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I guess that I'm probably no more or less experienced in life than anyone else. All our experiences are different and by sharing my set of experiences maybe I can help others. I guess I want to help because I care. I'm a firm believer in Christianity and I believe in doing what I can to help others. There's too much have and selfishness in this world and a little more love can go along way.
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I'm currently single having come out of a stable relationship a few years ago. That hit me hard and its not really been untill now that I've really been ready to start dating again. I'm thorugh with menaingless relationships and now loking for someone to settle down with and maybe start a familly. |
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PORN raises its ugly head again!
Q. I found porn on my boyfriends computer and it made me feel really betrayed and uncomfortable, I don't usually have a problem with that kind of thing, but he told me he doesn't watch it now. I don't know if I'm just being over dramatic which he says ...
A. 5 April 2009: Men do generally tend to use porn in some form or another. I think that maybe it is because men are orientated towards physical gratification (as opposed to many women, for whom emotional satisfaction is far more important). [sorry for the ... (read in full...)
I envy the males!
Q. I envy the males, they can be good looking and charming without trying. Girls have to make themselves into sluts at all ages to get a boyfriend that's not fair. Opinions please....
A. 2 April 2009: OK, my opinion for what it's worth.
Speaking entirely as a male here, I personally have no interest in women that seek to 'cover themselves up' with layers of makeup. It usually looks pretty false and I personally dont think that it looks th... (read in full...)
DO you think there is a higher power?
Q. DO you think there is a higher power, that we can use to turn to when our life turns bitter? How can we actually know there is a higher power, if we never actually seen it? How come, some of us can easily believe this higher power thing, and can ...
A. 13 January 2009: There is never any definitive proof. You can never 'see' (unless you're trully priviledged) buy tou can see the effects. You cant see the wind, yet you see the grass move, the trees bend and you feel it on you face. I am a Chrisitan and no... (read in full...)
Not sure if I can go through with the abortion
Q. hi there i have just recently found out im 10 weeks pregnant and not too sure what to do. im booked in for an abortion on monday but dont think i can go through with it. im 20 and have only been with my boyfriend for 4months, hes 25 and has a good ...
A. 7 January 2009: There's no set answer to this I'm afraid. There are options to what you could do and where they lead nad ultimateley the choice is yours. First of all, having a child is a fantastic thing, even if it wasnt planned that doesnt automatically make it ... (read in full...)
How do guys really feel about small boobs ?
Q. Hey I'm 15 and I have small boobs and I wanna know why guys like big ones so much ? are small boobs bad ?Does it really matter to guys ? I need some guys to be honest here. it doesn't matter how old you are but I need answers!!!! i...
A. 5 January 2009: I can only answer this from a personal perspective and I will keep it simple;
small boobs - good (VERY good!) / big boobs - bad
but lets be honnest, how shallow does it make me if I just judge someone on one physical attribute? Persoanlity is ... (read in full...)
How do you cope with being an old maid?
Q. does any one know how to cope being old maid.because i am new it.i never had boyfreind once in my life and never being kissed.at this stage of my so called life i have to accept as a fact of life for my self. probaby won,t miss someting i never ha...
A. 5 January 2009: I think that it's a little unfair to say that all men are seeking younger women. What most men really want from a relationship is someone to share life with and someone who will be there for them. Age has nothing to do with it. For most of the ... (read in full...)
Is my mum cheating? And my mum's boyfriend is a transvestite! What should I do?
Q. My mum has a boyfriend, who she has been with for about 4 years now. But, for about a year I have noticed that she has been on dating sites. Sometimes I'd go on the computer and see that she has the website up, and the chats so I can see what she's ...
A. 5 January 2009: I agree with TELLULAH about keeping out of it. That's probably the best plan of action. If you are really determined to talk to you Mum about it, you could bring up that you have seen the messages on the screen and anre uneasy about them.
As fo... (read in full...)
Did this guy really get scared or was I lied to?
Q. I am so hurt and need some advice. There is a man i went to high school with and we recently went out a few times. Everything was so perfect.He led me to believe that we had something special and that he would only being seeing me. I thought ...
A. 5 January 2009: I think maybe he feels isolated and is trying to meet new people. He's just going about it the wrong way. If he has just some out of a long relationship he may have let previous friendships fall by the wayside whilst he was in that. If he is ... (read in full...)
Is it wierd for a guy to shave his genitals?
Q. Is it wierd for a guy to shave his genitals?...
A. 14 December 2008: Its not the most common of 'haricuts' in my experience, but there's nothing wrong with it either. Whatever you feel confortable with.... (read in full...)
Flirting: what's the best way a girl can get a guy's attention?
Q. this question is for the guys.. what is the best way a girl can get your attention? Say when simply "going out for a coffee"..? i dont want to appear overly flirty- i want to be seen as fun and interesting guys tips would be grea...
A. 14 December 2008: Firstly, be yourself. If YOU want to get his attention, make sure that it is YOU that you are showing him. That said, eye contact is a good start, not too much - dont stare or anything, but when he is talking, make good eye contact, listen to what ... (read in full...)
I am conflicted and seeking guidance, preferably from other Christians
Q. I have a serious problem I'm not sure how to explain it fully... I come from a very Christian background and I believe the bible very strongly. I married my husband almost a year ago, and lost my virginity to him on our wedding night. I am a very ...
A. 30 April 2008: I guess there's a couple of things here. Firstly, I am strongly of the Christian faith but I personally believe that the passages of the Bible that talk about female subservience were writeen that way because that it the way that society was at the ... (read in full...)
He's starting to get on my nerves now...should I stick with it?
