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reader, ladiesman217  +, writes (17 August 2013):
Look, it takes all kinds. Big, small, you just have to love yourself and accept yourself. Look around you, the world adores models and most of them don't even crack a C cup. Personally, I like voluptuous women. Even chubby to fat is great to me. And those girls get it even worse than modestly endowed girls like you. The world loves the small boobed girls (just read all the comments); it's the big girls who are always getting called sluts and such. If you're looking for acceptance then you're good as you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2013): Guys just like boobs we could care less how big they are
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reader, xoxoloveme +, writes (15 June 2013):
so ima 14 and wear the size 36c
I think its good to have small boobs because
its easier to play sport s and guys wouldn't be in
your face like dang you got huge boobs
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reader, Awesome dude64 +, writes (19 November 2012):
Me personally think small boobs are better cuz big ones have big nipples eww
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reader, Ladiesloveme  +, writes (21 June 2012):
I feel girls with small breast are sexier (; .. I was with my girlfriend and she has small breast and I like the feeling of small breast more then big breast .. Hope this helped ..(:
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reader, Vontoxin +, writes (10 April 2012):
For me, small boobs are a huge turn on. I love the feeling of small breasts in my hands. Me and my girlfriend are 14 and just tonight she came over and I felt her up and we made out and I fingered her and she gave me a handjob. The best part (for me) was obviously the handjob. But I have noticed that out of all the girlfriends I have had (not trying toot my own horn but I am apparently extremely good looking) I have noticed that the ones with the smaller breasts reach orgasm a lot easier by playing with their breasts. I am not with her for her boobs, we have been dating for 8.5 Months. We love eachother very much… happy foreplay :D
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reader, Cattie +, writes (30 April 2011):
 i'm 15 and wear a 32B and i do feel too small sometime but i think that if i had bigger boobs it would throw off my body proportions. you gotta remember that just because you're a little on the smaller side doesn't mean you'd look good big.
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reader, serendipity1983  +, writes (20 March 2010):
and just to let u know that it is ok to have small boobs and you can be happy i am 26 now and i found the love of my life when i was 20 and he always says that he loves me because i have never tried to make myself into anything else other that who i am naturally because thats what makes me ME!!I am engaged and due to be married next year and have 2 beautiful children and there is nothing in my life that i could wish for than what i have now because what i have now is so so so much more important than worrying that my boobs are small!and one day when u find the love of your life and hes with u because he thinks u are the most perfect girl he has ever seen and loves ur small breasts just the way they are then u will realise that breasts are not even an issue when u find the one who loves them because his opinion is the only one that counts over all them men that u wondered whether they liked small breasts or big breasts.xxx so please dnt waste any more of your life thinking about ur breasts cus they will find their perfect match and then u will realise that the most precious gifts u can have in life is actually not a perfect body or bigger breasts its the look in that one special persons eyes that says i love you no matter what!! and then when u have ur newborn children and they look at you in exactly the same way that feelin u cant get from any plastic surgeon!fro that moment on u will be complete with or without big breasts xx thank you for reading and i really hope it has made you feel so much better with yourself and that u have so much more to look forward too in a lifetime that is much more rewarding than breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 January 2010): nope.
i prefer small boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): No your boobs are fine...I actually like smaller boobs.. I was married to a woman with large boobs, but I prefer smaller ones...It is really about how much attention you give your lover or boyfriend that counts..
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2009): No your boobs are fine...I actually like smaller boobs.. I was married to a woman with large boobs, but I prefer smaller ones...It is really about how much attention you give your lover or boyfriend that counts..
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 December 2009): No
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2009): I Like Boobs to look porportionat if a skinny women has HUGE boobs its not attractive but if a fat person has small boobs then it doesnt fit them and looks gross but boobs are just fat the fatter you are the bigger youre boobs will be and fat chicks are a turnoff
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): i dont think it really matter, guys tell me that they thibk small boobs are actually better! and either way boobs are boobs u should just be happy with what uve got!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2009): hi dear :
not all guys like a big boobs
some guys like a small boobs , like me
i dont know why , but i feel the small boobs is nicely and perfect , thats what i feel and what i like
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): i know how you feel. i'm a 34B (hardly) and 19 so thats as big as theyre getting. Ive always felt self conscious after seeing models and celebrities who are stick thin yet have huge boobs. but two things help me feel better when im feeling kind of low about it
1. my boyfriend always assures me its shape over size and how it fits the body rather than pretty much being the entire body. he tells me mine are perfect and while i didnt see it at first, im happy he does
2. i once read somewhere a guy said 'guys fantasize about ALL size boobs from A cup to D cup. we just love boobs. its being mislead by push up bras and stuffing that disappoints us.' so dont try to mislead. just put yourself out there and plenty of guys will go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2009): i know how you feel. i'm a 34B (hardly) and 19 so thats as big as theyre getting. Ive always felt self conscious after seeing models and celebrities who are stick thin yet have huge boobs. but two things help me feel better when im feeling kind of low about it
1. my boyfriend always assures me its shape over size and how it fits the body rather than pretty much being the entire body. he tells me mine are perfect and while i didnt see it at first, im happy he does
