Betrayed!
Q. My boyfriend and I had dated for a little over a year, and we were originally matched together by a mutual friend from high school. This mutual friend was an former ex of my boyfriend's. Now I knew at the beginning that my boyfriend and his former ...
A. 7 November 2010: First of all no it wasn't all your fault. It may have been a communication issue on both your parts. I for one do not agree with someone I am in a relationship with maintaining a high level of contact with an ex. Especially one that manipulates ... (read in full...)
I've lost my girlfriend's trust because of lies
Q. i've lost my gf's trust because of lies i have said but some of the things i said to her were the truth and she believed to lie because of an coincidental thing said what happened between me and her and somehow her ex said that something with some ...
A. 7 November 2010: Ok I am a little confused but I will try to make sense. From what I gather you both have some trust issues. 1st things first. If you both have friends that make the other feel insecure or like there is more to the friendships you have with these ... (read in full...)
Her ex and my trust issues are ruining our relationship!
Q. I am in a relationship and I have posted other questions but things are getting worse. Basically this is the deal: We are engaged...not sure bout that now. We have been living together for 3yrs. She has a 8yr old daughter. I have 3 kids-17,15,9. ...
A. 5 November 2010: Thank you Aunt Honesty. I have made a decision and hope to be able to stick to it. I did find out that he was fishing and that really did bother me. I asked her before if he does that stuff if she would say something if he became disrespectful. ... (read in full...)
I'm at a loss, I have no idea what to do!
Q. Hello, I've been with my girlfriend for 4 years and just feel like she doesn't find me attractive or want to be with me anymore. We are both 23. We have lived together for the last 2 years, and spend most of our time together, other than when ...
A. 5 November 2010: I would advice counselling for her. It would appear from her actions that she has been sexually abused in all honesty. If you love her it is good to let her know and try to understand if there was abuse. The controlling things she does need to stop ... (read in full...)
Is staying in touch after the break up wise?
Q. I have recently split from my boyfriend of almost four months. Things were going well, but like all relationships, there were flaws. However, since the split, we both miss each other and feel that we ended too soon. At the beginning, we decided to ...
A. 5 November 2010: That is tough. It sounds like you both need closure. Staying friends after a break up is hard to do and it can affect future relationships. I for one am a guy who does not like my current gf to be all buddy buddy with her exes. I don't mind ... (read in full...)
She told me she cant date me because she has a boyfriend but I just cant give up on her!
Q. there is a girl i like and i want to date her for a relationship and she keep telling me she has a boyfriend and i can't let her go pls i need ur help...
A. 5 November 2010: I can tell you from a guy who has a girl who is pursued by exes that this is wrong. You are affecting not only you and her but other people. If you continue this you may lose the friendship that you have with her. Respect her honesty and back off. ... (read in full...)
He took me back but he doesn't believe that I am not going to hurt him again, so his behaviour towards me has completely changed. How can I get him to be like he was before?
Q. hello Im in a relationship for 1 and half years. We were madly in love. but i made some mistakes. i did doubling with him and caught by him. but even after that he took me back as i said i wont repeat the mistakes. im not gonna repeat any of the m...
A. 5 November 2010: Ok not sure what doubling is. But gonna take a guess that you cheated? Regardless there was a trust issue that was violated. This is very difficult to overcome in a relationship. The best thing to do is try and do a forgive and forget excercise. ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance to get my relationship back?
Q. After 3 years and 7 months my fiancee broke up with me. Honestly I have never been so miserable. We fought a lot but i know i can change, and I really want her back. Is there any hope for us to renew our relationship? If there is how could I do it?...
A. 5 November 2010: I would have to agree with Aunt Honesty on the anger management. If she is texting you then there is hope. Tell her how you feel. Trust me it really sucks losing someone that you really care deeply about. I seem to be an expert on that one! Anger ... (read in full...)
She wants me to cum in her face but I respect her too much to do that...
Q. Ok guys dont give me hell or call me a pansy. My gf asked me to cum in her face while she was giving me a blow job last week, and I totally froze up and couldnt do anything. I have watched it in porn and I dont see it as a turn on at all. Honestly...
A. 5 November 2010: Ok you are not a panzy. I can't do it either. Not sure why but just can't and trust me I have tried. I do find it degrading and the funny thing is I find it erotic in porno. It is something to work up to I guess. I really don't know. I have ... (read in full...)
Why am I not supposed to know?
Q. My husband won't tell me what he did in bed with his ex wife of 20 years. What is he hiding? Is this an open relationship? I'm pissed!...
