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... Send *hantelle x a private message | | | *hantelle x's profile:I am Chantelle and am 18. I have been settled in Kidderminster with my parents and little brother for six years now. This is the longest place we have lived in as dad was in the armed forces for 22 years. I am currently in sixth form studying sports and also leisure. I have always been told that my advice is very helpful for others and get a great feeling when my advice works and i see people happy. My hobbies are athletics and taekwondo where it helps to improve my fitness and health but also my socialising skills. I am in a relationship and have been now for a very long time... to long in fact :) only joking.
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Silly I know, but I am still paranoid!
Q. Ok this may seem silly, but im really paranoid. My boyfriend and I are not having sex, but i gave him a handjob and he came on his stomach, when climbed over him to get off the bed and a little bit got on my thigh. I was wearing shorts and I took a ...
A. 21 February 2010: No not at all, there is no need what so ever to worry or panic. You cant get pregnant from this. Its not silly dont worry, lots of people worry about the same sort of things. Xx... (read in full...)
Boyfriend can't perform in bed as good as he thinks he can.
Q. I just started having sex very recently.My Boyfriend and I have had sex a couple times and everytime it was bad. I cheated on him with a friend who I asked to teach me how to ride and perform fellatio and some other basic positions and the sex was ...
A. 20 February 2010: As much as you may burst his bubble you need to have a chat with him about, obviously your lessons paid off and he thinks your great but sex isnt about it being one sided. I had to fake with my ex boyfriend, he would work so hard and it did ... (read in full...)
What does it feel like to receive oral sex?
Q. this is a bit of a rude question but im really curious to know what it feels like to recieve oral sex. can anybody describe it. does it feel weird? im worried i wont like it. im a lesbian and me and my girlfriend have done everything else and now ...
A. 20 February 2010: The thing is the first time may be weird and alittle strange and embarrassing as you may not have seen each other that close up before, but as you are both new to it, you can help one another to make it great. That is exactly the same for many ... (read in full...)
First time sex... I don't know whether I should do it or not.
Q. Hi, my question is on first time sex and its not going to be easy to answer, but basically I was wondering whether I should do it or not. I know this must sound a little odd, but I was watching a Family Guy episode last night (don't knock it, it a...
A. 20 February 2010: To be honest, i think you need to discuss your concerns with you boyfriend. If waiting is what you want then i am sure your boyfriend would be fine with it. Sex isnt such a big thing, admittedly it is good fun but at the end of the day it is how you ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated twice, can she really mean it when she says she loves me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now and she has cheated twice. The first time she cheated was early in our relationship, but I decided to give her a second chance. After that we became really close and she told me that she ...
A. 20 February 2010: You need to stay strong and work out what is best for you. As if you are thinking the way you are there is clearly no trust there. You need to really consider whether you could go through this hurt all over again... i know that i couldnt as much as ... (read in full...)
How can you be happy and single?
Q. how do you be happy and single. Everyone around me is with someone and I feel really depressed. Any tips? Thank you x...
A. 20 February 2010: Look closer at people in the relationships and see if they are truly happy as just because people are together doesnt mean they are happy. Being single is great as you can live life to the full and enjoy it without causing problems.
You will find... (read in full...)
My friend and I had sex and now he is pulling away...
Q. Looking for advice. I met a guy at work about 5 years ago and we really hit it off. We quickly became close friends and had lunch together and hung out at work almost every day. Then we started hanging out outside of work occasionally. An...
A. 20 February 2010: I have been in a simular situation, all you need to do is go out to the places or do the things you most enjoyed when you were really close friends. I think, like my friend he doesnt want to fall for you as he doesnt want to lose you as a friend. ... (read in full...)
Do you think this guy is married?
Q. Dear Aunts and Uncles, I would like you to put your detective hats on and help me out please. The Brief: So I've known this guy for a few months but I have a suspicion that he may be married and would really like your opinion. Facts: Sinc...
A. 20 February 2010: From this my thoughts are that he is married. As you have said all the facts are there and they all pointing to him being taken. I would keep away or keep your distance before you fall for him.
Just go with your instinct and things will work out... (read in full...)
I want to move in with my boyfriend, how to bring it up in a subtle way?
Q. Basicaly I've been with my boyfriend just over a year and I want to take the next step - moving in together, how can I bring this subject up in a subtle way so it doesnt seem as if I'm pushing. It's not like I'm ready to marry and have kids, I'...
A. 20 February 2010: Discuss the possibility of moving in with your boyfriend one day, meaning sometime in the future, by this you can see his reactions and it will also drop a seed and bring forward the possibility of you moving in sooner rather than later.
Good ... (read in full...)
How do I make my boyfriend understand that this is still affecting me?
Q. Firstly apologies for what will appear to be a long and confusing story. I am 20 years old, my boyfriend is 22 and we met at university, we live apart as I am still there and he has graduated and works full time. We’ve been together for 14 month...
A. 20 February 2010: I think when bringing this up it will be a touchy subject. If i was in the same situation then i would be as hurt as you especially as you have had to keep rebuilding the trust just to have it crushed even more.
If i was you, i would just tell him ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 20 February 2010: No, being a vegetarian wont affect the pill in anyway as i am also. If anything it is better as the diet is extra helpful :) x... (read in full...)
I get overly emotional PMS. Any tips on how to control it?
Q. Whenever I'm on, I get really, really, really emotional. I'm really emotional anyway but when I'm on, I'm like a bomb, I can go off in a second. I cry, I shout, I scream, I do a thousand other things. I don't mind that, it's just that whenever I do ...