2. i once read somewhere a guy said 'guys fantasize about ALL size boobs from A cup to D cup. we just love boobs. its being mislead by push up bras and stuffing that disappoints us.' so dont try to mislead. just put yourself out there and plenty of guys will go for it
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2009): be who you are. Seriously, show them off! Love them. Make sure everyone knows they are small. When you show people your confidence you will look GOERGEOUS. truth is, that guys rate women on their personalities. Even if they don't admit it, or don't believe it, they judge a woman by how she acts be it without their notice. If you act like your boobs will make every guy want you, thats what will happen. If you act like the hottest girl in town, no one will even dare to make fun of them.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 November 2009): Just look at all the runway models, none of them have big boobs. If anything, they are more than flat chested and see how confident they walked down those catwalks in some of the garments that fully exposed their flat-chestiness? Guys who like big or fake boobs are superficial. I'd be very upset if the only thing I have to attract a guy is my boobs. I am tall, slender, elegant, pretty, have a sexy ass, small breasted, fit and healthy all round. I have a great personality and am well loved by everyone around me. I turn heads every time I step out in the streets. Moreover, I had two babies and breastfed them beautifully while some of my very-large-breasted friends couldn't even get their babies to latch on the breasts because they are so large they get in the way. I'm so very proud of my small breasts because God created us women with breasts for only this purpose and this purpose alone. Love yourself dear and you will find boobs size is such a trivial matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 November 2009): i love small boobs, as i understand it during sex boobs dont really play an important role. i dont really care about boobs i would rather a nice small ass. small and perky that my thing.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2009): The small boobed like me have it hard these days.
But I have to feel sorry for my big-boobed mates.
While my bf tells me He Loves Me, he stares into my EYES.
They don't always get so lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 September 2009): guys thanks alot for what u have wrote here ,,,, am way hi right now with all the confident u gave me ,,,, every time my bf wants to see my boobs i dont let him affriad of what he will be thinking of !1
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 September 2009): I don't really think it does. If it's too small than we have a problem. What do you mean by small, it's a orange small, then i find that to be sexy and average. I hate huge, saggy boobs. Average boobs are the best boobs ever!
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reader, jennyblah +, writes (10 September 2009):
ok so im 18...and I wear a 34 A.. im beautiful yes but im so self concious.. I wish I at least had a B. my mom had smaller boobs than me all the way up til she was 30 then she got a boob job but i hate wen my boyfriend is around his friends they all talk about big boobs and watch the stupid girls gone wild add on t.v and it makes me feel terrible... my bf says i have the perfect boobs but yet he always talks about big ones with his friends... ill never let him watch porn or go to a strip club bcuz those gurls warp guys minds into thinking thats wut women are supposed to look like and act... i even hate it wen movies now a days have girls toppless in them.. theres not one movie out there now that has a girl with small boobs in it...I dont Know what to do any advice?
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 March 2009): I've dated girls with HUGE boobs, and girls with small boobs. Personally, the smaller ones are much more attractive. Usually big boobs come with a big everything else. After all, they are mainly mounds of fatty tissue, right. Fat boobs usually equal fat butts, bellies and other body parts. Small boobs will still be pointing OUT when they are older, as larger ones will be looking at your feet.
Small boobs are the best!!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): no, small boobs rock! You should be so proud of your shape,
its true, big tits get all the publicity,but i have experienced both, the smaller they are it seemed like the greareter sexual appetite.
You should be proud of whatever youve got, natural is best, fakes are so obvious
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): My male friend and his friend told me that although big boobs are nice, its more about the shape and nice nipples that turn them on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 March 2009): Actually I really prefer the smaller boobs.I'm 15 and the big boobs are nice but the smaller they are the more simulation which turns
Me one.So don't worry about it most guys prefer small perky ones.hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 March 2009): I really don't get it. I am 34C and still young, but the thing is: when you have big boobs boys seem to you notice you for that, nothing else, which really hurts. I have been asked to get my boobs out so many times, it's annoying and I want it to stop. In other words, your lucky.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2009): Hey,
Don't worry about it. In a girlfriend (well at your age) guys don't care THAT much about boob size. It's more about personality, and prettiness.
Hope this helped!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 March 2009): hey, im 13 years old.
Look, it doesnt matter if you have small boobs. My girlfriend has small boobs. Guys like natural boobs not fake. Guys prefer small to medium boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Hi, I don't think you'll get to read this, since you posted your question almost a year ago, but I'll answer anyways, just in case.
I prefer smaller boobs. I don't know if I could really answer why, but I prefer them. My girlfriend has 34B, and it's just perfect. it was 34A before, and it was perfect too. I never thought something like "it would be nice if it could get a little bigger", and now, honestly, I'm thinking "I hope it won't get any bigger". Also, girls that have big ones, are usually pretty big from almost everywhere.
The other answer I could give you (probably the best one), is that whatever the others may think about you, it's all about your own opinion of yourself. If you like them as they are, then there's nothing to change. There will always be someone that will like you (or love you), both physically and psychologically. Either you have small or big, boobs won't change anything. You can find someone that will love you.
The real question is how do you feel about your own body, and personality. If you can answer something positive about that, then you shouldn't care about what the others may say.
