I don't want to love him anymore and he doesn't want to love me.
Q. I've been with this guy for exactly 1 year and 6 months today. I'm crazy about him. But that’s the problem. I don’t want to love him any more and he doesn’t want to love me. We've got into random fights our entire relationship, and about a year...
A. 6 March 2010: You need to get out of this relationship.
You are being taken advantage of. Abusing you in anyway is wrong. He's habit to you, that's why it's hard to leave. But you need to go cold turkey, and yes it'll hurt, but if you don't you'll be stuck and ... (read in full...)
I broke up with my boyfriend thinking he would want me back, now I don't know what to do!
Q. Hi everyone i need advice i broke up with my boyfriend thinking it would make him see wat he had once it was gone but he didnt chase after me we barely talk now he says he misses me after i tell him i miss him but i cant stop thinking about him he ...
A. 5 March 2010: First, you need to tell him your reasons behind dumping him, tell him you miss him and you regret it. Be completely open and honest with him, and hope he isn't too hurt to take you back.
But you are going to have to risk spilling everything out ... (read in full...)
How do I talk to him about this when we only see each other every 3 to 4 weeks when that time should be special and stress free?
Q. so im re posting this question because no one answered.. my boyfriend never calls me or texts me. We are in a L.D.R and we have been friends for many years and he has always been this way not just with me but with other friends as well but i though...
A. 5 March 2010: As much as i loathe to say it, you might need to approach this conversation over the phone. Write down your feelings, exactly what you need to say, and hopefully if you open up about how you're feeling he will feel more comfortable to do so as well. ... (read in full...)
She Told Me I Was Sweet..
Q. OK today not thinking much on my interaction with my financial advicers assistant she called me wanting me to come in and sign some papers. This lady is 45 in great shape with 3 daughters in the high school age range and to beat all it see...
A. 5 March 2010: It sounds like she has feelings for you- i would definitely ask her out for lunch if i were you! Really get to know her away from the workplace. Goodluck!... (read in full...)
When should I kiss her!?
Q. I'm 14, female, and bi. I've been going out with this girl for the second time. This time we've been together for two weeks, and two weeks the last time as well. So, my friends and one of hers think she wants to kiss me. I really don't know...shes ...
A. 5 March 2010: I think at 14, with your hormones running around, you can't be certain you are bisexual, even though you might be attracted to girls and guys. But anyway- as for your question, if she's with you, i would assume she wants to kiss you! She's probably ... (read in full...)
I beleive he's the one, but I'm not 100% sure if he likes me!
Q. Hey. I’d really like someone else’s prospective on this. It’s driving me mad! I’ve been msning a mutual friend for a year and a half ish and I’ve fallen for him. He’s the first person I’ve ever really liked and I don’t know why I like him. I’m real...
A. 5 March 2010: First i would say, yes even with your shyness, try to flirt with him and see what response you get. Even better if in person rather than msn. Or take the plunge and tell him you like him, if you get rejected, atleast you can say you tried.
As for ... (read in full...)
Stuck between two girls, both I really like.
Q. Well I really don't know what to do. I kinda like two different girls, I say like because I'm not in love with either one of them and I don't believe in saying it until you mean it. Anyway the first one is Trish, she's beautiful, she's funny, ...
A. 5 March 2010: First, be very careful how you handle anything with Trish, if she is your best friend, you don't want to risk your friendship by either not telling her you like her, or telling her you like her. Unfortunately i don't know her so i can't predict her ... (read in full...)
I read messages on his phone that make me question his committment to me
Q. I was staying at my boyfriends last night and he was asleep but i couldnt sleep and i reached over to put something on the bedside table and found his phone.. i had to go thru it coz i did once before and found something i really did not like.. he ...
A. 5 March 2010: This seems pretty tough. He's acting really suspicious, so i can see why you would be uneasy. all i can advise is you have a serious think about what you want to do, and if you believe his version of events. And how much you trust him. If you don't ... (read in full...)
Does he see me only as a friend? I want more.
Q. I started chatting to this guy on a dating site, we chatted once or twice then he disappeared. About a month later he mailed me again, was honest and said he had met someone but things didnt work out and he wanted to carry on chatting to me etc. ...