Q. Im really frustrated in my head at the moment and im really hoping you can help. I have been with my bf for a little while, but recently he has been really frustrating me. everything he does gets on my nerves and he makes racist or stupid re...
A. 27 April 2008: I think to be fair you have hinted at the answer here already. If there is nothing that ties you together and things aren't right then I think that maybe you should move on. If you are with the right person, it's very rarely plain sailing but ... (read in full...)
What's the next best step to healing myself?
Q. Dear cupid. I have been in a very emotionally abusive relationship with someone for the past 4 years where I have been lonely most of the time and was confused whether I should call it quits or stick around. About 2 weeks ago I regained contact...
A. 23 January 2008: I'm sorry to hear of your last relationship. I can deffinitely say that breaking free from it was the right thing to do.
I think that maybe you need a fresh start with you new partner, somewhere that you abusive ex cannot get hold of you. I ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant.My boyfrind thinks it isn't his and now he won't talk to me. What should I do?
Q. well in one of my previous aquestions i was always moody well good news found out why im PREGNANT and we wernt expecting that. my boyfriend thinks i have cheated on him a few times but i HAVNT he wont talk to me about it and he keeps going off the ...
A. 23 January 2008: Thats excellent news. good luck for the future... (read in full...)
He likes to receive, but won't give. Why not?
Q. my boyfriend and i have been going out for more than a year. he's my first boyfriend and i really relaly love him. we've been having sex for half a year and he's the one who always initiates it. i do go down on him when i feel he wants it, but i ...
A. 18 January 2008: For most men, its an acquired skill. Perhaps consider the idea that he may need a little guidance and encouragement. A little praise for any effort will also act as encouragment.
I guess it's possible that he genuinely doesnt like it, but that... (read in full...)
I am pregnant.My boyfrind thinks it isn't his and now he won't talk to me. What should I do?
Q. well in one of my previous aquestions i was always moody well good news found out why im PREGNANT and we wernt expecting that. my boyfriend thinks i have cheated on him a few times but i HAVNT he wont talk to me about it and he keeps going off the ...
A. 18 January 2008: I guess this is going to be a pretty delicate subject area but there are a coupple of questions that I think may need answering here. Does your boyfriend want a child or is he using this denial as a chance to try to escape any kind of commitment. ... (read in full...)
Is it legal to have sex with your cousin?
Q. Is it legal to have sex with you cousin (Fathers Brothers daughter) in the UK? Please help. My cousin has propositioned me and I feel the same. I'm not interested in whether you think its moral or not - I'm big enough to make my own decisions on ...
A. 15 January 2008: Yes, it is legal.
I'm sure, as you say, you can make your own decisions but for what it's worth, here's my opinion;
If you're going to do it then be sure that this is what you want. Families have been torn appart over less than this. What... (read in full...)
Everything is great apart from the bedroom department..I can't seem to please him. Help!
Q. Hi there, ive been seeing my boyfriend for about six months now. Everything is great apart from the bedroom department. He completley pleases me in every way but i only happen to be able to do it to him in the trousers department. Ive tried ...
A. 15 January 2008: Start at the beginning and go from there. When you first met your partner I'm guessing that they didnt hit the exact spot 100% in the bedroom first time round, they probably needed a little direction right? (most of us men do from time to time!) ... (read in full...)
Should I date my cousn's friend?
Q. Hi. Well I really need help here. I really like my cousin's best friend. He likes me too, and we go to school together. My cousin goes to a different school. My cousin has his friend over every weekend, and I always come over to hang out with his ...
A. 14 January 2008: I'm all in favour of going with the moment and if there is something between you then I dont think that you should rule out having a relationship. On the other hand you do nee to talk to your cousin and clear the air. Understanding works wonders - ... (read in full...)
Why is I seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?
Q. why is i seen as so acceptable for boys to masturbate but not girls?...
A. 12 January 2008: Ok, theres two answeres to this one.
1) I dont think that it is seen as un acceptable for woment to masturbate anymore. Its natural and perfectly acceptable. There are always some people who are a bit squeamish and wont openly accept masturba... (read in full...)
How can I help my wife cope with her grief??
Q. hi, I need some help my father in law died 2 weeks ago and as you may tell my wife is not too good at the moment. Well at first she wouldn't talk to me or anything or even hug me because she was frigthened that she would start crying and not be a...
A. 12 January 2008: This really strikes a chord with me. A few years ago, my Mum died. I was 20 at the time and thought I was damn nearly invincible. I was also doing a degree at the time and decided to force myself to carry on for the sake of finishing my course ... (read in full...)
How can I rescue this potential relationship after I came off so clingy??
Q. I'm interested in this boy, and up till yesterday i thought he was interested in me. Yesterday, i had really bad PMS, and was feeling really insecure about my body and life. I mentioned this to him, and now my friend thinks i'll have come off lo...
A. 12 January 2008: Ok. First of all, stay calm. I would think it's pretty unlikely that one day is going to ruin a genuine feeling between you. I cant speak fror every man on this, only myself, but a certain ammount of 'clingyness' can actually be quite endearing. ... (read in full...)
How am I suppose to match her ex-lovers when I haven't done anything sexual my entire life?
Q. me and my girlfriend have been going out for about 6 months. I adore her and she adores me. Some of her friends and family say she seems much more happy and thrilled with me as her boyfriend than she has done with her ex's. I haven't told her I've...
A. 7 January 2008: Experience doesnt always count for everything. It's easy to think of a sexula history as having a repetior of tricks to draw on. It doesnt work like that. People are very differnt and liek very differnt things. Good love making comes from deep ... (read in full...)
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