I hope I helped anyone that could read this.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 February 2009): Small boobs aren't a bad thing, I like them. Big boobs aren't everything. I prefer medium, to small.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): after reading this, i feel really confident. i have 32A. and guys actually like them. i was making out w/ this dude and i let him felt me up. and he's like the only guy i ever let touch my boobs. and he loved them. i'm so not self concious about my boobs anymore. most guys actually like small boobs. small boobs usually means you're skinny and fit. and your boobs are perkier. no back pain. none of that stuff. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 February 2009): i think small boobs are actually better looking then large boobs. big boobs are fun but i find girls with small boobs more fun when it counts. also a plus small boobs are more sensitive so the girl feels more when you feel her up i am a 17 year old boy
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): big or small doesn't matter so much as long as it matches your body. im 15 and i like medium sizes, nothing too big or too flat.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 February 2009): small boobs are cute n sexy and i personally prefer them if shes got an ok overall image... to me huge boobs are kinda sluttish its kinda of turn off to me.... to finsh it off in my opinion i would think small boobs are healthier to women then huge heavy boobs, back pain, less chances of breast problems, they dont get in the, i lov small boobs lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 February 2009): in all honesty i dont know why guys like big boobs so much
i personally like small boobs
they are way better than big ones
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): Big boobs just smother the guy while having intimate moments together lol i have small boobs and I used to hate em but now I love em cause I don't have back problems like my other friends.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 February 2009): OK, I'm a boob man,
First. I like the way they give shape to a woman.
Sec. I find the larger the boobs the more power the woman has over me. BOOB ARE POWER !!
Third. You don't have to have big boobs to have a good life.
My wife is a 32b. We have been married 30 years, so the boob size didn't make or break the relationship.
But I still like Big Boobs, I'm a guy how like them !!!!
Listen to Rodney Carrington's "show them to me"
you can find it on youtube.
This is how most feel about boobs.
Have a good life and don't worry.
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): Oh my goodness, small breasts are incredible, really don't worry about them. I know that lots men love big boobs, but to me they just look fat and unattractive. I Know I'm not the only chap with the same opinion. Fear not, small boobs rock!
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 February 2009): my girlfriend is always complaining about her breast size and what not.
-If what youre looking for is a guy who only find intereset in you for your looks, then you have a problem.
-If you looking for someone who cares about you and feels passionately about you, then you have nothing to worry about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 February 2009): I think small boobs are hot! Not all guys are like this, but i'm sure you'll find one some day.
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 February 2009): to be honest i don't like big boobs myself i believe they tend to get in the way if you want to be truly close to your partner so its all based on opinion i just think if breasts are too big it wont let you get truly close.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2009): my last boyfriend used to take the piss out of me because im pretty flat chested, but then i got another guy and he made me realise that boob size means nothing, and he loved how my body was as it is. just be happy with what youve got :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 February 2009): i know how you feel!i was so hurt today when his guy came up to me and was like hey, are you like an Acup or something?he said it in a totally mean way and it kinda hurt.this really helped, thanks:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 February 2009): Well with me I actually like smaller boobs better. I think that there is this fake image that guys are supposed to like big boobs so most won't admit to liking small ones but know that your boob size does not matter. Your guy should love you for who you are not what you have physically
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reader, orangejuice24 +, writes (2 February 2009):
honestly i dont like big boobs, i am an ass guy lol. be comfortable with who you are and be proud of who you are too.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 February 2009): you are just developing, who cares about what some dudes think. im sure however your boobs end up that you'll be pretty and cool anyways. some guys like em large and in charge some little and nimble, modest and humble. its all about how you feel about your breasts.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 January 2009): i know what it feels to become flat chested..
coz i am experiencing that too.. but we need to accept the fact that diz is who we are..
just stay cool..
what matter most is.. u shud stay fit.. dont mind the boobz lol..
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reader, MyDestiny +, writes (29 January 2009):
 yes some guys like big boobs, but they wont care about you're boobs they'll like you for you im a 14 year old guy and i thnk theres nothing wrong with you and not all guys like big boobs so you shouldn't worry about that, ok, you're 15 you're still growing...every body grows at their own paste.. im serious, one year you could be like this and just over the summer you look totaly different so you shouldnt sweat and appreciate your body good luck peace
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): yes, most guys do look for big breasts, me personally, i like girls with small breasts. there is nothing wrong with it, it is just who you are meant to be. i wouldn't worry too much over the matter.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 January 2009): I'm a female and I know what you're going through, I too developed late. I'm small myself & I was self-conscious for many years, I came very close to getting implants. I changed my mind because I realized a lot of things. I always got a lot of attention from guys regardless cuz (I'm gonna forget to be modest here) I work out, have nice legs, nice face, nice tummy, but most of all, I have a really cool personality. Most guys I went out with were vehemently against me getting implants, they would always say that they love them so there's no need for me to ruin my body like that.
Also, they would say the same things everybody here says, they're sexier because they're perkier, they don't sag, don't get in the way, a handful is enough, look better in lingerie ...etc.
