How to break hymen before having sex?
Q. I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...
A. 11 December 2009: so what if your friends aren't virgins?! don't scar yourself like that. please!!! I can't stress enough to wait until you are married. But it's your life do whatever.... (read in full...)
I want to find out who my biological father is!
Q. I must admit I have a worse problem than my fiances sisters and his ex. This is a problem I'm afraid to talk to him about. I was adopted at birth and after 17 years finally went this last summer to meet my biological mother. I feel like that w...
A. 10 December 2009: wow I didn't know all that thanks. well i guess if I'm supposed to know it'll happen when i least expect it.... (read in full...)
I am falling in love with my teacher so how can I express it?
Q. i am fall in love with my teacher so how i can express hin ? ...
A. 10 December 2009: lets see your what... 18??? and your teacher is how old??? Well age don't matter... it's just that in a sense of the law it is against regulation for students and teachers to have anything more than a professional relationship. I would just keep it ... (read in full...)
Should I let my abusive ex have visitation?
Q. Hello all, I have somewhat of a complicated question to ask... My husband and I are getting a divorce. Back in November we had a fight, he got physical with me and I called the police. There is a temporary restraining order on him and the hearing ...
A. 10 December 2009: Hell no don't leave your baby with him!!!! If you feel the slightest bit edgy about him then don't do it!!! See if you can get him supervised visitations... that way someone from the court is always there to make sure nothing bad does happen. I ... (read in full...)
I want to find out who my biological father is!
Q. I must admit I have a worse problem than my fiances sisters and his ex. This is a problem I'm afraid to talk to him about. I was adopted at birth and after 17 years finally went this last summer to meet my biological mother. I feel like that w...
A. 10 December 2009: Can't I get blood tests done? How much does that cost though??... (read in full...)
What can I do to stop her threatening these girls?
Q. Dear Agony Aunts, This 14 year old girl is calling all the girls who have boyfriends sluts. She's also formed a gang with the other girls of the same religion and threatens all the other girls who are not the same religion as she is. What can I do ...
A. 10 December 2009: Tell her straight up that she needs to pull her head out of her butt!!! If you have a boyfriend that doesn't mean your a slut. That just means you want to look around before you make the big jump. Everyone has a right to their own opinion, but I ... (read in full...)
Planning on losing my virginity tomorrow; can we have sex twice in the same day? Will it be better second time round?
Q. Hey all, I have a girlfriend of 16 months and 10 days. We are both virgins and we decided to do it tomorrow. I have been reading posts here and I know the first is not very good. But if we want to have sex again the same day ,is it possible? Wil...
A. 10 December 2009: It is kinda odd that you guys have a plan of when to have it... do you have an exact time too?? lol... sorry. Yes you can have sex twice in the same day. You can have sex as many times as you want in a day.... (read in full...)
Will my obsessive ex scare my new boyfriend off?
Q. Hi everyone! Alright so I just started dating this guy last week. We are having fun, going out, getting to know each other better etc. I really like him and things couldn't be better... Except for my obsessive ex-boyfriend. Him and I broke up ...
A. 10 December 2009: Yes tell the new guy and maybe you should put a restraining order on this obsessive ex of yours. If the new guy leaves you he doesn't deserve you. I would tell him about the ex before the ex gets a hold of him and really does scare him off.... (read in full...)
How to break hymen before having sex?
Q. I am 16 years old .. still a virgin I want to break my hymen before i have sex .. should I do it and if so how would I go about this ??? Thank you :)...
A. 10 December 2009: Your 16 why even have the sex?? Do you really want to lose your innosence and hurt your parents if they find out??... (read in full...)
I want to find my birth father - but I have none of his details... Any ideas?
Q. Hi I have a problem in that I know nothing about my birth father - except his first name. I desperately want to find him and I have tried everything from my birth certificate (which doesn't have his name on it) to friends reunited and fac...
A. 9 December 2009: hey I'm in the same situation as you are. I only know his first name nothing else. I don't even have my birth certificate. I really wish I knew who has was.... (read in full...)
I want to find out who my biological father is!
Q. I must admit I have a worse problem than my fiances sisters and his ex. This is a problem I'm afraid to talk to him about. I was adopted at birth and after 17 years finally went this last summer to meet my biological mother. I feel like that w...
A. 9 December 2009: Thanks but that doesn't really help all that much because my family has actually turned their back on me. And they want absolutly nothing to do with me... I know this because when my grandmother was in the hospital getting surgery done I was never ... (read in full...)
Stubborn boyfriend is rethinking relationship because I'm not ready to move in.
Q. Thanks to anyone who reads and replies to this. Ok me and my bf have been going out for about 3 years. Hes just recently asked me if we could move in together after my 1st year of uni. I am not ready for such a commitment like that. Ive just sta...
A. 9 December 2009: Well there's not much problem here. He don't respect you or your desision obviously so you should probably call it quits with him. The you'll find you have even more freedom. ... (read in full...)
How do I respond to the e-mail?
