He always makes me cry but I love him
Q. Dear Cupid, I am a 16 year old girl and i love my boyfriend very much. We have been going out for almost 11 months and i can say that he hurt me several times intensionally. But sometimes it's my fault. So i really do not know what to do because ...
A. 6 May 2010: hes not worth your time anyone who intensionally hurts and upsets you is a waste of space there is no point in the relationship if its like that so i think you need to end it and move on. have some time to be happy and forget about him... (read in full...)
Girlfriend changed her style, and says to accept it, am I wrong?
Q. I have been with my girlfriend for a while now but recently I don't find her attractive anymore. When I met her she use to dress up nice and I was a very lucky girl to be with her, but things have changed because she started to d...
A. 5 May 2010: we cant help who we are attracted to but if she has changed you should accept it or if you dont feel the same about her now that shes changed then its time to move on. she has the right to be how she wants to be but if thats not what you like then ... (read in full...)
I have a boyfriend but I like another boy more now..
Q. I have a boyfriend, he is really shy and stuff, but the other day i found that i like this other boy a little more than i like him, and he said that he likes me. i know what you are thinking, she is just a silly little girl that should get to know ...
A. 27 April 2010: if you like someone else more then you shouldnt be with your boyfriend because it wouldnt be fair on him or you... (read in full...)
I like the guy I'm dating a little, but the thing is I actually like my best friend!
Q. I'm going out with a guy that is 6 years older than me. He's 19. I'ma call him LJ. So about 2 week ago we were hanging out with a group of people the whole day and by the end of the day, we were holding hands. Now, we kissed today. The thing is, ...
A. 28 January 2010: at 13 you really shouldnt be with a 19year old and he should know that
so i think you should tell him that your not ready and that you cant be with him... (read in full...)
I have a major problem, he's my best friend's ex!
Q. Here's background knowledge: I've known this boy for several years, though i''ve only met him a few times. He's an ex of the dear friend i'm going to talk about. However, he went out twice with her before he quit it, saying that exams were far m...
A. 28 January 2010: over all its up to you ... but if you date him then you risk losing your friend so really you need to decide wats more important to you... your best friend or some boy you dont really know very well ??
it might be hard but the right thing to do is p... (read in full...)
Got back with my gf and she wont get over me sleeping with someone else!
Q. My girlfriend of a year and a half broke up with me and i slept with someone else because i thought there was no chance that we would get back together. Now we are back together she cant get over it and keeps making me feel really guilty about it ...
A. 26 January 2010: you need to make her feel secure and let her see you only want to be with her. But you need to explain to her that holding it over you makes it hard for you two to make things work if she knows it was when you were broken up and you make her feel ... (read in full...)
Will his children ever forgive me for breaking up their family?
Q. About a year ago I broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years. Well, shortly after that, a family member of his (whom I've always been attracted to but never thought anything would ever happen because he was married) contacted me to consol me for my ...
A. 26 January 2010: not any time soon ... if they are young they might later but there mother might keep it over them what you done.... you will find out in time but for now i wouldnt expect them to... (read in full...)
My best friend isn't celebrating Christmas or attending birthday parties anymore. I would like for her to make one exception for me!
Q. I hope you can help me out with a friend of mine. Me and her have been best friends for 8 years. Her dad is a jehovah's witness and over the years she has gradually become one herself. Just a few months ago she told me she won't be celebrat...
A. 16 December 2009: even if you think her choice is unofficial she may have officialy made up her mind. that is upto her and you should respect that.
i know thats not the answer you are hoping for but theres nothing you can do. respect your friend and stop asking her ... (read in full...)
I want my boyfriend AND my friend!
Q. i have lived and been going out with my boyfriend for nearly three years. in about the last few months i have developed feelings for one of my close friends. i have tried to forget about it, but just recently i have fallen in love with my friend. ...
A. 23 November 2009: you shouldnt tell your friend, you would lose your boyfriend and you dont want to do that, try not to think about your friend to much,
try to do some interesting new things with your boyfriend to help you ... (read in full...)
I'm ruining my social life!
Q. For a while now I have become really withdrawn in myself and keep thinking of excuses not to go to social gatherings or meet friends. I cant even answer the phone to my friends anymore cos Im nervous about talking to them and I dont know why. Im ...
A. 23 November 2009: i think you should maybe see your doctor it sounds like you might be developing a mental health issue and the longer its left to run the worse it gets and its harder to break... (read in full...)
How do you tell the one you love you love someone else?
Q. How do you tell the one you love you love someone else? I have been with my boyfriend a year now and I'm very happy. I started talkling with his best friend and I'm starting to have really deep feelings for him and I don't know what to do... I'...
A. 23 November 2009: you shouldnt tell them it will only make things bad between them and you will end up losing your boyfriend and be alone.... other than that if you like someone else and cant keep it to your self you shouldnt be with your boyfriend thats just not... (read in full...)
We're very close but he ignores me in public
Q. Ok, im just so confused. So i like a guy, and he happens to be a good friend of mine...but he acts so weird. im really shy, so i cant initiate conversation. He used to have...sorta an unspoken rule about only talking to me once a day in a designat...
A. 23 November 2009: im sorry but real friends talk in public! he's either embarraced to be seen with you but somehow likes you (im not saying its your fault cause when this happens its usually them thinking they are to good for people) or hes just pilling your strings ... (read in full...)
My mate lied to me and it cost me my friends!
