He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?
Q. heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...
A. 7 September 2008: ok i have talked about this with my boyfriend and he was so stubbor and would'nt change so we have ended up spliting up. I just can't believe he picked flirting with other girls over a relationship with me am i that bad a gf? when it was al over he ... (read in full...)
He says he flirts with other girls because he wants them to feel happy. Am I being unreasonable for not believing this?
Q. heya last night i found out that my bf of a month likes to flirt wiv other gals i dont mind this but he likes to flirt alot he tells every gd luking gal he talks to ow gawjus they are he seys its just the way he is he seys he likes to make thm feel ...
A. 6 September 2008: i can't tell you all how good your answers hve been thank you all. i think ive got to talk to him about this. ... (read in full...)
I do not have a good relationship with my co-worker, could you tell me how to obviate the tenson?
Q. I have this problem with a guy from my work lets call him M. He is really attractive but i would never wanna go out with him as i have a bf and he has a gf we used to get along really well and we would chat and have a laugh,then everything changed ...
A. 5 May 2008: I don't think that i could talk to him about this. What about if he turns me down like i did to him? I am scared of rejection.... (read in full...)
I cant seem to make him cum when I give him a blow job
Q. Hi there I have a serious issue here. i've just started seeing someone new and i cant seem to make him cum when i give him a blow job. I've never had this problem before... (Infact past partners have usually cum quite quickly). Its reached a po...
A. 13 April 2008: I have exactly the same problem wiv my bf.
Me and my bf comprimise- i give him a blow job for a while and then if he isn't close to coming he starts to masterbate till he gets him self close then i take over and i can then make him cum more eas... (read in full...)
SITE NEWS: Call for new volunteer moderators (please read carefully)
Q. Hi, with the site getting busier all the time I'm looking for new volunteer moderators... PLEASE READ THIS CAREFULLY BEFORE RESPONDING! Moderators approve new questions, think up of interesting and accurate titles and approve/reject a...
A. 15 June 2007: hiya Andrew I'm addicted to dear cupid i log on everyday and im very good at english i can answer 10 questions a day if youd like. i love this web site it has helped me so much i would love to help other people.
id love to help you out
carly x... (read in full...)
He's already made out with her and he's only TEN!
Q. Recently My 10 year old cousin who lives with us has got a new girlfriend but shes 13 and I dont trust her and when she comes round , they run straight up to his bedroom and if I walk in they suddenly jump and shout at me to get out and he's already ...
A. 15 June 2007: omg my little sisters 10 and id hate her to be with anyone right one a person whos 3 years older get your parnets involved for the best hun... (read in full...)
Why can't I get an erection???
Q. i am a 15 yr old lad who was getting 'close' to his girlfriend, problem was i couldnt get a hard on. what is wrong with me?...
A. 3 June 2007: it was proably just nerves the 1st time bbe nothing to worry bout your still young soon your lil man will learn to cooperate xxx... (read in full...)
When I shave my legs it hurts so bad because I have very sensitive skin. Anyone got any ideas?
Q. I have dark hair on my legs so I have to shave it but I also have very sensitive skin. Whenever I am shaving my upper legs it hurts like something wicked. I use a venus disposible razor with some sort of shaving gel. I have tried alternatives to ...
A. 3 June 2007: if the other ideas ppl have given u dont work try shaving with baby lotion instead of gel or cream its great for sensetive skin and leaves ya legs feelin soft and smooth hope i helped xx... (read in full...)
Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?
Q. Can you ever heal and move on from your first love?...
A. 27 May 2007: It will take time for you to get over your first love, i have been through the same thing my first love hurt me bad but after time and alot of crying and learning to accept it i have grown to get over him. Juts you remember that life goes on, it ... (read in full...)
I get aroused whenever I get involved... how can I stop it?
Q. I don't know about most other young teen guys(I'm 16), but every time i get intimately involved with a girl, or just very close to her physically, i get somewhat aroused. What can i do to prevent this from "ruining" the moment? ...
A. 25 May 2007: hiya i'm a girl and i am in exactly the same position i posted a question earlier this week similar to your i got some reali gd answers. http://www.dearcupid.org/question/how-can-i-stop-myself-getting-so-overwhelmed.html I hope they help me as much ... (read in full...)
I'm due to meet a guy I met online and I'm so shy and nervous. Any suggestions?
Q. Hi there... ive recently been talking to a local guy who I met online. He's a couple of years older than me and has a 2 year old daughter. We've agreed to meet for the first time tomorrow for lunch. We've exchanged photos and Im worried im not ...
A. 15 February 2007: hi hun i had the same prob i met my online guy on valentines day and i was so nervous as well. But just before you meet him ya nerves will disappear. well that's what happened to me. but just a word of warning hun my guy turned out to be totally ... (read in full...)
what is the meaning of a single rose, compared to a dozen roses?
Q. what is the meaning of a single rose, compared to a dozen roses?...
A. 14 February 2007: i always think of it this way: a little of sumthin beautiful is betta than alot of sumthin thts only just ok xx hope this helps xx... (read in full...)
Here is my list of the "perfect" boyfriend! What do you think?
Q. Here is my list of the perfect boyfriend. Are there any men like this? 1. Shares all email and IM passwords 2. Has none, or only one, female friend 3. Tell's me when his only female friend calls 4. Tell's me when he goes basically anywher...
A. 11 February 2007: you sound like a total control freak, no men are like this and any sane person wouldn't want them to be. you sound so insecure. ... (read in full...)
How can I stop biting my lips, fingers and insides of my cheeks?
