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writes:okay so i have a friend and she really is confused on this guy. i want to give her adcive but i don't want to be wrong. So here's the problem:She and this guy talked for like ever, and soon they started talking about liking each other, and kissing and stuff. So this guy told my boyfriend he liked her, so i told her. but then they guy said i don't want to date anybody until high school, and compeletly ditched my friend. but now since school has started she kind of likes him again, but he ignors her, and barely talks to her. she said she didn't like him for like 2 weeks but now today she said she kinda likes him, and she doesn't know how to get his attention. Then there is this girl that is butting out my friend to get with conner, but she says she's only doing it to get to his friend. (my boyfriend) and my friend has no idea what to do? any advice.
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reader, romany  +, writes (26 August 2010):
 I would just tell her, He's immature, and she dont need a lad like him complicating her life.
He sounds like a bit of a wally to be honest, i'm sure there are some nicer lads at school, start pointing out fitties, and steer her attention to a lad who is not so ignorant.
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reader, T@mara +, writes (26 August 2010):
In my opinion you should tell your friend to leave teenage boys alone in the romantic sense and you should also follow that advice. (99% of) Teenage boys start getting overly sexualized because of new hormones and think pretty disgusting thoughts. They also have a tendency to be selfish. While teenage girls most likely daydream about romance and their "knight in shining armor". This advice is hard to take as a teenager, but if you can keep reminding yourself that life goes by fast (faster as you get older) and one day you will meet a man, not a teenage boy, I think it will help you become a wonderful woman. Now beside that point, I am guessing you still might want the advice you were looking for. If this guy said he doesn't want to date until high school (are you in high school now?) then you should tell your friend to watch his actions. If you guys are not in high school yet, and he is not dating then he might be serious about not dating. If you are in high school and he is not dating your friend then there might be a chance that he does not want to date her. If he starts dating someone else (regardless of whether your in high school or not) then it is a certain thing that he does not see your friend as a potential girlfriend. That is the advice you should give to your friend.
As for you, watch this other girl, use your intuition. If she is really trying to take your boyfriend you should take action, but be careful some guys will leave a girlfriend to be with another girl, especially at this age. Which would cause embarrassment for you and get around school if he does leave you for her. If you have a feeling she is succeeding in stealing your boyfriend then leave him before there is potential of embarrassment. If she really is after this other guy and not your boyfriend, then have your friend watch what the guy she likes does with this other girl.
By the way, if this guy is avoiding your friend his actions are saying that he just might not like her in that way anymore.
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reader, DearMe +, writes (26 August 2010):
Tell her to get over him, she deserves more than that to be honest some one who actually likes her back. You cant force some one to like you. And your friend should tell this other lass to get lost. And you should say something to this other lass. About trying to get your boyfriend.
Good Luck xx
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