Q. I dated a man for about 6 months. We had incredible chemistry and a ton of fun in and out of bed. One day a very small misunderstanding occured and he chose to end the relationship. This was 5 months ago. Since then, we have remained in contact ...
A. 9 December 2009: I absolutly agree with ask oldersister once you let him off the hook you are free to do whatever you want with your love life.... (read in full...)
How to deal with it?
Q. How do i get over him its so tough I really need advice on this please We are seperating and its not easy I just spoke to him and he is so calm about everything How can two people that was so inlove and dedicated to each other turn out to ...
A. 9 December 2009: I don't think you guys hate eachother. It seems as though all you guys need is a break for a while. There's really nothing you can do except try to calm down and accept everything that is to come. Who knows maybe it's time for a change for you too. ... (read in full...)
I want to move on...I really do...but how do I come out of this?
Q. I broke up with my boyfriend a few months back, because of a few problems we had. Its been months, but I still love him. I miss him a lot. I cry all the time just thinking of all the times we spent together. I was so happy with him. I never fel...
A. 9 December 2009: He cares enough about you to make sure you are ok at the end of the day. If that's how it is for a while then that's just how it is. I will assume he knows how you feel.. but if not tell him. Maybe it will make you happy again. Some wound will bleed ... (read in full...)
I don't know how to stop missing him
Q. I don't know how to stop. I don't know how to stop loving my ex boyfriend. I don't know how to stop missing him. It seems over the past year, I can only go a few weeks before I run back to him all over again. He's like a drug and I am honestly ad...
A. 9 December 2009: Go to him. Sit him down and have a serious talk with him tell him what he means to you. Don't force yourself to be miserable. That's all anyone ever tells you to do "move on." No don't things will work out for you and him.... (read in full...)
I'm torn between my crush on a girl and my crush on my best friend!
Q. hey aunts im confused about whether im gay, bi, or straight can someone help? ok im 15 have this mega crush on this girl in my year i like her alot but she wont go out with me ive tryed everything with her but none of it has worked i sometimes get ...
A. 9 December 2009: look for someone completely different. Don't ruin your friendship if something should happen between you and your best friend. If this girl finally realizes she wants you and your single go for it but until then look around. you'll find someone.... (read in full...)
Should I meet for sexual activity? I don't want to date him and I'm 15.
Q. I am meeting with this boy this friday from my school. He is just so mmmmmm sexyyy its weird coz i never fort i wus ever go out with him before in my life. i think he wants to have sex with me but so do i ha i dont wanna go out with him tho j...
A. 9 December 2009: Slow your hormones down!!!!! Do not go with a guy just for sex!! That is how people seriously get hurt. wait to have sex until your married!!! Your 15 you should not be having sex. I'm 17 and engaged and I still haven't lost my virginity...(thank ... (read in full...)
What can I do to win her love?
Q. Hey guys, I'm a bit upset with the rejection I get from girls. I'm 15 and really like this girl in my year and have for ages now but she doesn't feel the same as me and I really like her, what can I do to win the heart of my love?...
A. 9 December 2009: Your 15 take it easy. Give it time she's not the only girl out there. take a look around for a while and in a few years if you still feel this way about her... come out and tell her to her face. You might be suprised at how she feels.... (read in full...)
Everyone started picking on me about this girl - even my teacher!
Q. I propose a girl 2 months ago . She said that she wont believe in commitment . Even though i keep falling for her. We become good friends. Everytime we met i told her that i like her. I regularly told about this to my friend . She also started ...
A. 9 December 2009: Well, you really got it bad didn't you? Firstly talk to your math teacher... alone... make sure he understands that you don't like the jokes and quit frankly it ruined your relatioship. Then you need to talk to all of your buddies and tell them to ... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 9 December 2009: we both talked to her and let her know she wasn't wanted in our relationship. besides that we now have broken phones!!!!... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 9 December 2009: My fiance and I finally got it through her head that she wasn't wanted in our relationship. Now we both have a broken phone!!!!!lol.... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 7 December 2009: The issue is resolved thank you all for your help.... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 6 December 2009: emilyanswers... we have tried all of that. I do not want this to become a legal matter. If it gets messy then it will get messy I will at least be fighting for the only thing I have left and the only person I love more than life it self.... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 6 December 2009: im 17 going on 18 and yes i am getting married no he didnt cheat she did.... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 6 December 2009: emilyanswers him and i have both tried. If he changes his number his sisters will give her the number AGAIN!!! It's not just him she has texted. She has been texting me and I really want to settle this situation woman to woman but I don't know how ... (read in full...)
Do I have any right to be upset at what he did?
Q. I would like peoples opinions on this situation please^^ thank you in advance My boyfriend and I had a big fight around two months ago. I have let this go now and accepted what happened but still get upset when he brings it up. A girl I had be...
A. 6 December 2009: You have a right to feel the way you do. This CHILD should not be a burden to you and your hubby. All this child wants is to feel like she has a safe haven. you need to talk to him and see if it would be possible to talk to both of them and tell ... (read in full...)
Help with my erections....
Q. Moderator's Note: 2 questions from the same poster have been merged into the one post Question 1: what can my girlfriend do to help me get an erection? we usually straddle(shes on top of me like sex position) and we makeout and i start caressin...