Really, when a girl says she's getting implants for herself & no one else, it's a lie. They get them cuz they're insecure. And you know what? any man worth his salt will fin d self confidence & self-esteem WAY sexier than fake boobs! I'm sure you have so much more to offer than the size of your breasts & the right man will appreciate you for it! :o)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): Guys like big boobs because they are fun to play with and you can have fun sex with them. But you are only 15 so you have plenty of time for them to grow. but small boobs aren't always bad
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): To be anest with you I don't cair about size. To me it is a persons iner quolitys that count. I know alot of people don't tell you that but it is what I think. To me all breast sizes are atractive. I think people who like there bodies and don't want to chance a thing about them are more atractive that thoughs who do. I think that people who who change their bodies to look beter actuly look uglyer. if your woundering I'm 15 to and think you look prity no mater what you look like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 January 2009): i think that guys can over enmphasize about boob size. personally i dont care as long as they are not too big. i think that small boobs are sexier. just throwing that in. i hope i helped.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): I don't think it's about the boobs, honestly. The big boobs get attention like anything enormous would, but don't confuse that with genuine sexuality or love.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 January 2009): wow this has made me feel really self conscious.. i have pretty big boobs a size 34 c or d depending on the bra. i always thought it was an asset because mine seem to be plenty perky an not saggy but after reading this it seems like guys only want small boobs which sucks for people like me who naturally have big boobs..
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 January 2009): Hi, I know u have read this a lot but, don't worry!! I know exactly how you feel, believe me. My size is 32A, so you can imagine. I have had boyfriend for three years and he just doesn't complaint and even loves them!! You know why? because we can have perfect abs, legs, and bum by just exercising.That's great because you can do something about it without any surgery, like with boobs. Finally, if you need inspiration, take a look at Kate Hudson,Cameron Díaz, Keira Knightley or Gwen Stefani;they look great because of their confidence. They just enjoy being a woman. I'm still learning how but I'm on my way. Good luck and enjoy yourself!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 January 2009): Small boobs are much better than big ones, it is easier to see the tit down the shirt with small ones, plus no freakishly big nipples like bigger ones
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): my boobs are quite small but I get loads of attention because Im slim and tall and I have a hot face and a nice ass...;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 January 2009): wow im 16 and i have 34a and these answers made me feel ALOT better about myself. Trust me i know what you're going through. After a while you just learn to live with them :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): big boobs are easier to play with, little one's are a bit more sensitive so you have to keep you wits about you when dealing with them. honestly though, it's less of a problem than you think. I like being able to talk to a girl and the physical is just a perk of being really comfortable with a girl.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 January 2009): Sex involves many factors such as breasts,nipple,hair,pussy and so on. For guys breast is really a matter. ON seeing the big boobs the are attracted and it stimulates the harmon naturally.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 January 2009): im 15..i don't like big boobs,i'd prefer a girl with small boobs.I don't think all guys like big boobs,just most of them lol
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 January 2009): Well,as some have said. It's not really a big deal and should not be something you worry about. You want people to like you and not just your boobs.
But I do have an opinion about boob size. I'd say most boobs are more than big enough. Too much and it would only cause a backache. I would rather girls have much smaller than average boobs so they can run. Still,nobody gets to choose things about their body so work with what you have or don't!
BTW,if you're 15 you have a long way to go. In another 5 years your boobs might get huge and then you'll wish they were small as they are now!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): all boobs are great especially if you are confident getting them out. flat chested women tend to be slim so it doesnt really matter. What would you think if a guy has a small dick?
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): i think big boobs are ugly small ones are much better, more than a mouth full is a waiste
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 January 2009): small boobs r the best
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): i loooove small boobs there great
im 15
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 January 2009): i loooove small boobs there great
im 15
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 January 2009): I would much rather see small boobs big ones will become sloppy when you get older. anything smaller than a C is great!!!
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reader, core_confusion +, writes (5 January 2009):
 I can only answer this from a personal perspective and I will keep it simple;
small boobs - good (VERY good!) / big boobs - bad
but lets be honnest, how shallow does it make me if I just judge someone on one physical attribute? Persoanlity is far more important than anything else and ultimateley, if you love someone you will find them attractive no matter what size they are. The biggest turn on is not when someone has a perfect body, but when they have confidence in the body that they have - WHATEVER IT LOOKS LIKE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): Actually there are many guys, including me (age 44), that like small breasted women. For me, large breasts are a turn off and implants are even worse.
If you have ever notice, most women that have large breasts also use a lot of makeup. I've found that small breasted women are more natural. Beauty is only skin deep, therefore, a lot of makeup is a second skin that hides bad looks under it.
Remain who you are, don't try to change your looks. You will find that there are many guys that are looking for someone like you, small breasts and all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 January 2009): im 23 years male, i like doesnt like small boobs, i like medium sizee.g.34 or 36 size
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 January 2009): Never worry about anything like that. The guys you will want to go out with or even marry will like you for your personality before anything else. You is what's important, not what you look like.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 January 2009): I have small boobs myself, and all i can say is i know exactly how you feel. To be honest with you it doesnt really matter, more guys than you think would rather have a girl with small boobs. Just be confident with your body and who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 December 2008): i think guys just get really curious
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): hey.. small is cool, firm is great, would love to see and maybe manipulate..
enjoy them, I would if I could, you want to share them..lol
Have a Merry Christmas
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 December 2008): Small boobs are great, firm and nice to hold/play with.
