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writes: Hello I am at presently passing through a very disturbed state of mind and I want a help from you. The reason is that I am in love with a girl whom I have started liking.I am in very deep love with this girl but she seem to never think about me. I happen to meet once a day but that too for a small time. This girl is what I think seems to be very carefree and I think that she can never accept me as she is very confident, intelligent girl. She at times seem to me as a good friend and also talks to me in a good manner but I feel that when I will express my feelings for her she will reject me. Sometimes I feel like asking her for going out but am afraid that she would reject the offer.I like this girl for her qualities and yes of course she is beautiful but I like her more for her qualities. I am shy type of guy and to date have not allowed to express my feeling of what I feel about her as am afraid if she rejects it.I want this girl in my life so please help me out. It seems to me that she is very carefree girl and lives life on her terms. At times I got some clue that she was interested but I did not proceed thinking I might be wrong. How should I proceed so that I can have her in my life?I wanted you to help me out as I just think about her the whole time and my career is getting disturbed. If I propose her will she accept it or not? I am very much in love with her.thanking youkartik
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 August 2005): Hey man,
im in the sam situation, i raelly like a girl but i afraid if she rejects me. i guess you have to face it soon or later.
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reader, kirsty2hot +, writes (13 July 2005):
Hi im only 12 but I have a suggestion.You will never know until you ask her out. I know rejection is hard and if she does you can still be friends and her feelings may grow on how she feels for you.But if you ask her least you won't live wondering what she would of said.Best of luck and hope I was some help
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reader, Alison111 +, writes (9 July 2005):
You deserve the chance - that is why God allowed us same. You're inner spirit will tell you what is right.FollowAlison
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reader, becky05 +, writes (1 July 2005):
I dont think she'll accept if you propose as you dont say that you are even in a relationship with her! I'd agree with "anonymous" ask her out, the worst she can say is no and would that make you feel any worse than you do now?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 June 2005): Either go for it or forget it. It is just that simple, if she rejects you, move on, at least you tried.
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reader, pops +, writes (20 June 2005):
Dear Kartik: Rejection is part of the game. I once asked a classmate out to a concert, and she not only said no, she said the reason was that I was not Jewish! Now, I did not ask her to have my babies; just go to a concert with me. I was bummed out about the rejection for about 20 minutes. Then I realized how asinine her rejection was. Her loss. Take an inventory of yourself and list your great qualities. Take a look in the mirror and tell him, " I'm Somebody, and I am special !" Then go and ask her out. If she says no, its her loss, not yours. In time, she may ask you out, or make it obvious that she has reconsidered and would like you to ask her out again.
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reader, Dear Kelly +, writes (20 June 2005):
I think whats meant to be will be and happen slowly over time.It's only natural to feel afraid of rejectuion, especially when it could also spoil a friendship,or make things awkward for the pair of you, of course wether you decide to tell her how you feel is up to you, so go with your heart.Another option is to perhaps get a friend of yours to drop a hint to her to find out what her response is??best of luck
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reader, NordicBeauty +, writes (20 June 2005):
Dear Kartik,It's obvious you are a shy man but have a tender spot in your heart for this young lady.My advice is to TAKE ACTION soon !Many people have to make brave decisions concerning our careers and other areas of our lives.So make a DECISION to ask this lady out on a date.Be courageous, charming & add a dash of creative romance.Present her with a single long stem red rose, kiss her hand gently & tell her you would be honoured to escort her out for an evening.Few females on the face of the earth can resist romance !The worst she can say is "no thank you" but she will never forget the sweet gentleman with the beautiful rose, and she will also tell her girlfriends about you !If she rejects you, it may sting a bit but it will heal with time.If she says Yes, your heart will be overflowing with Joy and you can plan a lovely evening with her.Life is full of risks and rewards !
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