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*octorlove
writes:I must admit I have a worse problem than my fiances sisters and his ex. This is a problem I'm afraid to talk to him about.I was adopted at birth and after 17 years finally went this last summer to meet my biological mother. I feel like that wasn't enough for me though.(My fiance knows this much about the issue.) I feel like there's more about my biological family I need to know. The biggest question in my mind now is, "Who the hell is my biological father?" now that it's starting to get closer to our wedding and we are really getting into the wedding plans it's really starting to bug me. I want the father-of-the-bride to walk his daughter down the aisle but I don't know how to find out who he is and I don't know how to approach this subject with my fiance. I really need help with this one. I greatly appreciate anyone's help with this.
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reader, doctorlove +, writes (10 December 2009):
doctorlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwow I didn't know all that thanks. well i guess if I'm supposed to know it'll happen when i least expect it.
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reader, doctorlove +, writes (10 December 2009):
doctorlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionCan't I get blood tests done? How much does that cost though??
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reader, doctorlove +, writes (9 December 2009):
doctorlove is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks but that doesn't really help all that much because my family has actually turned their back on me. And they want absolutly nothing to do with me... I know this because when my grandmother was in the hospital getting surgery done I was never told until my biological mother told me (and she lives across the country!!!) As for asking her... she doesn't know because I was the outcome of a one night stand and she was very drunk that night. I would love to have my grandfather walk me down the aisle but he passed away in febuary right before Valentine's day.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (9 December 2009):
Well congratulations on the wedding :).
I agree with Askoldersister. I am sure you want to know about your past, and who your real father is, but you could be setting yourself up for huge heartache. The only real to find out who he is to ask your biological mother. You could have a look at your medical background as well.
But please don't forget your adoptive parents, who have raised you. And be aware that if you do try to find your father, you may not like what you do find, or you may end up hurt. So tread carefully.
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