How do I overlook his big ears?
Q. I met someone who is very good looking, funny, smart, and sweet. I am sexually attracted to him buttttt his ears!!!! lol they're kinda big, my friends are telling me im crazy and that they didnt notice, idk why im a little obsessive and friends ...
A. 5 September 2010: You shouldnt want to change him. It would be very indecent of you to ask him to change himself, Because YOU dont like his ear's.
How cheeky to ask him to get them pinned back Because YOU think there too big. A way to knock someones self conf... (read in full...)
We fight we lie, we make agreements and break them
Q. is it normal for me to have an argument with my boyfreind and then tell him im cheating on him and he keeps cummin back to me . then we have an agreament that we wont go out without eachother cus i am scared hell get with other people but then i ...
A. 4 September 2010: Well id say you are defanatley not being fair at all! You should treat him with more respect and Treat him better than you are doing! Why are you acting like this ? do you want to be the one in charge. Why should you be able to do what ever you want ... (read in full...)
Shaved, trimmed or natural?
Q. What do guys prefer? Shaved, trimmed or natural? ...
A. 4 September 2010: Every guy is different, My guy likes it with a bit of hair. But i prefere it without any. But he dosnt really mind.... (read in full...)
I don't know how to get over her.
Q. Okay, I'm 17 and a Senior in High School. You think I would be living my life up and living it to the fullest extent. Well, a couple months ago (Julyish) my ex girlfriend breaks up with me. I understood because we were in a long distance re...
A. 4 September 2010: You sound very sweet, and im sure you will find a new girl easily enough, one that lives near you and is easier to be with.
To get over her stop all comunication. Dont keep going on her face book, or it will hurt because it will bring back memo... (read in full...)
I'm scared of the man who molested me. Am I being stupid?
Q. is it stupid to be scared of the man who sexually molested you for years and stopped a few months ago? hes my moms bf and im really scared whenever im around him, i just cant help it but i also feel that im being stupid that im scared.....
A. 4 September 2010: Of course your not being stupid being scared around him, he made you that way! Does your mum know what he did? Im guessing not. You should tell her. Get him out of your's and your mum's life! Honestly! Tell some one! Get him done, for what he has ... (read in full...)
Why do guys not like makeup?
Q. Why do guys not like makeup? Whats wrong with it. i mean if u look like a clown then yes but what if you only wear a lil bit?...
A. 4 September 2010: I guess because guys just like there girls natural. Not all guys hate it.
But if you have a boyfreind then they probably would rather you not wear it. Because they find your naturally beautiful. They just dont understand, that girls like to wear... (read in full...)
Should I... or should I not?
Q. I've been with my bf for 2 years. Lately I've been fantasizing and having sex dreams about this guy .I think this guy is really attractive. Me and this guy have talked about hanging out but I know where that leads to but he has a girlfriend and I ...
A. 4 September 2010: If you want to start sleeping with other guys dump your current boyfirend. Why should you get to hurt him like that. It would be very disrespectful. And you dont want to be a cheat, And dont sleep with this other guy if he has a girlfriend. Dont be ... (read in full...)
All of a sudden I can't stop thinking about sex. What can I do?
Q. Hiya, I really need some advice. Im 16 and split up with my boyfriend like a year ago. Well before we split up we had sex. It was both of our first times and although it was really painful it was really nice. Well first of all when we split up...
A. 4 September 2010: Your getting to the stage were you will think about sex alot. All teenagers go threw it some more than others. Its normal. But dont just go round sleeping with anything that moves because your 'horny'. Have more respect for yourself. Because you ... (read in full...)
He used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but now he's dumped me. Help!
Q. Me and my boyfriend started going out in april, we just broke up yesterday, he used to tell me he loved me and couldn't live without me, but he dumped me yesterday? and now he wont speak to me. help please....
A. 4 September 2010: Your young hun, things like this happen. Guys will say anything at this age. Just move on, and find some one nicer you might go threw 100 guys before you find some one who actually means that they cant live without you, and actually mean it when ... (read in full...)
Living with my cousin and I think her boyfriend likes me. What do I do?
Q. ok am 15...and i move with one of my 20 year old cousin becuz i got in a fight with my mom. so i came to live with her and i met her bf, (sorry) but he is cute anyways and their going 2 have a baby but I've been noticing that my cousin's bf likes me ...