A. 5 March 2010: He's already proven he's honest. And it's great you gave him the chance! He might not be over her yet, but that's okay. He's willing to try again, so don't give up on him. Be his friend for a while, and when he's ready for more, he will really know ... (read in full...)
I am pregnant, but everything he does offends me
Q. Hi, I am in an uncomfortable situation. I am currently in a relationship, we've been together since october of 2009 and the problem is that my feelings for him are slowing fading. When we met things were cool, you know the whole "honeym...
A. 5 March 2010: You're very young, and what's more, bringing a new life into the world. If this man isn't the one for you, then don't stay with him. Simple. You have the rest of your life, you want to spend it with someone you really, really love. Not this man, ... (read in full...)
Where is the line between being high maintenance and wanting a reasonable amount of attention without any distractions?
Q. I don't really know what to think. My boyfriend moved to another state so we talk on skype and phone as often as possible. However I feel like sometimes he takes me for granted because he knows I love him to pieces, just little things like getting ...
A. 4 March 2010: The key here is to not become clingy and overbearing, because you're likely to smother him without getting your point across. One night on skype, say to him exactly what you've written down here- it was honest and feeling. He probably doesn't ... (read in full...)
It's getting that I'm scared to have sex in case I hurt them...
Q. I was seeing this girl that I really liked. We tried to have sex one night and it just didn't work. I just couldn't get aroused. I had been seeing her for only a couple of months and it wasn't really such a serious relationship but I really liked ...
A. 4 March 2010: There is nothing wrong with not being ready to have sex. And there is no shame in being a virgin! I know lots of guys who haven't had sex yet- and their honesty and complete lack of shame is really amazing! It attracts the right kind of girls. if ... (read in full...)
I can't stand her jealousy...
Q. Me and my girlfriend have been together for a year and a half, and we are happy. Unfortunately, there is one thing that I really can't stand, and that is her jealousy. I'm 20 years old and have been offered to be a tutor for my college, and here is ...
A. 4 March 2010: Everybody gets jealous- but in this case i can't see much of a reason to spark that reaction on.
Your girlfriend must have some major insecurity issues- which unfortunately she needs to sort out herself, it's just unfortunate that this has impa... (read in full...)
How can I get out of a friends with benefits relationship?
Q. I'm in a friends-with-benefits relationship, but I want out. Any ideas on how I can go about this? I'm not sure how to just cut it off :\ please help :) many thanks. ...
A. 4 March 2010: Perhaps try telling him you feel like the situation you're in is stopping you from meeting other people, or preventing other guys from becoming close to you. Does it make you feel guilty?
Then, be friends with him, but don't go to see him alon... (read in full...)
I'm worried about my friend. Why does she keep going back to him after all he does?
Q. Alright, a friend of mine is being in relationship for almost 5 years. My friend, who is a she, is turning 19 this year and her bf is 22. Their relationship isn't going smooth. Her bf was being unfaithful to her once in the past but she has forgiven ...
A. 4 March 2010: Unfortunately she's probably in that trap of thinking that the bad is worth the good;it makes it all to easy to get sucked back in. All i can say is voice your concerns, and tell her you're willing to support her if she wants out. However, it'll ... (read in full...)
I told him I wanted a divorce because of his porn use, and he refused. What can I do?
Q. I need some advice on my marriage. This month i will be married for 4years, we have 2 children 2 1/2 and 10 years. I have caught my husband plenty of times where he will sit and watch porn on the internet and also masturbate to it and every now and ...
A. 4 March 2010: As far as i can see, you've been making a real effort to change his ways. But why not try to meet him halfway?
It was wrong of him to say he wouldn't do it anymore and then continue to do so. However,most males,even when in a rela... (read in full...)
How can I give the best blowjob, when I hate doing it?
Q. how can I give the best BJ!!! the thing is i hate giving bj but i husband loves it.....and I'm willing to do anything for him can i have some advice on how I can give the best BJ thanks...
A. 4 March 2010: Hi! Well, to begin with. If you really don't like doing it, should your husband not respect that?
if you still want some tips, i don't see how it'll make you enjoy it anymore, but he will. When he comes, assuming you swallow it, don't just leav... (read in full...)
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