
But unfortunately I lost my virginity a couple months before turning 16.
I felt like a total hypocrite!
Plus I'd only been dating the guy for a month and a half =/
I really don't know what happened...
I was going to wait until ... (read in full...)
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