Big boobs are s##t floppy not nice to hold and like playing with a sloppy jelly.
I would give anything to play with small firm boobs and would spend quite a lot of time playing as well.. give me small and firm anytime, you should post a picture and be proud of your boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 December 2008): guys dont care about boob size much if anything huge boobs are a turn off cuz they are sloppy.. small are always firm and pretty and elegant not slutty and huge
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 December 2008): small boobs are very "in" especially with hipsters and fashion designers.if you want something to worry about you should worry about how interesting you are as a person. exposure to culture and new activities is a great way to improve anyone imo
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I actually like small boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I don't care what the boobs look like. It's the girl inside that I care about.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 December 2008): I don't know about other guys but i prever small boobs
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reader, xo_glam0rous +, writes (21 December 2008):
Hey, don't be upset about your boob size. I just turned 19, and I am 5'9. Even though I have an A cup, I still get a lot of attention for my long legs, defined hips, long hair, cute face & bum. There is more to the body then just boobs. I have also have gotten teased from many guys and girls. Woman stating they are better looking than me becuase they have a full c or d, but I just laugh and go on with my day. I just remember how many men find Paris Hilton or Cameron Diaz attractive and they aren't really busty either!..If someone says something negative..turn it into a positive about what you DO HAVE!
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): I think girls are to selfconcious about their boobs, its a bit like lads worrying weather they have a small penis, the truth is lads arn't usually botherd about it, but girls think they are. girls arn't botherd about penis size, and still lads think they are. size doesnt't matter, i am 16, and i have a small penis but i have been with my girlfriend for over a year now, n she says she likes it the way it is because its not the size its the way its used, hope this has helped a bit
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 December 2008): I love them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): Small ones are where it's at! Big ones are for porn stars, wanna be porn stars, or plastic bitches. Keep what you have. My wife has perfect B cups and I love them. People will love you for who you are.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): hi i am 11 and like both. not really a defference
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 December 2008): to me it really depends on how they look. but i would definantly take small natural ones over big fake ones
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 December 2008): hey... i like small boobs more than big ones
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 December 2008): some of these posts make big boobs sound awful. To be honest big boobs and small boobs can look great or not so great. People have their own preferences and everyone should just be confident about what they have got. Most people would never judge a girl on her boobs, and if they did, well that just shows how stupid they are!
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 December 2008): I like smaller boobies myself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): hey i like small boobs so much because i think its a nature beuty and the other side big boobs just for play and enjoy but small one is reality sex
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 December 2008): I like small ones better.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): Shape is more important. I'll take small and nice over big and ugly!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 December 2008): I think it all depends on each individual. There are some that like them big and others that like small. I myself prefer smaller boobs. More important would be your confidence and how you present yourself to the guy so make that your focus.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 December 2008): wow, now I feel ugly, mine are 36D, (36C- when I lose the 20 lbs. I want) I think guys only want big b's in a fantasy, and not in real life.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): I myself like small boobs better. So d'ont think nobody will like you because of your boob size.
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reader, daletom +, writes (9 December 2008):
Our culture conditions guys to like bigger boobs. Most guys don't even begin to figure out what they REALLY like (regarding boobs, or most anything else) - versus what they have been TOLD to like - until they're about 20 years old.
My wife is about a 34A on a 5'9 frame. (I used to be able to get her angry by calling her a "Skinny broad with no boobs", but now she aggravates me by not getting upset.) I knew what was there, and what wasn't, well before we married.
She is a great sex partner. She successfully nursed all 3 of our kids - into their second year. They don't sag. She can go braless most of the time. We both enjoy that they are readily accessible for fondling, and even a hint of nipples poking through a well-fitted blouse is many times sexier (in my opinion) than big, floppy boobs. At 57, she has a more feminine figure than a lot of women half her age.
Please don't think you need big boobs to satisfy "the guys". I'm confident that what you have is enough to satisfy THE guy!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): I"m 16 and I have small breasts-- yea I'm sometimes self conscious about it, but hey, i still get attention from guys, so who cares!? if they can't handle your body type, then i say fuck them! it's all about personality and confidence level really... boob size is of no importance in my book.
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 December 2008): i think it isn't really a big deal. if a boy really loves you he'll accept you for who you are and love you for it.
big boobs just give you back problems in the future, yeh people would like them, but it's not a great loss if you havent got a big pair. i mean boys go for stunning girls don't they? they wouldn't just not go with them because they have small boobs? boy's don't care i think it's just a bonus if the girl has big boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): i love b to d/e cups just depends if thery are in nice bras, big ones are nice cos u can fuck them, and there big n juicy squeeze them small ones are ok b to c are also lovely just the rite size. but any tits to me are great .
