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*enissia
writes:Help!! I told him hypothetically im in love with him,now i think he's backing off,what do i do? He was chasing me,i told him to give it a rest,now i have feelings for him,and its torture,i want to see him evryday...What do i do? he just texts me what's up,its annoying and wen i dont reply he doesnt call,one minute he wants to be with me,nibbling my ear an stuf,next minute,its what's up,ughhh,i dunno if he wants a relationship,he says i hurt him so much so he doesnt know wat he want,but he says he has no one else in mind...wat is the real deal here,he is interested or not?
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reader, Denissia +, writes (26 January 2011):
Denissia is verified as being by the original poster of the question Thanks,i guess when they're interested they make it they make it their duty to show,right,thanks
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reader, RayBones  +, writes (23 January 2011):
 I'm a guy, I just turned 29 and was 28 for a whole year. For me when I am in Love and want to be committed to a girl it turns on like a switch. There is no mistaking it within myself. I may not be so clear to the outside world, or I may even try to hide it, but I KNOW when I want a girl and would do anything for her. There are millions of reasons I may play it cool, but I always know.if I want a girl, I would do anything for her that doesn't bring me to ruin. (or sometimes even to ruin if the situation is right.... or wrong haha) But that is one way, if it were me in the situation, that I could see not going for any other girl.I say just make sure you are always moving toward a goal. I know you don't want to press to hard, but you are entitled to know the direction things are going, even when you can't see the end. Feel it out and make sure things are staying where you are comfortable and make sure you communicate when it isn't going the way you like.
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reader, Denissia +, writes (19 January 2011):
Denissia is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you,my friend is showing me signs of loving me now,he texts me and calls me everyday. Maybe he doesnt want to give up on me,but he says he wants to make love with me,he says he wants to feel the connection he know we will have,i told him i am valuing my body,i told him i believe it will happen but only if we together for a while,he said he will keep chasing me,and he is in love with me,now im confused. I started playing hard to get again,not answering his call because i thought all he wanted was sex,but now his actions tell me different,but i jus broke up with another. HOW IS IT that for three whole years and more a man can love a girl(me) and not be in he's not love with anyone else? Is it that he is not trying to meet anyone,he works and goes to he school,he is 28,im 26. Its hard to believe that he's keeping himself for someone he wants to marry. Thats utter bull right? Because if it s true that he doesnt want to be with anyone for a fling and just devoting time to me,then that is truly sweet. He says he's not ready for a relationship though just sex,now he says he'll wait but we still not in a relationship,but he texts and calls everyday just like when we first met,what does he want or should i continue playing hard to get because of his attitude,well i am being as sweet as possible to him and trying to take his calls off and on,but im taking things with a pinch of salt,not studying him too much because im weary of being hurt by people and used,and so is he. Its weird though how he helped me get over my boyfriend so quickly,well my bf was treating me real bad whereas this friend was always ther for me.Its all so strange,but thank you,i appreciate your answer.
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reader, RayBones +, writes (19 January 2011):
You keep burning him so why should he vest interest? He is as scared of getting hurt as anyone else is. Sounds like he may be worried to commit to you because you are sending him mixed signals or even that you aren't interested. Be super clear, and very straightforward. It sucks, but you gotta put yourself out there and put your feelings on the line. Either he will suddenly feel safe enough to tell you he feels the same way back or he won't and you'll be able to move on.
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