Past girlfriends have cheated on me, so I can't believe this girl won't too!
Q. Hi everyone,I'm 20 and male. I have been with relationships since 15yrs of age and had not very much, this may sound shocking,but I find it hard to love again, since my first love, I was cheated. I'm not a guy to cheat, at all. But because of all t...
A. 23 June 2005: It sounds to me you're are doing just great, by 'trying' to leave your past behind etc,..It's only natural you feel the way you do after being cheated on, but time will heal, and after all you have met another girl and seem to be happy with her. Y... (read in full...)
We're getting older and I'm happy with my looks... but my partner thinks I need plastic surgery!
Q. My partner and I are in our mid-40's. Lately, he's been making unkind remarks about my body. Now,I am nowhere a perfect woman-I have small scars from childbirth but most noticeably, a large scar on my lower abdomen from my battle with cancer, 11 ...
A. 22 June 2005: First of all well done for fighting your battle of cancer! Your scars are there to show you you are a survivor, and it's a shame your husband doesn't see things that way, you are here to tell your story, and yet things could have been much worse! I... (read in full...)
He isn't interested and called me "easy", but I can't get him out of my head...
Q. Hmm...ok this sounds so lame I know but I really don't know what to do anymore. I've had a crush on this guy for about 2 years, but I never did anything about it becasue I didn't think I stood a chance. Well I told my mate, who is his mate too ...
A. 21 June 2005: Firstly, no you're right, he is not worth it!! And for one he's called you 'easy' or so youve heard, but not only that you say you was drunk too, and he pulled your top and bra down therefore HE was trying to take advantage of you.....many of peopl... (read in full...)
He disappeared without a word. So... are we over?
Q. My boyfriend of a few months has suddenly disappeared & I haven't heard from him at all for a week and a half. I don't know where & how he is or why he's gone and I fear for our relationship. I feel bewildered. Are we over or is he just needing some ...
A. 20 June 2005: This is a strange one..Did you have a row over something, something happen that made him up and leave? I take it by the sound of things you may not live together........does he live with parents or on his own or has he got parents that you can ask ... (read in full...)
What can I do? I lose my erection after about 10 minutes...
Q. I am a 32 year old male. I have had a problem sustaining an erection for about 10 years. I can get a full erection for about 10 minutes, then it just dies off. It has been getting me down for years, and wonder is this normal, and how can I combat ...
A. 20 June 2005: I have heard about viagra and it's uses,..maybe you have too? why not research it's uses over the internet and see if sounds like it will suit you!. is your failing erection, failing by mastabation or sex with a women, or both. I dont see why you... (read in full...)
He left me and wants to travel, but I want him here with me!
Q. Dear cupid, I am in love with my ex-boyfriend, who I have been with for 11 years. I'm 31, he is 41 and my first love. He wants to travel around Spain. I'm gay and want to keep him....
A. 20 June 2005: Well 11 years is a long time,but for him to want to go off to spain without you is surely saying something?> It sounds like your relationship has no come to a end..... Did he give you the option to go with him>? did you refuse? why couldnt you go w... (read in full...)
My fiance's a changed man: he went from dream guy to dope-smoking drinker!
Q. Hello all, this question is for Bev, but of course all others are welcome to comment. Bev, I have been with a man I love for four and a half yrs. We have a child together a precious daughter of 3 yrs. My fiancee and I have argued about 4 hours ...
A. 20 June 2005: AWWW my heart goes out to you, and I am really feeling your pain from reading what you have wrote, and I am responding to your post because I myself know exactly how you feel and where you are comming from, the only difference with me is I haven't ... (read in full...)
He didn't return my call, even after he gave me his phone number. But then he gave me a meal for free...
Q. Dear Cupid, I go to this restaurant all the time and noticed a very attractive waiter there. I decided after seeing him there a few times to tell him that he is very attractive on one of my visits there and I also asked if he had a girlfrie...
A. 20 June 2005: I would say don't call him, you may be playing into his hands and like you say being too 'desperate' you have done your part by calling him and him not returning the call, suggests that maybe he just likes your attention and nothing more. You ma... (read in full...)
We haven't even dated yet... Has he broken up with me already?
Q. Dear Cupid, Last month I met this great guy on match.com, he was everything I wanted and I was everything that he wanted in return. We talked over instant messenger and talked over the phone for hours. We both knew how each other looked liked, so...
A. 20 June 2005: I would say it sounds like he's got cold feet!!! meaning he does 'like you' and all those things, but prob isn't as confident in himself and his nerves have over come him. perhaps he's scared to make that step as fear of being rejected, i say this... (read in full...)
Things with my current bf are getting dull. Should I leave or try to make it work?
Q. I am only 18 and I have been with the same guy for 2 years. Things are now getting boring, we have nothing in common and our sex life is non exsistant. I really like another guy and want to get to know him better. Do I try and make things work with ...
A. 20 June 2005: Do what you feel right and what feels best for you....you are still young, and only 18 and being in a boring relationship you have two choices find ways to make it more fun, or to get out and live a little, enjoy yourself and dont feel trapped and ... (read in full...)
Freckles on my penis? What is it?