A. 6 December 2009: Turn the tv off!!! sex is you and her time... no need for distractions. Have her give you a blowjob and a handjob at the same time. Try different positions to sometime one position will feel more right than another. As for the second question... I ... (read in full...)
I've played it cool, but I am not sure what to do next....
Q. I have been in a non committed relationship for nearly 7 years. We are long distance and meet up every now and then for a bit of fun and company. I know that he has slept with others and so have I during our off periods. He does his own thing, w...
A. 6 December 2009: Talk to him when you see him next. Ask him if he is serious about you and him. If he says he don't know ask if it would be wise to be friends until you both got you lives together. As for seeing other people and the jealousy... no matter how far ... (read in full...)
He seems to have lost interest in me, but not football
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for 3 years now. He is the best man i've ever met. Although for the past year i've felt a little neglected. We live together and we hardly spend time together he is always watchin football. I feel discusting and ...
A. 6 December 2009: Don't worry. Let him know you are serious and want things to work out try talking to him again and ask him for a time table... like watch football maybe two nights a week, take you out to dinner once in a while to reconnect to get back when you were ... (read in full...)
How can I start a relationship with Jay? He's so hot!
Q. My bestie Kiara used to talk to this boy Boo and he introduced me to his friend Jay so I wouldn't be the 3rd wheel. I ended up having a one night stand with him, later on down the line I kinda K.I.T. with them for a few then hanging out with Kiara ...
A. 6 December 2009: Wow!!! Slow down your horses chicka!! you have a baby with a guy who is another guys friend that you only lust. take a chill pill and think with your heart and mind... not with whats in his and your pants. How about you quit worrying so much about ... (read in full...)
I really dislike porn! How can I get over this?
Q. I know this may sound really bad etc But I really dislike porn. I don't know why etc but I just do. Thing is, i've asked my boyfriend not to watch it, because it upsets me and I get jealous. In case he finds the girls in it more attractive than me,...
A. 6 December 2009: Well.. you say you told your bf not to watch it... but have you told him how it makes you feel? You should tell him to at least not watch around you and that he should respect your decision but but if not maybe you should kick him to the curb.... (read in full...)
How do I get my fiance's ex-girlfriend to leave us alone?
Q. My fiance's exgirl friend wont leave him alone. Last night she texted him and asked him how big his dick is. She knows we are together and we are getting married,but she doesn't stop trying to get him back. I've tried talking to her calmly but it ...
A. 6 December 2009: thanks caringguy.. but my problem is deeper than that. He can't change his number without her finding it. You see both of his sisters are her friend and are trying to break us up. So no matter what she gets the number. I don't want to make this a ... (read in full...)
My wife told me she was a virgin, but she was no where near it.
Q. Hello, I have been reading this forum for a while now. My wife and I were High School Sweathearts. We courted for a couple of years, she became pregnant and we were married soon after our first child was born. I was in my third year of college ...
A. 6 December 2009: Some women lie to make themselves feel better about themselves. Some lie so they don't feel like a... well... a whore. You need to sit down and have a talk with your wife about this. Ask her why she didn't just tell you the truth in the first place. ... (read in full...)
What does sperm taste like?
Q. I'm thinking of giving a blowjob to my boyfriend and since it'l be my first time then ofcourse I'm abit fridged about it. I've read nearly all the answers on tecniques but I'd like to know: What does sperm taste of and whats it feel like? Li...
A. 6 December 2009: In my experiences (all with the same guy.) it was juicy but a little bit jelly-ish. It does have a very bitter taste some people like it others don't. If you don't want to taste it and you don't want to sleep in it have him wipe it off or something.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is 15, I am three years older, we are considering sex
Q. I am 18, and my new girlfriend is 15. I have don't plan to have sex any time soon, but you never know. I am wondering about the legalities if I were to have sex now; is it still statutory rape because i am 18 and shes 15, if for what ever reason...
A. 6 December 2009: She's 15 for crying out loud. she doesn't need to be having sex until she's about ummm let's see.... married!!!! So unless you want to be with her your whole life keep it in your pants!!! I at least waited until i knew I wanted to be with the person ... (read in full...)
I am stressing because I might be pregnant
Q. I was not supposed to start my period until December 2nd. I had unprotected sex on November 22nd and the very next day I started my period. It was a little different, (I dont really know, I rarely pay attention to it, I just know the dates) but Im ...
A. 6 December 2009: Pregnancy is different for every woman. Some get headaches, some vomit, some pee alot. It just depends on your body. Go to the doctor and have them run a blood pregnancy test. They are more acurate than the urine test.... (read in full...)
How can I get my wish to come true?
Q. I have a wish that reallllllly needs to come true. I try everything and wish every day. Does someone know anything to help my wish come true? Please help....
A. 6 December 2009: Firstly it all depends on what your wish is. If you want love here's my advice quit looking so hard just go to the closest park and mozzy around but don't make yourself look to desperate. If you see a guy you like sitting on the bench ask if the ... (read in full...)
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