A. 4 September 2010: What ever you do dont get involved with him, that will ruin your cousions trust and friendship and family relationship with you. It would be so selfish. Especially with a baby on the way. Be more distant towards him. Maybe talk about otehr boys you ... (read in full...)
He moans when I talk to him and moans when I dont. I'm in the wrong either way
Q. What can i do? Im stuck, hopeless, and really on the verge on loosing it. I have a friend who i thought i was good friends with, well i want to be and hes said many times he does too. The thing is when i speak to him i get no effort back, im trying ...
A. 4 September 2010: Stop making all the effort... wait till he can be botherd with you. You dont have to keep running after him, thats probably what he wants. Give him space and when he realises that he hasnt got you running after him anymore, he might make more effort ... (read in full...)
He says we'll never be together again, so why does he still have photos of us kissing on facebook?
Q. he told me he still has feelings for me. but their mixed feelings. he still has photos of us kissing on fb but he sais we will never go out again. all i can say is wtf? yes he has been on fb since the break up and yes he has changed his about me on ...
A. 4 September 2010: Some people do just leave the photo's on, Why delete them there only photo's right ?? He might just not have thought about them etc.... But when me and my boyfriend broke up i knew i still loved him so i kept all of the pictures, untill i knew ... (read in full...)
Do guys lie about not being virgins?
Q. Do guys lie and say theyre not virgins when they really are? and will theyre guy friends lie for them??because im a virgin and my boyfriend and his friend said he wasnt a virgin .then when we tryed to have sex he could put it in..and he told me to ...
A. 4 September 2010: Yes alot of guys do lie, its just a guy thing. They dont want to be known as a virgin, they want to be able to talk to other guys and have manly talk.
But hopefully he will tell you the truth in the end, i thought my boyfriend had done ever... (read in full...)
How do I get him to look at me like he used to?
Q. theres this guy in my class that i really like.we always make eye contact and he smiles.i got a new hair style and when i came back he smiled and said that he liked it alot. But now he has a girlfriend and he hasnt really made any eye contact with ...
A. 4 September 2010: I agree totaly with CaringGuy. It would be so selfish to steal another girls boyfriend. Wait till he is single again. Then you might not even have to try as much, because he will take more interest in you anyways if hes single.... (read in full...)
Is it a problem to not like French kissing?
Q. is it normal i dont really like french kissing? i mean i like snogging, and would do anything "sexwise", i just dont really like tongue kissing. is anyone else like that? does that make me strange and will stop me from having sexual partners?...
A. 28 August 2010: If you are willing to do other things, im sure not wanting to use tounge, wouldnt bother a lad very much. Plus if they like you it shouldnt matter anyway. But how many times have you used tounge with how many people. If its only the one person then ... (read in full...)
How to practice kissing?
Q. I have never kissed anyone in my life and I am very nervous for my first one. Is there anything I can practice on for when it comes?...
A. 28 August 2010: Well, this sounds funny but alot of young girls practise on the back of there hands. But dont worrie about your first kiss, you will be fine, just go with the flow it happens naturally. Good Luck xx... (read in full...)
I don't know if I like my boyfriend
Q. I'm not sure if I like my boyfriend I have been with him for almost 3 months and we still haven't gone out on a date.He doesn't tell me that I'm pretty or anything.He doesn't act like a boyfriend should. I'm not going to lie I have hung out with ...
A. 27 August 2010: Leave him, no point tieing your self to a relationshiop soo early, that you are not even enjoying. Your still young you might as well get out there, find someone who will treat you right. Theres no point being with some one who your not even sure ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend didnt stand up for me and told me it was my fault!
Q. I don't know if I should be upset with my boyfriend. He was texting a girl we both know so I thought I would text her to say sorry for being upset with her before and she told me that I had problems and that my boyfriend didnt love me because I was ...
A. 26 August 2010: Well to be hoenst he should have said to the girl that, no he isnt gonna leave you because he loves you etc. the fact that he didnt and that he stuck up fo her and said it was your fault proves that hes a bit of a prat. Its nothing to break up over, ... (read in full...)
I hate sex, it makes me feel gross!
Q. My boyfriend loves sex and I hate it so much. Im 16 and love the idea of it but starting sex just makes me feel icky and during sex doesn't feel good at all. My guy tries to do differnt things and is supportave but nothing seem to help. I really ...