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): I love small boobs, if they are in errotic lingerie
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 December 2008): As the guys in England say "more than a handfull is a waste!" makes me feel better:)
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2008): i feel so much better about my boobs now
after reading all these comments its really
dose help cause i can be very self concious
sometimes because guys are constantly teasing me
and its not fair on me im only staring to develop myself
and im only a 15 & a 30a i cant speed up my body changing!
so thanks guys for your honesty =]
emma-xoxo
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Im a 19 year old male and I personally thing big breasts look revolting. I prefer anything below a 34B. But i think personality matters more
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): Hi Dear,
Please check this article out.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/girls-what-if-you-dont-have-the-perfect.html
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2008): I like all boobs because boobs are boobs and I love boobs, big ones,small one, average ones,saggy ones. Shoot they are al great.BUT I Always check the pussy to make sure though a girl gotta have a great PUSS. and with care and hygiene that's as sure as it can be.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 December 2008): It doesnt matter too much when your older, its about finding someone you get along with, which is hard to find. When I was younger breast size didn't matter that much. confidence is the more important. More guys would go after the the the girls that thought they were hot, than the girls that actually were. I hope that helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): Really i like smaller boobs than biger heck i would even do you so be happy beacuse alot of people like small boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 December 2008): i have tiny boobs and have always been so self conscious but really....
many guys say im very attractive...
and the guys who pick on girls with small boobs are the single ones that no girls like...
so dont worry about it..
we are girls..
thats all a guy cares about lol
its all about your attitude :)
my bf of 2 years likes big boobs but he also loves mine..
personally, i hate big boobs....
and another up side...
when you are old they wont sag!!
now whos hotter? haha
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 November 2008): ok seriously im going to be completely honest with u I love small boobs way better than big ones so before I answerd this question I asked some friends at skool what they lyk better big boobs or small ones around 8 out of 10 guys said small boobs hands down and seriously small boobs are awsome ther nice tight plus firm and besides fuck what anyone else sais...hell fuck what I say just be happy wit what u got man I should write a book lol if u thought my advice waz usefull er wtvr message me at (email address withheld by moderator) [EMC]
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 November 2008): nope i love small boobs the best. big is not always the best.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): Nope, small and firm rather than those BIG
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2008): well i'm a girl and right now Im 13 but early this year I was in drama class with my friends and I was sitting next to me boyfriend web and jess my other friend. I wAs still friends with my ex at the time. And they were mucking around and I was just doodleing in my book when web grabbed my right boob and was squeasing it for a few minutes and I got pissed and I was going to slap him but if I did I wild have got into trouble because that teacher hated me. So I moved next to teylore and hannah and be said that he was sorry and told web that he went to high. But I'm kinda small I'm a well the a bra r really small but you can get them in a big make and that's me. But if we had been going out long then a few weeks I probley would have left him do it if it wasn't in the midle of one class but I don't really think it matters
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): all boob sizes are beautiful!! espeically small boobs..
the only ones which are truly ugly and when it DOES MATTER and guys will not be attracted to them.. are 'deflated' chests which are a result of anything like not eating/losing weight/spewing.. or totally OTT obese chests which are a result of someone totally not looking after themselves and just going crazy with food and no exercise and stuff..
yup!
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): every boob size is totally gorgeous if you have the right atttitude about yourself!
guys wont be attracted to someone who has 'perfect' boobs if their attitude is all like 'i feel like im ugly' .. they WILL be attracted to someone with almost nothing or a freakish amount if they have the attitude of someone who respects and loves themselves! .. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 November 2008): im a 16 year old girl and an A cup and honestly.. i get guys checking me out and asking me out and telling me they love me all the time! its kinda annoying actually.. anyway i met my gorgeous bf a year ago when i was wearing a top that made me look totally flat- but he was still attracted to me and asked me out and weve been together a year and are happy!! :) haha yeah but dont get me wrong big girls are beautiful too.. and anyway any guy that thinks your boob size matters or wants you to change any part of your body .. is a stupid worthless pathetic insult to humankind and you shouldnt waste any part of your life with him! haha damn straight!
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reader, MattayBabay  +, writes (26 November 2008):
alota guys think and act like they like big boobs and skinny bodies and stuff cuz there shown on tv heaps.. but most guys i no and me personaly prefer smaller boobs..
a) they look more natural and natural is beautiful.. big boobs are more like the ones most celebs have which are usually totally fake and full of silicone or something and feel all weird and hard which is a real turn off
b) they dont get in the way as much
c) they go with an atheletic body and atheletic body means fit and healthy and thats hot!
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 November 2008): I'm 17. I was feeling insucure about my breast size because my ex-boyfriend keeps teasing me, saying that I look like a little girl.
After reading these comments, I feel so much happier and all thoughts of surgury have been completly removed from my mind!
Thanks so much guys
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 November 2008): Hi, well to tell u the truth, i hate big boobs, small boobs rule.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 October 2008): SMALL BOOBS ARE GREAT,LOVE THEM
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reader, EvieA +, writes (23 October 2008):
 i am a 32 E and im 16.
most of my boyfriends made fun of me so
SMALLER BREASTS ARE BETTER
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reader, tagengsup2004 +, writes (21 October 2008):
I think girls with a small top is far more appealling than one with larger I think a girl with small boobs is on the average an awful lot more physically fit than a big girl and as time moves along she'll appreciate the fact that she is small as well cause she'll not develop the health problems that will develop with the bigger girl.