Q. Hi, when i was 22 i bumped in to my old school friends and became good mates again like we were back at school, 2 years later i was still single and my mate jess promised me to set me up with her mate and she said her mate claire is interested in me ...
A. 22 November 2009: the only thing you can do is get over them and accept that if they were really good friends they would have understood and tryed to help you out (unless you never explained?)
or you could try getting intouch with them and try to explain although... (read in full...)
Wishing I had more female friends to turn to!
Q. i cant seem to get along with girls(i'm also a girl)- for some reason they are just catty towards me. since i was little i just felt more comfortable around guys than girls. i try really hard to fit in but i still stand out and it bugs me. the only ...
A. 23 April 2009: a lot of girls dont get on with other girls your not the only one. if you are trying to fit in with them then it will never work cause you clearly are different and have other interests, just be you abd see how that goes.
i know this might soun... (read in full...)
Loving them both, and can't risk losing them both!
Q. I have been on and off with my girlfriend for 4 years. Each time we break up feels like the end of the world. 6 months ago I met a woman that has taken my breath away in every way. Now I find myself loving two women. I can not take losing them ...
A. 23 April 2009: there is no way you can have both so you need to think about which one is the one you want to be with over all
their must be a reason that you are off and on with your girlfriend, consider what that reason is and if you can stop breaking up. or the ... (read in full...)
Why do LDR not work?
Q. I was with this amazing guy for a while and then he decided b/c he couldn't see me all that we couldn't be together. We were so happy until then. He lived about an hr. away and I had even planned to see him when he broke up with me. Why do long ...
A. 23 April 2009: your still yuong and an hour is a distance for you...
when your older it would be easier, when your older long disdances can work but it takes a lot and many people feel they dont work as well as close relationships do
these are easier because ... (read in full...)
I tell her sweet things but she doesn't believe me
Q. my girlfriend if very shy, i can kiss her and stuff but she isnt very confiedent about any thing. and when i tell her she is great or fine at it she doesnt believe me. what can i do to boost her confiedence?? please help...
A. 23 April 2009: you need to just let her confidence grow as time goes on. tell her all the little things you like about her, not all at once tho just a little thing here and there. at first she may not think you mean it much but stick with it and it will help ot... (read in full...)
He used me in a lie to dump his g/f
Q. Ok this is kind of stupid but I don't know how to handle this one... My 17 year old soon-to-be brother in law has made up a big lie involving me to dump his girlfriend of a year after he has cheated on her numerous times! He used the reason he can't ...
A. 23 April 2009: it was really unfair of him to lie to her and he should never have used you as an excuse. you should talk to him and let him know your not happy and tell him he has to tell her the truth. otherwise you should find a way of letting her know it was n... (read in full...)
When I talk to a girl I like I get shy and freeze up. I don't understand why.
Q. I have some confidnce on pretty girls cute popular i mean they like me but when im gonna try talk to the girl i like i get shy and stop talking.. i just dont get it ...
A. 30 July 2008: most guys come off actin to cool anyway when theyr not and most girls hate that. its cute that you get shy. But just try to be yourself and try not to see her as extra special wen your first talkin to her it will only make u get more shy
think of h... (read in full...)
Will the nurse give me a pregnancy test at the appointment?
Q. A couple of weeks ago, my boyfriend and I were cuddling without any clothes on … he pre-came near - but not in - my vagina. The next day, I got the morning-after pill, just in case. I’m on the contraceptive pill, and on my week break, but I’ve not ...
A. 30 July 2008: the should give you a test at the appointment yes but you most likely will find that your not pregnant and just have not got your period either because you have been thinking about it and become paranoid or because of the morning after pill while ... (read in full...)
Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers when you're only 13?
Q. Is it wrong to be best friends with groups of teachers? I am 13 and I have quite a few friends who are teachers, I sometimes have lunch with them, I have some of their e-mail addresses and even get hugs off them. They joke around with me and they...
A. 30 July 2008: theres not a problem if its just friendship, but i do hope you have friends your own age aswell. just be sure the friendship does not go any deeper than that... (read in full...)
I left my troubled relationship..for him! Now he has left me for a pregnant ex gf! What can I do?
Q. I fell in love with someone while i was in a troubled relationship.I decided to end the troubled relationship so i could go and start a new one with this guy i fell in love with and he was thrilled and said he was in love with me too. After a month ...
A. 24 May 2007: he has to be there for the baby,being with his baby's mother is the rite thing for him to do. you should move on n find sum1 who doesnt have any baggage it will be better for you... (read in full...)
He and this girl mate are taking a holiday together...I trust him but I don't trust her! What should I do?
Q. Ok, well I've been cheated on in 2 of my previous 3 relationships and the third told me straight out that it was all a lie and that he never loved me. I have a bf now but he's planning to go on holiday with his best guys mate and best girl mate. I ...
A. 24 May 2007: i think that if u trust him then u shud try not to worry abt this. i understand that you dont like her but if your relationship is stable then nothing will happen coz he wont let it. he might just not want you to go because h wants time with all his ... (read in full...)
Do I hurt my friend by telling her or just let fate take it's course
Q. hi in two days i am going to alton towers and my friend likes this boy and she is going to tell him how she feels when we are there but i am afraid that he will just laugh in her face because i see him flirt alot somtimes with me ! but i push him ...
A. 23 May 2007: i think you should tell your friend that you know she likes him but that u have seen him be flirty with other people and that ur not sure that he feels the same way she does. that way atleast u'v told her wat u think but u need to let her make her ... (read in full...)
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