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I told him I'm in love with him and now he's backing off!

Q.   Help!! I told him hypothetically im in love with him,now i think he's backing off,what do i do? He was chasing me,i told him to give it a rest,now i have feelings for him,and its torture,i want to see him evryday...What do i do? he just texts me ...

A.   26 January 2011: Thanks,i guess when they're interested they make it they make it their duty to show,right,thanks... (read in full...)

I think my boyfriend's mother is jealous of me!

Q.   My boyfriends mum is all over him in front of me. She calls him her gorgeous man. She is widowed but has a good social life. She is polite to me but she makes weird remarks which can be taken two ways such as 'hands off he's mine' and laughs. She ...

A.   26 January 2011: If you love him,and he treats u well,love his mum frm a distance and dont give up. I had a psycho mum in law,mind u we not married,but same situation,all the way in the Caribbean,she would hug him up and dance on him in front of me,even try to get ... (read in full...)

Is this a joke of a relationship?

Q.   My bf took his female friend to dinner, and picked her up from work after he finished work. Yet he made me pay my way to work today (he drives me extremely rarely and he had the day off today so I didn't think it was a big deal). He called me quite ...

A.   26 January 2011: Whats wrong with you,wake up! He is ashamed to be seen with you,and he must have told his parents nasty things about you. Men talk with their folks,he just using u girl and good too. Your place is convenient so he wont have to rent a motel,and he ... (read in full...)

Am I be controlling by not wanting my boyfriend to meet up with his ex?

Q.   I went out with my boyfriend the other night for something to eat and a couple of drinks, we ended up having a heart to heart and he said to me 'If (his ex) ever asked me to hang out with her one day would you mind?', I was a bit tipsy at this ...

A.   20 January 2011: You answered your question my dear,any feeling of unease,stand by it,ur instincts are telling u sumthing,listen to them,and never trust any man 100%... (read in full...)

Why do I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him?

Q.   Hi everyone. I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice. I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story. OK. I am 24 yr old Hindu gal and the guy I have issue ...

A.   20 January 2011: Simple,a man is not in love unless he stares at you and wants to be around you all the time. You will come to know someday soon,i hope...... (read in full...)

How on earth do you find someone you just CLICK with?

Q.   I don't know why I am SO anxious to have a boyfriend. It's driving me crazy. Okay, so, I'm 21 years old. I'm in the nursing program studying to become an RN. I'm very busy all the time now. I have only ever had ONE relationship when I was 19 ye...

A.   20 January 2011: You're young,sure youre beautiful,you are just yearning. You will meet someone,you just havent met him yet,im sure he's coming into your life,until then have fun and enjoy@!... (read in full...)

I told him I'm in love with him and now he's backing off!

Q.   Help!! I told him hypothetically im in love with him,now i think he's backing off,what do i do? He was chasing me,i told him to give it a rest,now i have feelings for him,and its torture,i want to see him evryday...What do i do? he just texts me ...

A.   19 January 2011: Thank you,my friend is showing me signs of loving me now,he texts me and calls me everyday. Maybe he doesnt want to give up on me,but he says he wants to make love with me,he says he wants to feel the connection he know we will have,i told him i am ... (read in full...)

Why do I keep thinking of him, dreaming of him?

Q.   Hi everyone. I don't know if I am at right place to seek advice. I don't know where to start from, to explain my issue. So I writing every thing in detail. Sorry for the long long story. OK. I am 24 yr old Hindu gal and the guy I have issue ...

A.   19 January 2011: Okay honey,this sounds like true love. Your guy is utterly madly in love with you. Time will not change his feelings,he may have a few flings because he is human but i felt what you are feeling when i read your story. This may be fate,reach out to ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend never buys me anything or tells me those 3 words!

Q.   I would just like some opinions on mine and my boyfriends relationship, sorry if this is long and I'm rambling i just wanna make sure I say everything I need to say. I've been with my boyfriend for about 6 months. We both love each other, but ...

A.   19 January 2011: You are young yes,but i disagree with their opinions mainly because you have doubts! its your gut instinct as young as you are.Does he look you in the eye when you speak with him or does he play his videogames while you're with him. He's immature ... (read in full...)

How to beat an old french-woman-player?

Q.   I was in a relationship for one year with a french woman player, 10 years older than me. She treated me like shit the whole year. Then she decided to move to a different city. And when she was ok again she broke up with me. Now after one month she ...

A.   19 January 2011: Hmmm,i just read the true issue here;this is interestingly complicated,she does not love you. You said it yourself,innocent child might be abandoned by mum,think about your future,you're not getting younger. I feel you like the excitement and the ... (read in full...)