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reader, thunderchild +, writes (19 October 2008):
 Lucky you! big boobs are a nightmare, trying to get nice underwear is a nightmare! I was a late developer my self and I really wish they stayed small! so thank your lucky stars, who cares what guys think as long as you're comfortable with yourself, in which case you will feel more confident and guys like and respect that :)
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reader, kiloski +, writes (19 October 2008):
Yea.... girl don't worry, honestly I like smaller breasts. Don't be intimidated because of the idea that bigger is always better cuz in all respects, it isn't always.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2008): I think small boobs are a turn on. All my girlfriends have had small boobs.
Small boobs reallly can make some guys horny, so go for it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 August 2008): I am 11 and every other girl in my class has boobs, I am JUST starting to dovelop but my friends kinda pick on me, but I hope it changes as i get older, but when you're your age, sall booba are cute, trust me i know these things, i knew having 6 step brothers aged 13-20 would pay off someday! DON'T WORRY!!
-sweet-like-jam-tarts-, 11 x
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 August 2008): at early ages big boobs r r like fantasy to men then as men gets older small ones seems more sexier
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): There is nothing wrong with small boobs. I for one think they are awesome.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 July 2008): im a guy....teen(15) and my girlfriend has big breast(dont know the cup size never cared to check) i asked her out 2.5 years ago when she was still flat. i was only in love with her pesonality and nothing else. i can only say this. guys like a girl for things like breast but love a girl for her personallity.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 July 2008): I'm 16 and I'm pretty sure that I can speak for a lot of guys by saying that it's really not very important. It can, however, be unflattering if a girl wears clothes that would look better on someone better endoubed and vice versa.
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reader, Niffy +, writes (23 July 2008):
 to tell you the truth it doesnt matter, you could be the hottest girl on the earth and have small boobs its not soo much on having them being small and what not its the way you use them!
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): It's a question of taste - I (31 yrs) personally prefer small boobs but never judged a woman by her boobs. The problem is that feeling insecure about any part of you body shows - other people will notice it. I know what I'm saying, I just lost 200 pounds in the past year. For a more direct answer - bigger boobs are attractive because of the way they move and the way they feel - seriously. Smaller boobs can be easier to dress though and make life much easier for men.I believe that any woman can be attractive but I generally go out with a woman who can tease my mind, no matter the size of her boobs.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 July 2008): i'm a 30B although i think i may be a 32A
i generally hate the size of my boobs
i'm 14 and most girls younger than me are already a 32D
the lads around me drowl at girls with bigger boobs
this makes me feel dead self concious!
everyone calls me flat chested
and i've done loads to make my boobs look bigger
y'know what?
it really isn't worth it!
after reading the responses off other males it's made me feel hell of alot more confident about the size of my boobs
i feel concious because my boyfriend always talks about bigger boobs
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reader, anonymous, writes (20 July 2008): There are a lot of guys who like big boobs. But there are just as many or more who like small boobs.Don't let your cup size make you who you are, I know you've heard it before but it's true. Men like all types of women, Big, little, big tits, small tits, big ass, small ass, blond, brunet and redhead and everything else you can imagine. If the guy you like is only with you because of your boobs... DUMP HIM!! You're so much better than that.My preference (and every guy I know) is small boobs. When all is said and done, it's you're personality and character that your man will be attracted to, love and stay with for the rest of his life. A woman with personality and character is ALWAYS the woman that will win HANDS DOWN!! If you don't believe me, ask any MAN who has been married for 20 years and completely adores his wife. All that other crap means nothing… He loves her for her, not boobs, hair, make-up, legs, ass or pussy (pardon my French) it’s all about who she is, not what she has. THAT’S THE GODS HONEST TRUTH!!!I whish you the best…
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 July 2008): If I like a girl, it doesn't matter to me how big her boobs are, I like all sizes, and I prefer the small to average rather than the huge monster ones!
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 July 2008): i think both have their perks.. ha no pun intended but seriously, women are too self concious about this either way. to the original post, don't feel bad about your boobs because they are small, its not a big deal. there are many beautiful and attractive women with small boobs. and to the girl who posted who felt insecure about her big boobs, same answer! don't! i'm sure they look great, and work on you. variety is the spice of life! there is no reason for us as humans to be so insecure about our bodies! work what ya got!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 July 2008): i saw somthing on the discovery channel a couple years ago and it talked about why guys like big boobs and wide hips and it said it was all encoded into our genetics because women with large breast and wide hips are more likely to be succsesful in childbirth and breastfeeding. with todays technology this is not be the case but in like caveman times this was realy important so guys have a natural atraction to big buts and big boobs. it was a realy interesting show, that wasent all it was about, and i personnaly dont care either way.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 July 2008): I don't like big boobs at all I think small are more beautiful
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 July 2008): I am a 16 year old girl with 36D boobs, i'm not a big fan of them but reading these posts made me feel a little insicure about them. I know now that guys like boob that are small and perky, not big and "saggy", umm thank you. but i quess its something that i am going to have to live with.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 July 2008): i think all of you are right, great responses, im really small, but my boyfriend loves my boobs.Some guys just prefer bigger, because it gives them a false sense of masculinity, to be with a girl who has huge boobs, because its the most conspicuous female feature..b happy with what you have, because when ur older, you wont be saggy =D
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reader, jjesse +, writes (27 June 2008):
Im 17 and honestly I don't like big boobs I find them to be.. Annoying? I dunno I prefer em to be smaller.
