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writes: I was with my ex feller just a month but known him for years. He is 17 years older than me! We finished in April after I finished it for someone else. Me and that someone else lasted a day as I realised what a mistake I done! Then I ended up being with another person! I finished that too, as I missed my ex fella that's 17 yrs older than me. I texted him recently to confess all. He says he doesn't want to know & we are just friends. But how can I get over losing him? My weight's dropped I hardly eat. I smoke heavily and I'm plain & simple so hurt! And can I get my first love back?
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reader, becky05 +, writes (3 July 2005):
You cant, youve told him how you feel and hes not interested. Try to get out more and meet new people
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reader, Dear Kelly +, writes (18 June 2005):
Dear oh Dear, well what can I say....You say you was only ever with your ex whos 17 years older for 1 MONTH! well,....1 months is such a short time to love someone,.....I would question yourself, - is it love you feel, or is it 'need'? You also say you finished with him to go onto someone else,...now was that love??? as in you loved him so much you finished with him to go with someone else,...and then a next person after that.....I dont belive this is love for 1 minute, I think your confusing 'love and 'need' and what you actually feel is a 'need'You say your weights dropped, you hardly eat, smoke heavily etc,...I would say there is some issues within yourself that you need to sort out first, and i'd say get over him, sort yourself out, be a strong independent women, intime for when you meet someone else, and preferabily someone your own age, and learn to love yourself before you can ever find real true love for a man and not just a need.Think about it.I would also like to say, I think this man was sensible in saying 'he doesnt want to know, and he will just remain friends with you'....afterall what you did was wrong, and prob hurt him too, and I guess you cant have your cake and eat it, and should be happy that his still chosen to be your friend.
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reader, pops +, writes (18 June 2005):
all you can do is ask your ex. Its his choice. You don't sound too old, so I have to wonder what you possibly have in common with a man 17 years older than you. If you are making these kinds of mistakes, it may be more a function of your youth. Slow down. Give yourself time to grow up. Date other men. Find out who you are. If you broke up with a man you had known for years, there was probably more than one very good reason. Of course you will miss him. that should not be the motivating factor to go back to him. pops
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