She's lied and I don't know how to express my hurt properly

Q.   Hey people, I need some advice I recently had a conversation with my girlfriend about this guy she was talking to while we were broken up last april. We have been back together for nearly a year now and this guy is persistent but my girlfrie...

A.   19 January 2011: Then leave it to chance my dear,only time will tell. Remember the saying,if something is for you,no matter what it will be for you,things will work out,maybe God has a different plan in store for your happiness,okay,dont stress,focus on your ... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my girlfriend's irrational behavior?

Q.   Yesterday my girlfriend and I had another fight and she provoqued me by saying she had no money to buy the plane ticket so I should be the one doing it. I did it. When she saw I could do it she started to play victim saying that she didn't want to ...

A.   19 January 2011: Okay,listen carefully and listen well. Change certain people you hang around or keep around you,and your whole way of seeing your everyday scenarios will change. Go ahead,leave her to get on the way she does to embarrass u,let her but put your foot ... (read in full...)

She's lied and I don't know how to express my hurt properly

Q.   Hey people, I need some advice I recently had a conversation with my girlfriend about this guy she was talking to while we were broken up last april. We have been back together for nearly a year now and this guy is persistent but my girlfrie...

A.   18 January 2011: No! do not confront her,can't you see you are losing her? Romantic getaway or give her space,she needs to think... (read in full...)

How do I deal with my girlfriend's irrational behavior?

Q.   Yesterday my girlfriend and I had another fight and she provoqued me by saying she had no money to buy the plane ticket so I should be the one doing it. I did it. When she saw I could do it she started to play victim saying that she didn't want to ...

A.   18 January 2011: Forget her and move on,God is showing you all the signs! Taking her back just encourages her, she probably is bored,and is leeching on u for sex and money. Trust me i went thru it,but the male version,you are better off getting to know yourself ... (read in full...)

I want to propose to my girlfriend but I think I cheated on her?

Q.   I met my now girlfriend over a year ago. I am thinking about proposing here in the next few months. We met on a Friday night, hung out, ended up kissing at the end of the night and exchanged phone numbers. The following night after we met, I e...

A.   18 January 2011: Well arent you being silly,once she loves you too and you feel a connection,nothing will go past her and she will forgive you in a heartbeat. Reach out to her,romance her,carry her on a romantic getaway,if she loves you,she will no doubt jump at ... (read in full...)

I fall in love too quickly

Q.   I wonder if anyone has got any tips to help me deal with this problem - I fall in love way too easy. The result of which is I give too much of myself, have sex with them before I have gotten to know them properly, ignore their bad qualities, ...

A.   18 January 2011: Buy and read on amazon.com "SERIOUS ABOUT LOVE? STRAIGHT TALK TO SINGLE ADULTS" U AS WELL AS... (read in full...)

Should I give in to him or stay sex free and single?

Q.   My friend says he loves me,he's been loving me for three years,his feelings never changed,but he cooled down somewhat because i never used to take him on. Now im madly in love with (just out of an abusive relationship) but i know its not a ...

A.   18 January 2011: Thank u,i will remain single and focus on my happiness,you have helped a whole lot....Yes my friend is hurting me and because im vulnerable he just thinks he should get a piece of the action,i was foolish to even wonder if i should,i should value my ... (read in full...)

She's lied and I don't know how to express my hurt properly

Q.   Hey people, I need some advice I recently had a conversation with my girlfriend about this guy she was talking to while we were broken up last april. We have been back together for nearly a year now and this guy is persistent but my girlfrie...

A.   18 January 2011: Hi,im busy and have go out,but i will respond to the one i've read so far. I have a heavy heart going out to you on the matter. What i do know is that whoa,hold up,dont u see what's goin on here? She is totally over you and in love or ... (read in full...)

I fell for Mr Nice Guy who promised the world and delivered nothing.....

Q.   i am hoping to recieve help. my husband and i have been married only a year. we met on an internet dating site. he was the most romantic caring guy on the planet until we got near our wedding day.weve known each other 3 yrs. i had serious doubts t...

A.   17 January 2011: I have been going thru this with a man i fell in love with. He promised me evrything. He came into my life and we started living with eachother. We got to know eachother and couldnt stand to be away from one another. Then one thing lead to the ... (read in full...)

The girl I have been chasing doesn't have interest in me!

Q.   Recently, the girl I have been chasing doesn't seems to have interest with me (based on what we have been talking during a long conversation, and ONLY IF it is honest reply which I hope...) It has been clear that this girl have low esteem, she ...

A.   17 January 2011: My friend,a guy,has been chasing me and i wasnt taking him on either. What frm wat u said,i realize she is childish,selfish and jealous. Come on you deserve better,move on,she wants the attention,but wen u move on,she'll miss it,its simple,she is ... (read in full...)

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