Q. I have a really big problem with biting my lips, the skin around my fingers, the inside of my cheek. I am usually making it bleed or hurt really bad. Does anyone have any idea why I do this all the time, even without noticing? And how can I stop? ...
A. 22 January 2007: hiya i have the same problem i dont think its anythin serious, but i get it from my dad he does it to does anyone in your family also do it? i have tryed such things as solutions that are specially made to make ya fingers,nails and lips taste horrid ... (read in full...)
Our daughter is going through puberty and my husband refuses to hug her..he thinks it's inappropriate. What can I do?
Q. My husband and daughter have always had a close relationship. However now my daughter is 15 now and is going through puberty and growing breasts. I don't know why but my husband has stopped being physically affectionate with her. It really hurts ...
A. 1 January 2007: hiya hun im 15 and the same thing happened to me whn i turned 15 your husband doesnt dislike or not love your daughter he is just having a difficult time dealing with the fact tht your daughter is becoming a woman and that he is not needed any more. ... (read in full...)
I told my BF a big secret - was it a mistake?
Q. In a relationship 5 yr only 20 now. I kept a secret for 2 years from my boyfriend and I couldnt keep it any longer so I told him. It was not my fault what happened I never wanted it to happen, it involved another lad nothing like it has ever ...
A. 2 November 2006: what was the secert? if it was big you shud maybe of kept it to ya self but if its small and he can understand then it shudnt be a problem xxx... (read in full...)
Are you single? Please reply here!
Q. Hi everyone Andrew, site guy here.. Just doing a poll to see how many visitors to the site are SINGLE and would be interested in a (free, of course) DearCupid dating service. Just reply to this post. Thanks! A....
A. 23 October 2006: yh im single and i think its a great idea xx cnt wait to c if anythin becomes of it xx... (read in full...)
We can't be seen together so only meet once a month to a hotel together!!!
Q. i have been seeing my girlfriend for 6 years but for reasons we only go out once a month to a hotel on a thursday (because we cant be seen together)our sex life is great but when she cant make it on thursday ive asked her to change to a tuesday ...
A. 21 October 2006: this doesn't sound like much of a relationship and it sounds like its based on the sexual side of things i think that she is using this busy bingo night as an excuse not to see you i would advise to dump her and find someone who u can be seen with a ... (read in full...)
This guy wants me to work off my debt with sex. Why am I allowing this?
Q. **Hey Cupid's** Am I slut? I don't want to think I am. I can justify myself. There is this guy who has lust me for quiet a while, at least 2 years. He's been very close to me, friend wise. I have told him everything and I confide in him. At the m...
A. 9 October 2006: omg wat a prick this guy doesn't respect you at all and if he liked u or loved u at all he wudn't be asking u for sex in exchange for money it doesn't make u a slut honey but it makes him pimp.!!! ... (read in full...)
I want to make a big impression on him when we go back to school.. any ideas?
Q. Hi there :-) I'm going back to school in a few days, and I feel like I've changed how I feel about myself. I ended the last term realising how I felt about this boy in my class. I really like him! Only problem is he likes someone else, but she do...
A. 4 September 2006: look hun just be your self thts the bst way to get some ones attention and if he doesnt like u for who u r thn i guess thts his loss nt yours hope i helped xxxxx... (read in full...)
Im only 13 and addicted to porn, but want to stop please help...
Q. help me i am addicted to porn at age 13 plz help me i like it at first but then i feel disgusted and sick wid myself how do i stop lukin at it plz help me!!!!!...
A. 15 August 2006: if u really want to stop you will have to try very hard and when you want to look at it try and find something else to occupy your mind. like take up a hobby.Or start to read. hope this helps xxx... (read in full...)
Scared to let my guard down in case I end up hurt again...
Q. I can't relax in my relationship because i'm scared that if i let my guard down i'll get hurt. I'm 16, and until my current bf my longest relationship had been 6 days, purely because I'm scared to let people get to know me, so they dump me pretty ...
A. 15 August 2006: well it sounds like you need to feel very relaxed with this person and try and trust him not to hurt you.If you do trust him then you can let your guard down and feel comfortable being your self with him without the fear of being hurt. i hope i have ... (read in full...)
Should I meet the MSN guy I've been chatting to?
Q. Hi, I have been talking to this guy for a few months now on msn and now he wants to meet. I have seen a picture of him and him of me on msn but I'm not sure. My friend says if I want to meet him she would go with me. What should I do??...
A. 13 August 2006: i am in the kinda same situation wiv my online lad if u wanna chat sometime give me a shout!!! good luck hun xx... (read in full...)
I don't want to meet my online man (yet)
Q. Dear cupid my problem is that i was going out with this lad i met on the net but we had never met, then last sunday we spilt up because he didn't understand whjy i was nervous about meeting him now i have a new internet boy friend but im not as ...
A. 13 August 2006: thank you all for your help and yes i did speak to the first lad on the phone yes he rung me alot were reali close... (read in full...)
He said he won't give me oral sex because I smell different to his ex-girlfriend!
Q. Dear cupid. Me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 months now and everything was going alright until i asked him why he had never attempted to give me oral sex when i have given it him. Basically he said it was because i smelt different from ...
A. 12 August 2006: Im sorry to say this bbz but u should dump the prick!!!... (read in full...)
Please define, "going out" with someone and "seeing someone"...
Q. whats the difference between seeing someone and actualy goin out with them. i sort of know but i wana b sure thnx x x x...
A. 12 August 2006: here in the uk they are the same thing... (read in full...)
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