A. 3 November 2010: Trust me on this. I asked my ex before about a past bf of hers and demanded all the gore. It burned in my mind and eventually after 15 yrs of marriage it was one of the demons that I couldn't get over. Honestly judging by the other comments here ... (read in full...)
I keep thinking about him but I HAVE a boyfriend!!!
Q. hi i have a boyfriend i love him but i dont think am in love. He was my first boyfriend, dated since we were 18 am 21 now and live together. He is very protective over me and a bit older, 29 doesnt let me out on my own etc. The thing is I am fa...
A. 3 November 2010: Sorry to say it but sounds like your current is a bit protective and that may be driving you away. Explore your feelings and really think. Let him know how you feel. It may be time to break it off. Especially since you are considering other ... (read in full...)
Why is my boyfriend so awkward during sex?
Q. Why is my boyfriend so awkward sexually?? Let me give you a few examples: 1. His idea of dirty talking is girly moaning followed by phrases like "ooh you do it so good" and "f*** my d*** good baby" these aren't exactly the things a girl wants to ...
A. 3 November 2010: Ok here goes the male perspective...well at least I hope I can represent. First off it would appear that he is trying to do what he knows which I do agree appears to be stuff from porno's. Complete nudity during sex is normal but the quicky is ... (read in full...)
How can you tell if a guy is interested in you?
Q. What are ways to tell if a guy is interested in you? HELP PLEASE im so confused....
A. 3 November 2010: It can be hard to tell. If he is as young as you are then it may be difficult for him to display what he feels as much as you find it difficult to decipher the signals. The best bet is to just ask him as embarrasing as it sounds. There are many ... (read in full...)
Is he missing something in his marriage or just bored?
Q. Why would a married man seek attention outside of his home. He has beautiful children, gorgeous wife and great career. However i believe he is trying to pursue a relationship with me by calling me and texting men all of the time. He does not live ...
A. 3 November 2010: This happens in many people's lifes. Sometimes men seek it out for the thrill. In most cases that I have experienced it has been due to an underlying dis-satisfaction with their current sittuation. Outside appearances in a marriage are not always ... (read in full...)
He hides me from his ex/child's mother!
Q. I have some concerns about my current relationship. I've been dating this guy for a few months now and everything seems to be great with us although we do have minor financial issues like many couples are having during the recession. I spend most of ...
A. 3 November 2010: As a single father I have some familiarity with both your points on this. As a man, I do not like to have alot of confrontation and issues. Basically, not that women want drama etc, but I can only speak for myself. I don't want to make a stinky ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend no longer shows me affection and I think I'm losing her!
Q. I have been in a relationship for 3 yrs we both have children. We moved pretty fast, moved in w/each other after 4 months. Things were great at first, then I found out that she was still in touch with her ex's. Some of them were not bad, they ...
A. 3 November 2010: Thanks for the advice. I have tried re-assuring her and dong many many romantic things. From simple like doing all the house work and taking care of kids to flying her and her daughter to see her parents. We have had some quiet time to talk about ... (read in full...)
What to do about my feelings/dreams?
Q. My dad just remarried not to long ago to a woman who has 3 kids. I am an only child. Her oldest is a year younger than me. I haven't gotten to know them a great deal but I'm cool being around them. Anyways I had a dream about the oldest and i...
A. 3 November 2010: Danger Will Robinson! This is definately a sittuation that I would not encourage. It isn't incestuous but it is a recipe for possible issues in the future. Too many times people think of the here and now without concern for future reprecutions. ... (read in full...)
Is there any chance to get my relationship back?
Q. After 3 years and 7 months my fiancee broke up with me. Honestly I have never been so miserable. We fought a lot but i know i can change, and I really want her back. Is there any hope for us to renew our relationship? If there is how could I do it?...
A. 3 November 2010: Ok first of all. I would seriously look at the reasons for the break up. Did you call it off or did the other party. If it was you, what were your reasons and have your feelings about those reasons truly changed. If it was not you then again what ... (read in full...)
Do you think going to dinner with another man when you are married is bad?
Q. My wife is in SoCal for a confernece and went to dinner with a old high school guy friend. At first she hid it from me, then I found out about it when I saw it on her phone from a text. My wife always says that there is nothing there, yet tonight ...
A. 3 November 2010: Kilguard: I am in a similar sittuation. I am not married tho I have proposed to her. I am with a woman who has had several past relationships and some of them pop up from time to time from facebook and the fact that she has had the same number for ... (read in full...)
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