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writes:how can I give the best BJ!!! the thing is i hate giving bj but i husband loves it.....and I'm willing to do anything for him can i have some advice on how I can give the best BJ thanks Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): Take a bath together before hand so you are both clean. Then get in the mood and do your thing. You can also use your hands as well while you are pleasing him with your mouth. There are also some flavored lubes out there that may make it a little more adventurous and not seem so unpleasant. Pay attention to what he likes by the sounds he makes or ask him what he wants you to do. Spice it up with some toys. If you get a little creative, you might enjoy the experience more. Just make sure it's your turn after he has experienced his!
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reader, hunnie poo +, writes (5 March 2010):
hunnie poo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionawwww thanks to everyone who make the time to share a few words to me.....I'll try them all and see what happen next.
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): It's a bit difficult to advise you on BJ's when you may not have the right frame of mind towards giving them... It's not for everyone's liking or doing, male or female. But as it is, your husband enjoys it so you must be doing something right; right?
Even though you hate it, you're still prepared to finding a better technique... And perhaps it would be better if you approach this within ‘your’ comfort zone before you completely go off the idea of giving them full stop.
I believe your mental approach has a lot to do with giving BJ’s and secondly what you get from performing them. It’s empowering your sexual ego…
Try some porn-sites on giving BJ’s and take from it what you can within your comfort zone. There’s no need for you to compare with them as there’s no love involved with what they are doing! Just take from it what you can; as technique improves over time and practise. But you will have to change your thinking to a more passionate state of mind… As it will help you build confidence in pleasuring your Husband as he will feel how much he’s desired when you free yourself from hating it.
Have fun!
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): just google search it, you can get loads of hints and tips from various websites, however pay lots of attention to the head of the penis as that is the most sensitive part, it'll soon become apparent whether or not hes enjoying it :) you could always go with the flow thats what my girlfriend did a year ago, she had never done it before and if you just ask him to keep you right with what he does and doesnt like then it'll be fine :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 March 2010): A good girlfriend of mine makes a joke about "laying on the beach." That's her code term for giving a BJ and she uses it because she imagines herself laying on the beach in Hawaii instead of doing that. First of all - make sure you guys have a good reciprocal relationship on this. Does he please you sexually as well?
Secondly, never do anything you really don't want to do. You can't make yourself really like this, but you can make it not that bad if you truly love your husband and want to do this sometimes. Ask him to make it tidy down there - does he trim up the forest and keep it clean? That's SO important. Nobody wants to take their mouth to a dirty area! If he knows it means more bj's, then he'll probably do whatever you want when it comes to hygiene. Also, imagine that you're making out with his penis, imagine yourself somewhere else doing something you love, do it only when you're really aroused after some foreplay, and make sure above all that you feel safe and respected. :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Just watch the teeth, and close your mouth slightly moreso when you're going down, then when going back the other way.Don't appear to rush it, but don't go too slow on it either. If you don't enjoys giving bj's, one of those two things will happen if you're not careful. You can fondle his bag and he might like it or not.. The main thing is don't treat it like you're sucking it dry, but keep it wet as much as possible. Let your saliva build up, not disappear. Enjoy how slopping wet it is, and don't hold back. It might help to 69, since you might get hornier when he's munching your pussy from the other end. You can build yourself up about his cock until you want can't wait to get f**ked by it.
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reader, janniepeg  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 First step is your attitude. Do it to show you worship him. Go deep to show him how much you want him. Avoid touching it with your teeth. Lick his shaft, frenulum, balls, and yes, under it too. Hold his shaft, pull it downward and feel how big he is. Kiss the head like it's a lip balm. Yum. Finish it by drinking his cum.
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reader, brigid.imagine  +, writes (4 March 2010):
 Hi! Well, to begin with. If you really don't like doing it, should your husband not respect that?
if you still want some tips, i don't see how it'll make you enjoy it anymore, but he will. When he comes, assuming you swallow it, don't just leave it at that. Run your tongue down him one more time, or stroke him with your fingers.Also, when you're holding it and actually in the act,my boyfriend likes it if i stroke that area with my fingers!Or let my hair fall on him.i'm not a fan either,but my boy loves it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Hmm...well talk to him about it. And maybe instead of giving bjs do hjs(hand jobs)
Find out what it is you hate about doing it and if there is a way to fix it then do so.
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