A. 26 August 2010: Heyy, well are you on any birth controll, because that can lower your sex drive alot!. this dosnt mean that you dont like sex, just lowers the fact of you being interested. And dont really care if you do it or not. You want to... But the hormons are ... (read in full...)
Best friend needs advice from me. what do I say?
Q. okay so i have a friend and she really is confused on this guy. i want to give her adcive but i don't want to be wrong. So here's the problem: She and this guy talked for like ever, and soon they started talking about liking each other, and kissing ...
A. 26 August 2010: Tell her to get over him, she deserves more than that to be honest some one who actually likes her back. You cant force some one to like you. And your friend should tell this other lass to get lost. And you should say something to this other lass. ... (read in full...)
I love him, but is it worth it?
Q. I have been dating this guy for 3 months now, and during this period he's already left me once saying he wasn't happy. But then he asked for another chance to work things out and so we got back together again. And recently he has started behaving ...
A. 24 August 2010: I'd Agree with the other answers. He donst care enough to stop talking to some on who still has feeling for him. Even though it bothers you, hes acting werid and hes broke it off saying he dosnt love you. And its been 3 months. Get out now find ... (read in full...)
Is he just playing me?
Q. i have a boyfriend and we've been dating for about 5-ish months. his facebook relationship status is 'married to...' (i won't put the actual name) and her wall is public, so i've been on it, and he commented on her profile picture saying 'thass ...
A. 24 August 2010: I wouldnt even stand for him having his status to 'Marrid' to another girl. Look you deserve soooo much more, trust me you can find a decent guy who will treat you so much better and not even think about doing the stuff your boyfriend does. He is ... (read in full...)
How do I fix this if he won't talk to me?
Q. i was in a serious relationship with this guy and he dumped me because of his interfiering twin sister who has called multiple problems in our relationship but we always got through them, so this time she told him i was using him and he dumped me ...
A. 24 August 2010: Hmmm, Maybe you should leave him alone? Stop running after him and giving him the satisfaction? Make it look like you dont care. (And yes it might be hard) But then me might start to miss you, because hes not sure if hes still got you were he wants ... (read in full...)
Why is he so jealous and insecure?
Q. hello, most likely there's some questions about this.. but i really need some advice here. My boyfriend... (who i've been dating for 2 years now) is a very very jealous guy. i've never given him any reasons to not trust me or anything. i'm with him ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well i have to say, thats not always true, Just because its happended to you TWICE, dosnt mean every jelous person is like this?
Being jelous isnt all a bad thing, it gets very annoying when some one is so jelous over you that they control you, that... (read in full...)
How can I break up with my unborn childs daddy?
Q. I need help on breaking up with someone that i love but am not in love with anymore. We were together for a year, then broke up for a year, and have been together again for another year lol. Let me also add that i am 4 months pregnant. I love him ...
A. 24 August 2010: Well, try your best not to stress, if he causes an argument walk off, dont shout back, i no its hard because you want to get yout point across,but you shout back and then it carries on. agree and walk off, if he carries on tell him your tired and ... (read in full...)
Implanon birth control
Q. Hi everyone :) I am getting the Implanon birth control this Friday, I was wondering if anyone has it and has any storys or could tell me their side effects .I'm also wondering how long it takes to be affective from the time you get it put in Than...
A. 19 August 2010: Well, you should go to your doctor and ask about it, or read it up on the internet, really it effects everyone differently. I no some one who got this type of contraception and was on a constant period for 3 months, and another friend didnt have a ... (read in full...)
Why is he so jealous and insecure?
Q. hello, most likely there's some questions about this.. but i really need some advice here. My boyfriend... (who i've been dating for 2 years now) is a very very jealous guy. i've never given him any reasons to not trust me or anything. i'm with him ...
A. 19 August 2010: Maybe he has been cheated on in the past? Really this just shows how much he loves you and how much he does not want to loose you. You should really be quite happy by it. But i understand it can get very frustrating when you know that you can trust ... (read in full...)
How can I break up with my unborn childs daddy?
Q. I need help on breaking up with someone that i love but am not in love with anymore. We were together for a year, then broke up for a year, and have been together again for another year lol. Let me also add that i am 4 months pregnant. I love him ...
A. 19 August 2010: How much time do you spend with him. maybe you should get out more with friend and then only see him a few hours a day or every other day for a while, so that the time you do have to spend with him you have more to talk about, and wont end up ... (read in full...)
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