Q. I am a teenager, and lately i have started to develop freckles on my penis, and a smell has occured from it. I keep it clean enough and wash every day. I asked a mate and he said that it was because i wasnt masturbating enough, so i did it more ...
A. 20 June 2005: Tug on your ears, and flick your nose, and the freckles will go away! Ok just joking,...My point is, - don't listen to your friends! Go see your G.P.... (read in full...)
Remaining a virgin is seriously important to me, but how can I find a partner who shares this feeling?
Q. Dear Cupid: I started going to college late, but now I am attending UCLA, a famous university. I want to remain a virgin until I find my one and true love, but she must also be a virgin. No one that I know is a virgin, and if I tell someone,...
A. 20 June 2005: It's all well and good what you say, and It sounds like you have a very strong religion in wanting to stick to what you have said,there's nothing wrong with that, and it's quite nice if its planned and happens that way. But often, nothing is as fa... (read in full...)
I hit him first and I didn't want him locked up. Am I kidding myself that we can stay together as a couple?
Q. My question is this, my boyfriend and I had a fight recently in which he called the police to lock me up cause i shoved him and hit him. He in turn got locked up. Police didn't like him and his attitude so they thought he go to jail for domestic ...
A. 20 June 2005: After reading your post and the advice you was looking for I have come to a conclusion and I am sorry to say but I don't think the problem is him that you should be worried about and questioning,...I think it's actually yourself, afte rall you was ... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if she likes me, but I'm very attracted to her. What can I say? What if she rejects me?
Q. Hello I am at presently passing through a very disturbed state of mind and I want a help from you. The reason is that I am in love with a girl whom I have started liking. I am in very deep love with this girl but she seem to never think abou...
A. 20 June 2005: I think whats meant to be will be and happen slowly over time. It's only natural to feel afraid of rejectuion, especially when it could also spoil a friendship,or make things awkward for the pair of you, of course wether you decide to tell her how ... (read in full...)
When my husband admitted he'll always love his old g/f, it make me insecure...
Q. I asked my husband if he still loved his old girlfriend and he replied he will always love her but only in a caring way. This makes me feel insecure. Should I feel threatened and/or insecure that he will always love her? Thanks....
A. 20 June 2005: I think you should think about why you even had the need to ask your husband if he still loved his ex girlfriend? I feel that perhaps something isn't going right in your relationship for you to have had doubts to ask him in the first place. O... (read in full...)
I'm the girlfriend, but his female friend is jealous of me!
Q. My boyfriend's female friend who he lives with is extremely jealous and it's really affecting our relationship because she makes him feel guilty about spending time with me. What is the best thing to do?...
A. 19 June 2005: I dont think there is anything you can do to prevent 'her' jealousy,... however if this is affecting your own relationship with your partner then I would suggest you have a long chat to your partner and explain the way you feel and let him sort it ... (read in full...)
Does Mum need to know I'm sleeping with my boyfriend?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 7 months and we've just recently started sleeping together. I am on the pill but haven't told my mum. I keep feeling guilty that i haven't told her, should I tell her?...
A. 19 June 2005: I think only you can decide whether to tell your mum or not, you are likely to have a rough idea on how your Mum may react,...sometimes mums just 'know' these things, she may even bring the subject up with you if its a issue that she is concerned ... (read in full...)
I got pregnant and he totally changed. Now he'd rather be at the pub than with our son!
Q. Dear Cupid I have been in a relationship with my boyfriend for about three and a half years. It was a rocky start, he has three children from a previous marriage. He appeared to be crazy about me in the beginning. I got pregnant and he changed....
A. 19 June 2005: Hi,...I think you have answered your own question and said it all there.....I think you have already made up your mind what is best for you, and your obv not Happy living like this, nor would anyone be,.....you say his got other children too from ... (read in full...)
He and I just click together and we love to cuddle up... but I feel like such a pervert.
Q. Im 32 years old, been married, but now divorced. I go clubbing every weekend, I live for the moment, and enjoy life to the full. I met last year, through another friend, this lad. we got on realy well, had the same thoughts on life, he loved mu...
A. 19 June 2005: Hmmm now this is confusing, at first reading this I thought you was a women writing in your question, It was only when i got to the end you mentioned about your wife, which i now realise you are actually a man. so, okay... Well from reading you... (read in full...)
How can I get back with the guy I broke up with? I know it was a mistake finishing with him...
Q. I was with my ex feller just a month but known him for years. He is 17 years older than me! We finished in April after I finished it for someone else. Me and that someone else lasted a day as I realised what a mistake I done! Then I ended up being...
A. 18 June 2005: Dear oh Dear, well what can I say.... You say you was only ever with your ex whos 17 years older for 1 MONTH! well,....1 months is such a short time to love someone,.....I would question yourself, - is it love you feel, or is it 'need'? You al... (read in full...)
Her online chat log suggests that more was going on than she admits... What do I believe?
Q. Is her story a lie? Hello, i need some advice about my relationship. I have been seeing a girl for four years now and we are serious. For the last two years we have been in a long distance relationship and we are hoping that in the next 6-9 months ...
A. 18 June 2005: Hi,..no one can tell you whether she is lying or not, only she knows the truth, but trust is the most important issue, and with such long distance relationships there has to be a hell of a lot of trust to make it work, if you have doubts then I ... (read in full...)
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