A. 20 February 2010: I was exactly the same, i was unsure what to do and was also embarrassed of how i was. I went to the doctors and i was put on the pill, this helps with pains which you havent said you are suffering with but also helps with mood swings. Now, it isnt ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is insecure. How do I reassure her?
Q. I'm in a cool thing with a girl, but she's so insecure about what I'm doing when I'm not around her. She's always asking did I sleep with her friend, or what I was doing at such and such a time. Or those little word traps they do, like, "do you ...
A. 20 February 2010: You just need to be straight with her, tell her how you feel but also tell her that if it carries on, it is going to ruin anything between the pair of you. I confronted my boyfriend recently about not trusting me and now we couldnt be any happier. ... (read in full...)
I fear my behaviour is slutty, please help me feel better about myself!
Q. I need help. I'm 20 years old and I'm realizing now I'm turning into a slut:( I have a real hard time saying no to guys when it comes to sex or things like that. Its like I have no respect for myself. I know there are massive consequences for this ...
A. 20 February 2010: As much as sex is fantastic, having respect for yourself is most important. You arent the only one who is going through this, my friend was like you. She had a different bloke every weekend and was starting to get a real name for herself, as much as ... (read in full...)
Should I be concerned about my period sickness?
Q. Hello, I take to my periods very badly.. Every time I get my periods I experience Dizzyness, Feel very sick, Sore Heads, Bad moods, very sore stomach, and loose my appetite .. Should I be concerned? Thanks...
A. 19 February 2010: I suffered from exactly the same problem, i went to the doctors and they put me on the pill. Now my periods are light and i dont feel sick or dizzy and i dont have to be afraid of when im about to be on! x x... (read in full...)
I really like my professor but I don't know what to do!
Q. I really have a big problem, because I really can't admit that I really do like my professor, and I am not already the kind of student before, when I still do not have the feelings for him yet. I am a first year college student and I'm 16, also, my ...
A. 19 February 2010: In my honest opinion i really wouldnt go there. He could lose his job and you could jeopardise your education if anything was to occur. Just see this as a crush and find someone more your own age. You will be happier and that is guaranteed. I had a ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend cheated twice, can she really mean it when she says she loves me?
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been going out for a few years now and she has cheated twice. The first time she cheated was early in our relationship, but I decided to give her a second chance. After that we became really close and she told me that she ...
A. 19 February 2010: In previous experience they say they love you but if they did why would they cheat. If it was a once off, then that is possibly forgiveable but as she has betrayed your trust even more i think you would be better moving on as much as she begs. I ... (read in full...)
Why is my ex-boyfriend doing this to me?
Q. Hey people am in a dilemma.. Broke up with my boyfriend last year november. But the previous year it was on and off.but last year november i broke it off officially. After he confessed he slept with some other woman. I forgave him but icouldnt trust ...
A. 19 February 2010: Men are very confusing creatures. I think he knows that he did wrong and is telling you all of this to put his mind at rest. I think he did have true feelings for you and genuinely felt bad when he cheated. I also think you are correct in thinking ... (read in full...)
My husband cheated on me and I need to find a way to forgive him!
Q. My husband cheated on me with a married woman. I found out by accident and it has wrecked what was a great relationship between he and I. He is sorry, won't do it again, blah blah blah. We have a stormy road ahead as I can't let it go. We have ...
A. 19 February 2010: I think you need to talk to your husband about how you are feeling as clearly you have many questions that you want answering. In my honest opinion if you have so many questions and doubts is the relationship worth it, i know you have children but ... (read in full...)
The teacher I think I like kissed me, what am I supposed to do now?
Q. Hi! OK, well, the issue is that I'm 17 and I'm in a really well known private school doing my A Levels at the moment. English is what I want to do at Uni and, as you might know, contact with teachers in a private school is a lot more informal an...
A. 19 February 2010: Teachers and pupils dating having flings isnt really allowed but doesnt mean it doesnt happen. I went through the same experience with my athletics coach... It started when he added me on msn, i felt exactly like you when he said 'i set him on fire ... (read in full...)
What would women think of my 'manhood'?
Q. I need an opinion, I am back on the dating scean after 18 years. I have been with only 2 woman in my life. here is the deal I am very subconcious of my manhood, I am okay size wise but I have a left leaning curve (thicker at the curve than base) ...
A. 19 February 2010: To be honest with you, it doesnt seem like an big issue to me. I think if you get to that level with someone, then if they are dead set on you then there wont be a problem. I have a friend who said to me that he was an average size but he leaned to ... (read in full...)
My ex dumped me by text but won't leave me alone!
Q. Right where to start. Well me and my boyfriend broke up around a month ago after spending 6 months together and I still find it so hard. We were so close and cared so much for each other but out of the ordinary he dumped me by text. He then messed ...
A. 19 February 2010: He is trying to be a 'lad' and act cool but to be honest i think that he still has feelings for you and jealousy is written all over him. You need to tell him out right that you love him and from his answer, your future is decided.
He shouldnt have... (read in full...)
How do I get a girl on her own so I can ask her out?
Q. I am just wondering if you have any ideas on how to talk to a girl alone. Thanks to the answers on the last 2 questions i posted (how can i make a move without embarrassing either of us and what is meant by make my move), I have decided that when we ...
A. 19 February 2010: You could go down the route through her friend, but i personally think that you should just ask her out right. When i was your age, i fell madly for a lad but like you didnt know how to talk to him or what to say as i was quite shy. I started by ... (read in full...)
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