There's definately nothing wrong with it
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 June 2008): i like smaller boob sizes. i dont no y but girls with over the top breasts kinda gross me out. i think you'll find most guys do
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reader, bratzgir10 +, writes (20 June 2008):
Most of the guys i know prefer small boobs because their more firm and stuff they say that big boobs are nice and all but either they dont sag and their fake or they sag to much or are just to big
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reader, anonymous, writes (30 May 2008): personally i rather have small firm boobs than larger saggy ones, and i just like smaller boobs, idky it just turns me on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2008): it is ingraved in our heads that the bigger, the better ,but some men includeing me dont mind to much.
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 May 2008): It is personal taste, but I tend to prefer the smaller chested woman because they tend not to sag so much and are generally more pert... a lot of clothes suit smaller boobs too, and even if theyre small a wonder bra will do wonders for cleavage if thats what your after!
I think alot of men are like me and are the same, however at the end of the day its personal preference. Loves the boobs yu have... and if theyre small then so will i.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 May 2008): i love small boobs. dont know why just love small boobs. i think alot of guys would prefer a set of perky boobs not saggy boobs!! be happy with your size!
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reader, adam2447 +, writes (30 April 2008):
if u want to contact me my email is [email address blocked] about my answer[moderator note: please do not include personal emails in answers, use your Dear Cupid account]
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 April 2008): I'm in my mid 20's and I absolutely love small boobs, I prefer them. You're going to find this is all personal preference when it comes to guys. If I want to fill my hands up, I'm going to grab her butt ;) Be proud of what you got because it's hot, it's part of who you are, and there are guys out there that ABSOLUTELY love them! One other factor is nipple size, I like small boobs and small nipples, again, everyone has his or her own preference. Hope this helps!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 April 2008): i have no problems with small breasts personally, my girlfriend claims hers are small but theyre still fun ;)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 April 2008): im 15, and what it really comes down to is the shape. The size doesnt matter as much as what they actually look like and how they look on you. But small boobs are nice
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reader, useiwayne +, writes (26 March 2008):
 Big boobs look nice in a bikini or under a shirt. However, the reality of big boobs is that they are much more likely to be droopy/saggy, and that is not attractive. I think you will find guys like small, firm breasts.
The guys you are talking about (teenage boys) haven't fully realized this fact yet as most pictures of women with large breasts are the results of silicone. porn has skewed what normal breasts should look like, and your generation's expectations are ridiculous. Once guys become congnizant of this fact and the "droop/sag" factor of larger breasts, breasts of your size become what we guys all want.
Be patient and happy with you were given, you have nothing to worry about!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2008): Ya, small is definately better!
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI would like to give a big thank you to everyone that has answered especially the guys . You have made me feel alot better . Thank you . feel free to msg me anytime
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reader, DoubleM +, writes (23 March 2008):
 As an older man who has seen and enjoyed about every available size, my opinion is that it matters little to me. In fact, I think that smaller breasts are just fine, but I do love nice perky nipples. Whether on large or small breasts, firm nipples poking out are a joy for me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): Hey there. I'm 15 year old male, and i got to say, i really really like small boobs. I don't like to big boobs. I like them a bit small, I'm not kidding.
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reader, LazyGuy  +, writes (23 March 2008):
 It is a matter of taste. What matters more is that your breast size matches your size/weight, clothing and attitude.
What matters is how the total package looks. To many women try to dress/behave as something they are not.
If you got small breasts don't try to fake a cleavage. Look at what women who do look good with your bra-size wear. I have no idea how to express it better but there are plenty of women who can make an a-cup really work.
After all, if an a-cup was sexually unattractive then it would have been bred out of the human species long ago. Evolution shows us that tit size don't make a difference.
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reader, ShouldKnowBetter +, writes (23 March 2008):
It is down to personal preferences, some like big, some like small.
Just dont go for the false advertising of a wonder bra :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): ya every guy is different i cant really help you with why guys like bigger boobs cause im not really one of those guys.a girls breast size doesnt matter to me if she has a good personality.come to think of it the girl i like isnt extremely big but boy am i attracted to her.so guys are all different some like em big and some like em small hope this helps
-michael
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reader, g247  +, writes (23 March 2008):
First off, you're 15 so your body still has a LOT of growing to do.
But anyway, guys don't tend to go for big boobs. That's a stigma. Personally speaking, I'm more of a fan of smaller one's and a lot of other guys share the same sentiment.
Yes there are guys who like big tits alright, but they're not neccessarily the majority, much less everyone. Relax, you don't have a problem.
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reader, anonymous, writes (23 March 2008): To be honest, (obviously I'm not a guy but...) I think guys like big boobs simply because they don't have ANY boobs. In a way, it makes the girl seem more feminine.
However, I'm a 32E and feel LESS feminine because of them.
Not all guys like bigger breasts though, some just prefer for their girls to be smaller in chest size. So we've got to remember not to generalize here.
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