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writes: Hmm...ok this sounds so lame I know but I really don't know what to do anymore. I've had a crush on this guy for about 2 years, but I never did anything about it becasue I didn't think I stood a chance. Well I told my mate, who is his mate too when I was drunk. So he knew, and it turned out after a while he liked me too. I was so happy, I never expected him to like me back. So I started texting him and we got to know each other really well, he came out with me and some friends and we all had an amazing time. Then I invited him to a mate's party and he came. I was really scared because I really liked him and I didn't know what to do, so I got drunk =P hehe...and I didn't really know what was going on, but I remember kissing him most of the night. Later on, when I was a little less drunk he pulled my top and bra down. Now I'm not the kind of girl who would let this happen, but I was drunk so I was just laughing and didn't really think anything of it. Then we were texting for the next few days then he stoped texting me. We had been texting every night for about a month, so it was weird. I began to wonder why because he had told my mate he was thinking of asking me out, so I was confused to why he wasn't talking to me. After about 3 weeks of no contact I heard from my mate that he had called me easy. This really hurt me, as I really liked him and still do. He was spreading rumours about me around school and it was really getting to me but I still liked him, so I just ignored it best as I could. It's been about 4 months now since that party but I still really like him, and I can't get him off my mind. I want to so bad because he's not worth it really, is he? But whatever I try he's still there, and it doesn't help that I have to see him most days. Do you have any tips that you think would help? I've tried everything I can think of, but it's not working!! Thanks xXxXx
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reader, Dear Kelly +, writes (21 June 2005):
Firstly, no you're right, he is not worth it!!And for one he's called you 'easy' or so youve heard, but not only that you say you was drunk too, and he pulled your top and bra down therefore HE was trying to take advantage of you.....many of people can get raped in this way, as i'm quite sure you know and of heard of these things happening.I would firstly suggest you dont get yourself drunk in the future and allow yourself in these situations when you are at a volnarable state,...anything could of happend, and good job for you it didnt!I would say you have had a lucky escape, and should even learn by your mistake, and seruiosly the guy doesnt even sound woorth it, afterall your young, you mentioned school, so i take it that perhpas you are not even quite 16 yet either,...learn learn and learn again, and forget this gut, and concentrate on trying to act more mature and looking out for yourself in future situations!
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